Unlucky 200 plus day club

[Pauie18 56]

1 minute ago, Helike said:

Naaaah don't even think about this horror scenario. The thing is, the person working on your case was on 2 months honey moon and then called in sick, coz he or she caught a cold on the plane on the way back home. Thats the reason... makes sense, doesn`t it?

God. I work when I'm sick! Why can't he/she!? 😂 I'm kind of thankful for this thread.. 😂 I can't really vent to my fiance about how stressed I am cuz when I do he stresses out and then we cry. So were at the point where we just try to stay strong for each other. But venting sometimes helps u know. 

[Helike 93]

5 minutes ago, Pauie18 said:

God. I work when I'm sick! Why can't he/she!? 😂 I'm kind of thankful for this thread.. 😂 I can't really vent to my fiance about how stressed I am cuz when I do he stresses out and then we cry. So were at the point where we just try to stay strong for each other. But venting sometimes helps u know. 

I agree with you 100 %!! We sometimes fight because of all that xD, I am stressed and annoyed and he is more like  "be patient, we are not the only ones going through this, it will happen when it happens" but that's not what I want to hear from him in this Moment and then I freak out...haha This process is horrible, but I think if we can make in through this, we can make it through everything... lol

[Alex&Vivi 80]

2 hours ago, jocelyn23 said:

Hello did you include to count sat & sunday in 200 days? 

 

Hello did you include to count the saturday and sunday in 200 days? Or just 6 months

Hello! 197 calendar days included every day! the wait is crazy

[Orientalelf 50]

29 minutes ago, Pauie18 said:

Yeah. I know. 227 and I'm feeling so tired. Do u have a theory on why it's taking your case so long? Do you think you did something wrong on the I-129f? 

All I'm able to decipher is that uscis have no system. Like sticking a hand down a bag and picking out random cases to approve.
Out of all the 200+ days people I've spoken to within the past 2 weeks, all have been approved/rfe'd and ours is left behind.   
We both don't have criminal records. We're just a young couple trying to start a life.
But enough complaining on my part... 

Pertaining to your case,  I'd say don't stress. It can't be worse than mine lol Plus, you've already made an inquiry, so they can't hide for much longer. I know it's very stressful but like I mentioned above, everyone I talk too gets approved sooner or later! Just have hope and try to keep busy.  
 

Edited November 9, 2018 by Orientalelf

[Pauie18 56]

6 minutes ago, Helike said:

I agree with you 100 %!! We sometimes fight because of all that xD, I am stressed and annoyed and he is more like  "be patient, we are not the only ones going through this, it will happen when it happens" but that's not what I want to hear from him in this Moment and then I freak out...haha This process is horrible, but I think if we can make in through this, we can make it through everything... lol

Haha.  God. I hate the "just be patient" line. 😂 But ur right. I feel like this process has made us stronger.  All good things are worth the wait. And he is the best thing in my life. Weve decided not to talk about the petition anymore and focus on the wedding! We're having a Disney inspired themed wedding! 😍 

[Pauie18 56]

10 minutes ago, Orientalelf said:

All I'm able to decipher is that uscis have no system. Like sticking a hand down a bag and picking out random cases to approve.
Out of all the 200+ days people I've spoken to within the past 2 weeks, all have been approved/rfe'd and ours is left behind.   
We both don't have criminal records. We're just a young couple trying to start a life.
But enough complaining on my part... 

Pertaining to your case,  I'd say don't stress. It can't be worse than mine lol Plus, you've already made an inquiry, so they can't hide for much longer. I know it's very stressful but like I mentioned above, everyone I talk too get's approved sooner or later! Just have hope and try to keep busy.  
 

LOL! Well I hope you act as an angel and we get approved soon. I'll even accept an rfe. 😂  As for Your case.  U can complain all u want. U deserve it. My fiance and I are 26 and we just want to be together and finally start our life and family together. We have no criminal records or children or past spouses. Nothing. And yet uscis give us nothing too.  At the beginning of the petition I was so hopeful, and now the hope has left the building. Just like Elvis. 😑😑😑😂

[Dinaand 26]

we also wait 210 days

[iwir 337]

1 hour ago, Pauie18 said:

OH. Well that's good news for you then! Right? Rfe means they have to respond in so many days. And it's unusual to get denied right?  You'll see your loved one soon then.  As for me, I'd kill for an rfe. 😂  You're still luckier than some. 

