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[Crazy Cat 39,193]

21 minutes ago, Amrooooo said:

I know I just need to know how long it takes to refuse because I know they refuse fast when they see no solution. Maximum 45 days or less than 2 months 

Hopefully, they will approve your visa.  If not, then expect your wife to get a "Notice of intent to deny" letter.  Then the case would be sent back to USCIS.......How long?  Could be months.

[Amrooooo 0]

We will wait for another 2 yrs or so if they refuse because she comes often every 3 or 4 months. I do appreciate your reply and good luck to you aswell

[Lemonslice 4,549]

1 hour ago, Amrooooo said:

We will wait for another 2 yrs or so if they refuse because she comes often every 3 or 4 months. I do appreciate your reply and good luck to you aswell

She should plan more frequent and/or much longer stays.

[Amrooooo 0]

Yes 3 months is not enough. How often do you think should meet each other ?

[geowrian 22,335]

There is no fixed timeline...it could be weeks or months or even longer. The CO seems skeptical of the legitimacy of the marriage. I don't/won't judge, but I will say they have cause to suspect something fishy is going on because the circumstances are quite unusual to be married for so long and only now try to live together on a permanent basis.

[Amrooooo 0]

Ppl when get married fast and file fast it's skeptical and they consider it for immigration purposes and we get married after meeting several times for at least 6 times within a year and meant not to file fast to prove also that this is a permanent marriage and not for immigration but they are also skeptical 

[Michael2017 368]

4 hours ago, Amrooooo said:

Ppl when get married fast and file fast it's skeptical and they consider it for immigration purposes and we get married after meeting several times for at least 6 times within a year and meant not to file fast to prove also that this is a permanent marriage and not for immigration but they are also skeptical 

I agree that here are much weaker cases. Meeting one time and getting married and stuff. Your case seems more like a loose relationship rather than a typical marriage, but it does not sound like fraud. It is everyone's personal decision how he builds his life and marriage. I think they may not be happy and make some background checks, but if you are in a real but unusual marriage, I still believe you will get the visa.

[Amrooooo 0]

I hope they will make background checks before they decide.

Thank you so much. I wish you the best and good luck :-)

[David & Diana R 1,005]

23 hours ago, missileman said:

You've been married for 8 years,, and you haven't lived together? No co-mingled finances, no evidence of a real marriage other than saying your wife visits because of her job?

What is done is now done.  All you can do is wait until their decision.

I'm sorry, but this might be a long and less-than-perfect outcome.

 

 

23 hours ago, missileman said:

You've been married for 8 years,, and you haven't lived together? No co-mingled finances, no evidence of a real marriage other than saying your wife visits because of her job?

What is done is now done.  All you can do is wait until their decision.

I'm sorry, but this might be a long and less-than-perfect outcome.

 

I agree with this.  If I were the CO I would have denied you on the spot.  Talk about a huge red flag!  Fill in your timeline and profile so we can answer questions better.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

23 hours ago, Amrooooo said:

Yes bec I need to buy the house in cash so if it's not marriage so what is ? We are not young ppl to marry and divorce at this age or we will be every one alone rest of his life

Why can't you live with her in the USA?  Why do you have to buy your own house?  Why would you have to buy the house in cash??  You could've came here got a job and bought a house a long time ago.

22 hours ago, Amrooooo said:

I know I just need to know how long it takes to refuse because I know they refuse fast when they see no solution. Maximum 45 days or less than 2 months 

No one can answer this.  There is no maximum.

Edited September 5, 2017 by LionessDeon

[David & Diana R 1,005]

11 hours ago, Amrooooo said:

Ppl when get married fast and file fast it's skeptical and they consider it for immigration purposes and we get married after meeting several times for at least 6 times within a year and meant not to file fast to prove also that this is a permanent marriage and not for immigration but they are also skeptical 

Wait, your story keeps changing.  You started out that she was visiting every 3 or 4 months.  Now you say she visits every two months?  If you don't answer honestly or accurately it's very difficult for anyone to help you.  I can see why the CO gave you your passport back. 

[Amrooooo 0]

Everything is recorded on the passport and we gave them copies of all the trips and she used to come every 2 months bec she used to let her coworkers work for her but she can't do that all the time so now she comes in October, February and June every time for 2 weeks

[Crazy Cat 39,193]

23 minutes ago, Amrooooo said:

Everything is recorded on the passport and we gave them copies of all the trips and she used to come every 2 months bec she used to let her coworkers work for her but she can't do that all the time so now she comes in October, February and June every time for 2 weeks

I think "loose relationship" is a pretty accurate description of that arrangement....at least in the eyes of the CO.  It sounds like you two are actually together about 6 weeks a year....for several years....it sounds like it's her vacation time.....which is not necessarily a problem.

Where does she live when she is not with you?

Edited September 5, 2017 by missileman

[Crazy Cat 39,193]

OP-  You and your wife really, really, really need some co-mingled financial and legal documents which clearly show you two are both actively involved in a relationship.  Bank documents (which you don't have right now), insurance documents, wills, trust documents, health care proxy statements.......anything which indicates the joint relationship.

[Amrooooo 0]

All couples aren't living together when they apply and I see some never see each other for yrs and have seen each other only few times maybe doesn't exceed twice