Recieved NOIR

[Ali12345 2]

4 minutes ago, Pennycat said:

 

Not really. They're going to want to see your Virginia driver's licence, your bank statements going to your new address etc. Also, you don't need to bother with notaries, you just include the phrase " l declare under penalty of perjury (under the laws of the United States of America) that the foregoing is true and correct". A notary just proves the identity of the person who signed it; not that they're telling the truth. 

Also, if you're trying to hide where you now live, the zipcode gives it away (I live close by, recognize it). 

 

I think that this point, you need to involve a lawyer. NOIRs are serious, you've got a few other complications and don't seem to be understanding what people are telling you to do (and... are you really moving to Virginia? If you're not, they will know in 5 seconds). 

 

The bottom line here is that people who are married almost always share finances. That is pretty much the #1 proof they're looking for. You can find whatever excuse you want for not being able to provide that kind of proof, but thousands of people in your situation manage to every year. And they're not even trying to generate proof for immigration-- they're just living their lives as typical married couples (although separated by distance). You keep saying "we can't, we don't live together yet" as if there aren't thousands of other married couples who don't live together yet. I won't pass judgement on the bona fides of the marriage (bona fide is different than legal), but I will tell you that given the lack of evidence you gave, the NOIR and your general approach to this, it is clear that you left a strong impression with the government that you're doing this for immigration purposes. You'll need more help than Visajourney can give to overcome that impression. 

All I can say that am doing my best to bring my wife and I dont lie and yeah i, will move to vergenia , but at end if any thing happen and they deny I will simply leave usa ,what else I can do ?!!

[Pennycat 880]

Just now, Ali12345 said:

All I can say that am doing my best to bring my wife and I dont lie and yeah i, will move to vergenia , but at end if any thing happen and they deny I will simply leave usa ,what else I can do ?!!

I didn't say you're lying. I am saying that you have given the government the impression that this is about immigration, not marriage.  Whether you've intended to or not, that is the impression you made with them. Even just saying the words "I am doing the best to bring my wife" is more about the moving than it is about the marriage. People here are trying to help you, and you keep explaining how that won't work. You either need a professional at this point, or I suppose prepare to move home. It's clear that you're in over your head, and you aren't taking the advice here. 

 

And... just to note.... the letter from your friend says "is currently living with me" and you said "will move to Virginia". So. One of these two things isn't true.

[Ali12345 2]

4 minutes ago, Pennycat said:

I didn't say you're lying. I am saying that you have given the government the impression that this is about immigration, not marriage.  Whether you've intended to or not, that is the impression you made with them. Even just saying the words "I am doing the best to bring my wife" is more about the moving than it is about the marriage. People here are trying to help you, and you keep explaining how that won't work. You either need a professional at this point, or I suppose prepare to move home. It's clear that you're in over your head, and you aren't taking the advice here. 

 

And... just to note.... the letter from your friend says "is currently living with me" and you said "will move to Virginia". So. One of these two things isn't true.

Yeah am between vergenia and pa , and if u see the date its before almost a year , and I meant I will move permanently when my wife come to usa

[Ben&Zian 4,397]

I would move and be able to show you have residency in Virginia before the next interview attempt, not just "intent to",  or it can just cause another rejection. And please do fix the limited proof of marriage items you have or again, it will just get returned again. Take the advice given here of the people who know a lot about these things and how the embassy and the CO looks at it all. 

 

All of us have been through some form of immigration process, whether as the petitioner or the beneficiary. The people on here can help you if you listen to them.

Edited November 20, 2018 by Ben&Zian

[Pennycat 880]

5 minutes ago, Ali12345 said:

Yeah am between vergenia and pa , and if u see the date its before almost a year , and I meant I will move permanently when my wife come to usa

Please see a lawyer. If you proceed on your own, you'll be digging yourself a bigger hole. You do have options, people here have tried to help you with them but you aren't open to receiving them and you haven't really done a great job at managing this yourself. It's lawyer time.

 

And no, I didn't note the date. So that's even worse than before. An 18 month old letter from someone saying that you currently live with them, when  you NOW live elsewhere (and presumably don't have any other proof of residency? Don't pay taxes in Virginia, don't have a Virginia drivers' licence, no official mail going to your Virginia address) is absolutely no proof that you WILL live there in the future. 

[jcra615 53]

4 hours ago, Ali12345 said:

Ok we went to malysia for honey moon and we visited egypt also I have pictures for that , is it gonna help you think,

You can scan your passports showing the same entry / exit dates to those places. Hotel reservations, hotel bills, plane tickets, etc. There is more for vacations (especially international ones!) that you can provide other than simply pictures. 