I have my date twins who got RFE sooner than I did. I thought I would trade anything as long as I got something. It turned out I got approved without RFE and my timeline is now faster than hers.

 

On NVC stage, I was moving faster than those who got NOA2 sooner than me. Please the only thing that makes it worse is comparing your timeline with someone else's.  Your NOA2 is coming and your time with your fiance is coming soon. It's easy for me to say but I understand how everyone is feeling right now. But you have to trust the process.

[Helike 93]

16 minutes ago, Pauie18 said:

Haha.  God. I hate the "just be patient" line. 😂 But ur right. I feel like this process has made us stronger.  All good things are worth the wait. And he is the best thing in my life. Weve decided not to talk about the petition anymore and focus on the wedding! We're having a Disney inspired themed wedding! 😍 

I can take the patient line from everybody else, but not my man, he should be freaking out with me xD xD Xd...nah it is good that he is calm, so he is bringing me down... we also try not to talk about it, but it is not so easy. Wow you guys are already so far in your plans, we didn't even think about all that, first tryi to make it thru this torture xD

[Pauie18 56]

7 minutes ago, iwir said:

I have my date twins who got RFE sooner than I did. I thought I would trade anything as long as I got something. It turned out I got approved without RFE and my timeline is now faster than hers.

 

On NVC stage, I was moving faster than those who got NOA2 sooner than me. Please the only thing that makes it worse is comparing your timeline with someone else's.  Your NOA2 is coming and your time with your fiance is coming soon. It's easy for me to say but I understand how everyone is feeling right now. But you have to trust the process.

Thank you for the small glimmer of hope your giving us. I hope your right and it comes soon. 

[Pauie18 56]

4 minutes ago, Helike said:

I can take the patient line from everybody else, but not my man, he should be freaking out with me xD xD Xd...nah it is good that he is calm, so he is bringing me down... we also try not to talk about it, but it is not so easy. Wow you guys are already so far in your plans, we didn't even think about all that, first tryi to make it thru this torture xD

Well the planning is kind of helping us get through the torture.  Like we're Planning on his first meal in California to be at in n out! Haha. Were planning on honeymooning at big bear all snuggled near a campfire and a jaccuzi. 😂 We love planning out the little details or trying to picture what it would be like when he's actually here. He says he'll bring me milk tea every afternoon at work, just so he can see me.. 😂  We try not to focus on the petition, but man, it's still always at the back of my mind. I check the websites like 10 times a day since August. 😑

[VanillaCats 12]

1 hour ago, Pauie18 said:

I just did a case inquiry. We're at 227 days. When did u file one and how many days after did you get the reply? Was it an email? 

No my fiancé got a physical letter sent to him. We got a reply after 18 days of sending the case inquiry. 

[iwir 337]

Think of it like this. You're checking out at a grocery store. One line is moving faster while others are slower. You might be on one of those slower lanes right now. When I saw some april filers got approved when me from January was still waiting, I thought it wasn't fair. But it is what it is. I'm glad my fiance is more calm and we got through this still alive and hopeful with our future together. Trust me, nobody is left behind. I wish you all smooth sailing on this journey

[Helike 93]

25 minutes ago, Pauie18 said:

Well the planning is kind of helping us get through the torture.  Like we're Planning on his first meal in California to be at in n out! Haha. Were planning on honeymooning at big bear all snuggled near a campfire and a jaccuzi. 😂 We love planning out the little details or trying to picture what it would be like when he's actually here. He says he'll bring me milk tea every afternoon at work, just so he can see me.. 😂  We try not to focus on the petition, but man, it's still always at the back of my mind. I check the websites like 10 times a day since August. 😑

Aww that is so cute...my man is sooooo far away from being to romantic, so there is no planning for me at all xD I always have it in my mind too, it is like an addiction to check the websites. I think after all that I Need a rehab.

[Roxy and Emmy 43]

4 hours ago, Helike said:

I was hoping to be there before X-Mas, I gave up on this long time ago, it is so heartbreaking and not really making sense, to wait for a RFE 7 months. What was your RFE about?

They wanted my divorce decree and our civil union stuff (we got a civil union in Ecuador). And wedding ceremony proof. So it was a lot of stuff. Maybe that will delay it more...what about yours? Second that about Christmas ughh