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denali1022   26

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Im sorry to pull up this old thread but..... I really would love to get an update on your situation now. Its been over a year and as someone said back then a year from now you will be happy. I guess i just need to know if thats true. Are you divorced now? Still in the US? I hope our country has been good to you since youve been here. Your story is touching and intriguing.

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An Update Guys, Just 10 minutes ago I received my green card. Thanks a lot to all of you. Special thanks to Darnell, Damara & TBoneTX. You all guys helped me a lot

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Look on the bright side. Sounds like she's pretty high maintenance based on her alcoholism, and irresponsible attitude towards marriage and money. You deserve a happier life with a better spous

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I would have a word with your Employer and see if you can keep your job.

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Essiej   42

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I can't believe I read this while thread! I am so curious how he is doing

Filed k1 - 08/20/2015

NOA1 - 08/25/2015

NOA2 - 9/17/2015

NVC Received - 10/14/2015

Send to Amsterdam - 10/16/2015

Amsterdam received - 10/19/2015

Packet 3 in the mail - 10/22/2015

Packet 4 in the mail - 11/3/2015

Medical - 11/23/2015

Interview !!!! - 12/3/2015 Approved !!!

POE - 12/15/2015 (finally)

 

Wedding 01/15/2016 !!

 

AOS!

Filed AOS - 03/15/2017

Noa 1 - 03/30/2017

Biometrics - 04/21/2017
RFE - 04/10/2017

Send RFE back - 06/18/2017

RFE Received (status changed) - 06/27/2017

EAD/AP Approved - 09/18/2017

 

Filed N400 (Naturalization) - 03/24/2024

 

 

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I read the whole thread. This is a real story of a strong man. I hope he's doing okay. God bless you. Good people win finally ?

Met: Mid 2011

DATING: 4th NOVEMBER 2011 (F) :yes:

Engaged (USA): 30th APRIL 2014

Married( INDIA ): 20th MAY 2015 (L) (L)

VISA PROCESS BEGINS :cry:

USCIS JOURNEY :bonk:

I-130: 4th SEPTEMBER 2015

PRIORITY DATE: 4th SEPTEMBER 2015

SERVICE CENTER: NEBRASKA

RFE: 15th JANUARY 2016 :crying:

HARDCOPY RECEIVED: 28th JANUARY 2016(one passport size photo of my husband)

RFE SENT: 29th JANUARY 2016

RFE RECEIVED: 1st FEBRUARY 2016

I-130 APPROVED: 18th February 2016 (162days) :dancing:

NOA2 HARDCOPY RECEIVED- 27th FEBRUARY 2016

NVC TIME :clock:

I-130 SENT TO NVC- 29th FEBRUARY 2016

Received Case and Invoice Number- 15th March 2016

SUBMITTED DS-261- 15th March 2016

Visited husband in USA for 2months (22nd March TO 23rd May 2016) on Tourist Visa :goofy:

PAY AOS BILL - 7th APRIL2016

PAY IV BILL - 23rd APRIL 2016

SEND (AOS+IV) PACKAGE - 4th MAY 2016

NVC RECEIVED - 9th MAY 2016

SCAN DATE - 9th MAY 2016 :clock:

CASE COMPLETE - 10th JUNE 2016 :dancing:

NVC CC EMAIL RECEIVED- 17th JUNE 2016

MUMBAI CONSULATE TIME :clock:

The Real Game Begins :shocked:

MEDICAL - 20th JULY 2016

BIOMETRICS - 29th JULY 2016

INTERVIEW - 1st AUGUST 2016

RESULT- APPROVED :dancing: :dancing: :dancing: Visa ISSUED WITHIN 2HRS OF INTERVIEW :jest:

READY FOR PICKUP AT KOLKATA - 3rd AUGUST 2016

VISA COLLECTED - 4th AUGUST 2016

USA TIME :wub:

POE- 15th OCTOBER 2016

SSN- 7th NOVEMBER 2016

GREEN CARD- 30th NOVEMBER 2016

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Thanks to all of my Vj friends who helped me in toughest time of my life. I hope I as well no one in the world see days I have been in.

Thanks a lot to Tx bone, Damara, Darnell and all other again.

I am divorced today. I received email from my ex and she broke the news. She tried to convince me to come back but I was extremely afraid of this marriage and going back with her. She is just not stable with her life and decisions. I feel very lost and this is not what I expected from my life, but God knows what will be the next.

Mentally I kept myself to stay very strong to stay strong in this difficult situation.

For friends who wanted to know how I am doing. I am doing good. I am doing progress in my life ( apart from my marriage).

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You ARE strong, and worthy of as much respect as anyone on this site.

Thanks for returning with the (yes) positive update.

Keep us informed -- we care.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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kkk1   42

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I would like to ask an important question which is my instinct as well. My ex is going to marry this guy who is an immigrant as well, so if he has immigration interview and he is been asked about my ex's previous marriage( which was with me), they will make some ridiculous story. Does anyone here think I could take some action to save my image at USCIS. I do have emails and messages from my wife which clearly shows her behaviour towards me.

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That would be a no.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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That would be a no.

Thanks Bolier appreciated. Since, I am divorced now lots of questions comes to my mind. I am frequent traveller. I always have business trips lined up. Last month I got back from Singapore and Tiwan and now in couples of week I am flying to Canada and following that Costa Rica. Most of the time boarder officer asks me is when did you leave country and where we're you in this period? Where do you work and as what? No body asks me for anything else yet. Like my spouse or anything but now that I am divorced is there any possibility of me being bombarded withe questions or I am being paranoid, considering my ugly situation and awful married life??

Appreciate any answer and would like to stay prepared for the worst in life.

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Unlikely they would know about your divorce.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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I would like to ask an important question which is my instinct as well. My ex is going to marry this guy who is an immigrant as well, so if he has immigration interview and he is been asked about my ex's previous marriage( which was with me), they will make some ridiculous story. Does anyone here think I could take some action to save my image at USCIS. I do have emails and messages from my wife which clearly shows her behaviour towards me.

Let it go. Don't waste any more time on her and her drama. Let them make up any story they need. He'll probably be divorcing her soon enough, if she's as unstable as you said. LOL

As for your image with USCIS, it won't be affected by their story. No need to worry there.

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