[NYCruiser 423]

4 hours ago, adil-rafa said:

• If u married now for more than 2 years,  she should have applied to IRS with form W7 for ITIN so u could add her to tax returns for the last 2 years
• Getting ITIN allows you to add her (with a POA from her) to your bank account
• these are the types of proof they are asking for (commingling of assests
• if u can not supply this type of proof of a real marriage,  you need to do the above for 2018 taxes and then refile your CR1

You need to come up with solid proof such as Wills, Power of Attorney, Living Wills, favouring each of you, bank accounts, Credit Cards, Life Insurance, Travel Insurance, Photos (a few), log of chats on Whatsapp, Notarised statements of friends/Relatives (US Citizens), Invitations to events etc...in descending list of importance

[Pennycat 880]

6 minutes ago, Carley said:

You can scan your passports showing the same entry / exit dates to those places. Hotel reservations, hotel bills, plane tickets, etc. There is more for vacations (especially international ones!) that you can provide other than simply pictures. 

They are far, far beyond simply proving that they've been on vacation together. Basically what's happened is that they appear to have nothing in the way of any financial co-mingling whatsoever-- he's not helping support her etc. That's not normal, or helpful for immigration in and of itself but add in that they're cousins and they very well may have tripped off someone's antennae that this is more about family migration than it is about this  marriage. Again, I personally am NOT making any judgement here, just pointing out the potential downfalls of presenting with this combination of facts, and their outcome (NOIR) as evidence that that's probably what happened. 

[Love To Teach 161]

4 minutes ago, NYCruiser said:

You need to come up with solid proof such as Wills, Power of Attorney, Living Wills, favouring each of you, bank accounts, Credit Cards, Life Insurance, Travel Insurance, Photos (a few), log of chats on Whatsapp, Notarised statements of friends/Relatives (US Citizens), Invitations to events etc...in descending list of importance

I'm not so sure Power of Attorney would be so good to give to someone who lives far away. If you had an accident or something happened to you that you needed immediate decisions, I don't think that would work too well. 

[NYCruiser 423]

Just now, Love To Teach said:

I'm not so sure Power of Attorney would be so good to give to someone who lives far away. If you had an accident or something happened to you that you needed immediate decisions, I don't think that would work too well. 

I would recommend a dual power of attorney. Same as in Will...two people on it working together something like that. As someone said, get an Attorney

[Just Paul 4,591]

There are simple things you can do:   

Add her to your life insurance . . . if you don't have get it.

Add her to your bank account . . .  banks vary.  I was able to add her to my credit union and a smaller bank account.  Was't able to add her to my Chase account.

Add her to a credit card account . . . again this varies.  Easy to add online to Capital One, hard to do with Chase and Citibank.

Add her name to your apartment lease etc

Add her name to an utility account/  I added her to my cable bill.

 

As others have pointed out since you have been married for two years you should have put her on you taxes.

 

Or just hire an attorney and they can tell you what to do.

[jcra615 53]

4 minutes ago, Pennycat said:

They are far, far beyond simply proving that they've been on vacation together. Basically what's happened is that they appear to have nothing in the way of any financial co-mingling whatsoever-- he's not helping support her etc. That's not normal, or helpful for immigration in and of itself but add in that they're cousins and they very well may have tripped off someone's antennae that this is more about family migration than it is about this  marriage. Again, I personally am NOT making any judgement here, just pointing out the potential downfalls of presenting with this combination of facts, and their outcome (NOIR) as evidence that that's probably what happened. 

Haha, of course! They certainly can't just provide plane tickets. There is much, much more that they need to provide. Just trying to offer one idea beyond the standard "vacation picture" route that he seemed to be considering. 

[Ali12345 2]

9 minutes ago, USS_Enterprise said:

I have to make a login just to say: It's Virginia, not "vergenia". If you can't spell the name of the state you're supposedly live in, ...

Ididnt say am living there I said I will move there and I always in virgenia 

[geowrian 22,335]

2 minutes ago, Ali12345 said:

Ididnt say am living there I said I will move there and I always in virgenia 

You submitted a letter stating that you are currently residing with somebody else in Virginia. This was dated June 30th, 2017.

Also: " I curantly staying,with my friend Do you think this is good prove that I live in vergenia ?  "

[dwheels76 5,459]

2 hours ago, Ali12345 said:

So how can I do the affidavit , do they have to just write it and sign it and send it to more info about this point plz

Here's an example of an affidavit.

Affidavit Attesting to Marriage.doc