5 Things My Ex-Husband Could Have Done To Save Our Marriage

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Actually, I think thats sort of healthy. My wife went to see her parents awhile back. I both missed her but also really enjoyed the time alone as well.

If you are feeling like that it just means you need to carve a bit of "me" time...not divorce papers.

Hell yah, I get to do my own stuff, eat all the junk food I want.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Actually, I think thats sort of healthy. My wife went to see her parents awhile back. I both missed her but also really enjoyed the time alone as well.

If you are feeling like that it just means you need to carve a bit of "me" time...not divorce papers.

The yahoo lady said she didn't even miss her husband when he left. There in lies a problem. It's ok to take some me time but you're supposed to miss your spouse in the process.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

You obviously don't work as hard as I do, young lady.

I know more about porn than anyone on this site. I'll brb!

Please don't send us a copy of your collection. Lol

[Jacque67 7,328]

Please don't send us a copy of your collection. Lol

I was gonna upload some....ya don't know what your missing.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I agree with with the above.

So why are these common issues amongst women? Give me your opinion please

[Jacque67 7,328]

[Rob L 3,811]

Please don't send us a copy of your collection. Lol

You couldn't handle my collection..........

[Janelle2002 3,865]

http://youtu.be/eCrGpT84G9Y

The William H. Macy seen was funnier. Go youtube it

Edited June 9, 2016 by Janelle2002

[Jacque67 7,328]

You couldn't handle my collection..........

Hmm, that's pretty hard core. Respect!

[The Nature Boy 7,659]

Why is it so painful for the man to help a little with the kids and the house so that the woman will have enough energy and time to break him off some?

It's such a logical solution

Break him off some. ?? I have new found admiration for you now.

So if the wife does not work or have kids, do you think it's unfair that she be responsible for the house chores etc, as long as he operates the power machinery

[elmcitymaven 9,711]

You couldn't handle my collection..........

I don't think I could even pick up your collection, Grandpa.

[Jacque67 7,328]

http://dangerousminds.net/comments/effectively_killed_by_porn_in_the_early_80s_sony_vows_to_discontinue_beta1

[FxL 39]

So why are these common issues amongst women? Give me your opinion please

When I lived in the Philippines and my husband and I moved into our own place, my husband was really messy. His family grew up with so many helpers (yayas) to wash his clothes, clean up after him, cook for him, etc. So I ended up having to pick up his clothes on the floor, throw away his garbage he left laying around, etc. I talked to him about how frustrating it is, and I remind him every time to mind his mess because I don't want to just be the one cleaning all the time. It was communication, putting my frustration and annoyance aside and talked to him and he'd do the same for me. In the mornings, afternoon, and evenings he'd have to cook and he got tired - he told me about it and taught me to cook so I can cook when he's to exhausted to from work.

OP, can I ask, did you talk to him about how you felt working and then going home to do all the cleaning and taking care of the kids by yourself? I'm not judging you, just wondering.

[Jacque67 7,328]

When I lived in the Philippines and my husband and I moved into our own place, my husband was really messy. His family grew up with so many helpers (yayas) to wash his clothes, clean up after him, cook for him, etc. So I ended up having to pick up his clothes on the floor, throw away his garbage he left laying around, etc. I talked to him about how frustrating it is, and I remind him every time to mind his mess because I don't want to just be the one cleaning all the time. It was communication, putting my frustration and annoyance aside and talked to him and he'd do the same for me. In the mornings, afternoon, and evenings he'd have to cook and he got tired - he told me about it and taught me to cook so I can cook when he's to exhausted to from work.

OP, can I ask, did you talk to him about how you felt working and then going home to do all the cleaning and taking care of the kids by yourself? I'm not judging you, just wondering.

Janelle's busy cleaning the oven right now. Ask Marv...but he might be in the middle of something, so...

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Break him off some. ?? I have new found admiration for you now.

So if the wife does not work or have kids, do you think it's unfair that she be responsible for the house chores etc, as long as he operates the power machinery

If the couple has no kids and she stays at home and he works, yes, she should take care of the home. I do agree.

The problem comes in when the man wants to have children just like the woman, but because he works and she doesn't he thinks staying at home isn't exhausting when you have step ladder kids running around the house and this isn't true.