after 3 months wife left me

[her25 2]

HELLO,

i need helps i have been with my wife for 14 years and we have 3 daughter. i became usa citizen 3 years ago so i did apply for her and the childrens to came to usa, well last january everything was approved and they care to usa.

After been to usa for 3 months my wife stars bring problem first she claim i work to much second she claim that she think i am seen another women outside are mariage so for that reason last april 4 we have some arguments i did not put my hand on my wife not even on my childrens, there all have receive they grren card.

Since i work at night i left home april 8 at 7 pm to work , when i return next day my wife was left the house with my 3 daughters , not one off them speak english .

I did contact the police 4 days after they told me that i wife call national domestique violence line so they came get them and send all them to women shelther , police sayd they can not tell me where they are.

So i need all helps to see what can i do i have my familly back to me they is some mix communication between me and my wife .

how her been at shelther can bring problem to are familly.

what can i do with immigration regarding that matter also its as been 30 days since they left and now my childrens are not going to school.

i need all information i can get from reader to helps me regarding that matter.

[Pitaya 2,576]

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[Boiler 43,386]

No immigration issues, they have their 10 year green cards so are good to go.

They do need to notify USCIS of their change of address.

[her25 2]

my wife do have only 2 years green card

[Boiler 43,386]

How long have you been married?

[her25 2]

we have been together for 14 years but i when to africa and we get mariage in other for her to came to usa so legaly we been mariage 2 years

[Boiler 43,386]

Then she will be able to remove conditions on her own after Divorce. 14 years and 3 children will be plenty of evidence to self petition.

[Mike-eeh and Odie 192]

What I want to know is, if your wife does not speak English, how in the world did she possibly communicate that you were abusing her to a police officer?

[sachin1 42]

What I want to know is, if your wife does not speak English, how in the world did she possibly communicate that you were abusing her to a police officer?

It is easy to do. call them talk in broken english and they will find interpreter.

Just move with your life. we know it is hard to do but that is only option at this time.

[CowBoE 429]

Sorry to hear the news...but think about this...

A mother of you 3 children do not simply run away to uncomfortable and strange shelter living

while in unfamiliar foreign country with limited English unless something very serious

have occurred at home...if not physically...then verbally.

Her being in shelter will make communication difficult (for obvious protection reasons),

but the door is not completely shut if you really want to have a chance to reunite.

Consider getting some counseling yourself. First to cope with the situation,

and to find deeper strength and wisdom to sincerely apologize for what has happen

so that they can accept you as a loving and caring husband and father...instead of the opposite.

Good luck and keep us posted...

[Ryan H 3,790]

***Post violating the TOS (abusive language) removed along with post quoting. Administrative Action taken.***

[blest.but.strest 50]

Very strange situation. If you guys had been together for a few months than I would understand what happened, but 14 years 3 kids, there must be more to this story. Is there a reason you didn't petition for them when you were a GC holder?

In all honesty man, if you really want your family back, all you can do is wait for your wife to contact you and try to patch everything up when she does contact you. Chasing your wife and your kids at shelters will only make you look like more of an abuser.

By the way what country are you from and what country is your wife from?

Edited May 11, 2015 by blest.but.strest

[Marco&Bettina 502]

Very strange situation. If you guys had been together for a few months than I would understand what happened, but 14 years 3 kids, there must be more to this story. Is there a reason you didn't petition for them when you were a GC holder?

In all honesty man, if you really want your family back, all you can do is wait for your wife to contact you and try to patch everything up when she does contact you. Chasing your wife and your kids at shelters will only make you look like more of an abuser.

By the way what country are you from and what country is your wife from?

I didn't think GC holder could petition a spouse.

[Boiler 43,386]

They certainly can. Have a bit of a wait.

Seems they were in a long term relationship and only got married about the time he naturalised. What GC holders can not do is the K1.

Edited May 11, 2015 by Boiler

[Cathi 5,607]

I didn't think GC holder could petition a spouse.

they absolutely can