denied petition

[chinita_10 1]

If i go home, i will be ban for 10 years? Is there no chances if we reconcile?

[Transborderwife 4,666]

If i go home, i will be ban for 10 years? Is there no chances if we reconcile?

You do not know about chances if you reconcile until you try. You could also already have a deportation order against you so you'd have the 10 year ban and then possibly some.

[lmatos1978 14]

There were personal ques asked, didnt expect that would be asked..i hope there still a chance

sounds like it was not a bona fide marriage and more like an arranged one. You are avoiding to answer our questions, who has supported all this years? sorry but you aren't getting a green card in the situation you are in.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

What is the reason that your husband withdrew the affidavit of support ? Why did you separate ?

Even if you failed the interview, I find it strange that nothing was done for 3 years and you and your husband went your separate ways to

the point that you aren't sure if he divorced you or not. Why did you not stay together ? Why did you not appeal the failed interview 3 years ago

or get an attorney involved ?

You are throwing your husband into this mix of all about the green card and it reads like you are very stressed about the green card and don't really care

about him and want to use him as a means to an end.

I suggest you narrate the whole story so you can get a real answer instead of one short sentence here and there. It is frustrating to read and none

of us have a crystal ball. Half disclosure yields half answers.

[Avery Cates 1,141]

I came here as fiance visa, we got Married before 90days, but we failed the interview. And aos denied. I dont know my status now. And what to do next

Your best course of action is the next available flight home to the Philippines.

[belinda63 2,981]

Let me start the story for you.

You came to the US on a K-1 visa. You married the petitioner within 90 days of arrival. You filed to adjust status. You failed the interview due to you and your spouse giving different answers to the same question. I assume this was a Stokes interview where you were separated and questioned individually. So there must have been some suspicion as to the authenticity of your relationship prior to the interview.

After you failed the interview your spouse withdrew the affidavit of support and your AOS was denied.

You and your spouse have lived apart for the past three or so years with little to no contact. Now you suddenly, three years later, want to reconcile with him so you can get a green card.

How have you survived for the past three years in the U.S. out of status? Have you worked? Have you presented yourself as a U.S. citizen?

Have you spoken to your spouse recently? Has he indicated he would like to reconcile?

Why haven't you gone back home in the past three years since your green card was denied?

[Name Display 15]

I do not mean to offend, but you really need to improve your English. You've been here for years now (according to your short, repetitive answers) and you can barely make yourself understandable.

There's a lot in this process that you would understand if you had learnt enough of the English language.

If you answered the interview questions in a similar way that you did here, I can see why they would be suspicious.

Edited May 7, 2015 by Cakes&Pies

[Jawaree 717]

she sounds like after GC or she has done contract marriage..... she does not wants to go back her country she wants her marraige to be fix just because she got denied for GC... sorry if i am wrong but she sounds like that.

Cold and judgmental.................she is looking for help & it seem her 1st

language is not English.....I agree some ppl are here for the benefits, but

we cant say for sure which ones.

[Lee&Ana 88]

Subscribed.

[jyaku 138]

If i go home, i will be ban for 10 years? Is there no chances if we reconcile?

Do you have a child born in the United States? When that child becomes 21 years of age, normally they can sponsor you to a green card but since you entered with a K-1, the only way was through your husband but he withdrew the application so that won't work anymore. In effect your K-1 route is cancelled.

You can try the baby way but don't be surprised if 21 years later, they say you have a deportation order out on you so your adjustment of status is denied.

This actually happened to my neighbor.. the deportation order after a bad interview > mother of a US citizen.

Edited May 7, 2015 by jyaku

[RoJ10 18]

First and foremost, there's nothing wrong with her English. She's not really telling us the whole story that is why everything is vague.

Second, chinita if you really wanted the people here to help you out with your situation it will be better to tell the whole story. You should not be afraid sharing personal story since we don't know you exactly in person and no one does.

I hope you won't mind sharing it, at least people could enlighten you with the best answer that suits to your situation.

[Tahoma 2,291]

Chinita,

If you would be more comfortable telling your story in Tagalog, you can do so in the Philippines forum. The moderators could move this thread to the Philippines forum if you ask them to do so.

[Boiler 43,359]

TnT?

[raven52 233]

I think there is way too many questions here that are vaguely answered, and not specific, just "what was your differences, and why were your answers so different at the interview".,.,.,

just too much ""HERE"" and very little information.,.,., please, we can help you.,but need specific info.

Good luck on what ever you decide. Hope you can stay, my wife is from Cebu, Phils..,.,she loves it here.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

No were not together, but were trying to be back to each other. I really dont know what happened after our interview. The decision all i know is that my husband wothdraw.the petition. If we back together can i have my gc?

YES as long as it is proven real