Fiance Has Another Fiancee and Another Visa

[Boiler 43,432]

How would she contact this Swiss lady assuming she exists?

[HeandI 48]

^^^ this was my thought too....something sounds fishy and throwing the Switzerland curve ball might give him the time he needs to get into the US using the visa he has in hand. You need to get things rolling here fast to have the visa cancelled, it may already be too late, who knows he sounds like a real piece of work ugh.

I agree. I believe at some point he will come to the U.S. I Know how majority of these Jamaican men thinks, and I know at some point he well Rip that Swiss woman off and run to the U.S. and live illegal like some have done.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Possible Switzerland is a fabrication to cover his entry into the US.

Who knows?

I agree.

OP, he seems to be overcompensating and distracting you away from planning to entering the US so you won't bother

interfering with his entry by informing the appropriate agencies.

He is just trying way too hard showing you the other visa and pics with her etc....

Unless he really had several eggs in several baskets, it happens, in case plan A doesn't work out some have a plan B escape route.

I find it extremely weird though that both visas were issued so close within days ? What a coincident ?! I think his sister is in on it all and

doubt he is in Switzerland.

So sorry you now have to switch from expecting a joyful reunion to being so hurt and devastated. It will take some time to process what happened

to you but take it easy and in time this terrible thing will be the open door for true love to step in with someone who really loves you.

Do what Darnell said as soon as possible.

[san diego 407]

I would also try to cancel his Swiss fiance visa

1) Gather all the evidence that he was together with both of you and asked two women to file for visa: pics, his texts, etc

2) Send it all to Swiss embassy in Jamaica.

3) Google what is swiss immigration authority, federal.

4) Send this evidence to them too.

[NCPW 53]

^^^ this was my thought too....something sounds fishy and throwing the Switzerland curve ball might give him the time he needs to get into the US using the visa he has in hand. You need to get things rolling here fast to have the visa cancelled, it may already be too late, who knows he sounds like a real piece of work ugh.

Nope, He is in Switzerland. He sent photos of the stamped visa yesterday.

[Boiler 43,432]

We have evidence

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[HeandI 48]

Did you purchase a ticket already, cancel his ticket right away... And please don't be lured and forgive him if he come begging.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

The stamped visa could possibly be fake.

[NCPW 53]

Thank you, everyone for your kind words and advise.

Yes, I did cancel his flight. I did this as soon as I found out about him going to EU.

Fortunately, I have an attorney who helped with the immigration process. She is making the appropriate calls/sending emails to ensure the authorities know the situation. The visa will be invalid ASAP.

She is also able to see if his visa has been used for entry to the U.S. and is monitoring it. It has not been used yet. I really do believe he is in Switzerland.

The U.S. visa did come through about a month prior to the Swiss one. He just decided she was the better option; she isn't "a pain in the ###".

I am done with him; I know it's better. It just hurts. I still can't wrap my head around him sending me the pictures and calling me with all the details. When I asked him why he stayed with me the whole time he said "you put me against you in my heart and I wanted to screw you over".

[Fan_Dancer 171]

I would also try to cancel his Swiss fiance visa

1) Gather all the evidence that he was together with both of you and asked two women to file for visa: pics, his texts, etc

2) Send it all to Swiss embassy in Jamaica.

3) Google what is swiss immigration authority, federal.

4) Send this evidence to them too.

I am pretty sure an American fiance cannot cancel a visa of another country.

All evidence can mean nothing for the Swiss. He did nothing illegal, short of being an #######.

[HeandI 48]

Did he showed you just a stamp or did he sent u a pic with the visa? Since he's so conniving and could possible be in Switzerland, if he ever message u again, just use your trick on him and say you don't believe him and you still believe you will see him soon and if her persit cussing and being rude try to get him to send a copy of the visa page, tell him you won't believe until you see the visa. I hope this will work if you do not have a pic of it already.

[Rayann 1]

Thanks for sharing your story... I hope you heal well from this horrible shock

[Sandra G. 5,016]

Feel blessed my dear, she is the one having the scumbag, you deserve better!

[ExPatty 502]

If I told you what I and most of us here think about him it wouldn't be polite. Be very glad this happened now rather than later.

[Lovelyus1229 6]

Be thankful that this man didn't get marry to you. It may hurt for now but soon you will only laugh and nod your head remembering how how the devil try to get a hold of your life but God is great and today you escape living in hell. Please follow what other members said. I will be prayin you will get over this soon.