Please help! Trying to obtain info on my ex husband

[hatemheather 0]

on the form I-129F form it asks about previous spouses alien number if you filed for immigration stuff before... I was told to fill out the G-639, but I'm confused on how to fill it out. There seems to only be examples for the immigrant.... I can't obtain this from my ex. Can someone give me an example how to file for this??? If they have been through it? and what sort of thing to attach about how to obtain it faster?

[Unico 1]

You mean your ex Alien #? Mine i used "unknown" on that area hand written.

[hatemheather 0]

did you get approved? where are you on your immigration status? i spoke with a lawyer... he highly suggests i get that number, because it will prolong my process and eventually they will need a hold of that. especailly because my offical nasty divorce was finalized just march 7.

[Boiler 43,386]

Not sure I understand your situation, best to start with a timeline of events.

[hatemheather 0]

I just got my divorced finalized march 7, but was separated for 2 years and had been with someone else. going through this divorce was extremely tedious and hard. and i cant marry the man i love without divorcing this idiot first. i thought i was done with dealing with the ex. but it still came to haunt me due to him being an immigrant and i need his alien # which i can't obtain from him. there are no examples on how to fill this out or advice on how to expedite it(making it faster than waiting 1-2 months) just so i can answer two questions on the application! it's ridiculous :/

[Cody and Daisy 373]

I just got my divorced finalized march 7, but was separated for 2 years and had been with someone else. going through this divorce was extremely tedious and hard. and i cant marry the man i love without divorcing this idiot first. i thought i was done with dealing with the ex. but it still came to haunt me due to him being an immigrant and i need his alien # which i can't obtain from him. there are no examples on how to fill this out or advice on how to expedite it(making it faster than waiting 1-2 months) just so i can answer two questions on the application! it's ridiculous :/

The guides and example forms show you how to fill out the forms.

If you do not know his alien number it is not a huge issue, I imagine you could just put what you do know.

Also you cannot expedite it just because you don't want to wait 2 months.

Chances are you're looking at 5-10 months in total.

And you cannot expedite without legitimate reasons such as medical emergencies, extreamly financial hardship or humanitarian issues.

[hatemheather 0]

i did pay for a lawyer on here... since me being married to an immigrant and the divorce was so recent. they are going to be looking harder at us. so everything needs to be put. and he suggests i do the g-639.....but im so confused. im also confused why i need to have someone notarized my notary whatever that means. im still asking. and apparently have it stamped? i dont know why i cant just go into the immigration office and get it that same day.

[hatemheather 0]

I don't know if i should make copies of my medical records of even a letter from my pyshcitrist. i have severe anxiety disorder, as well as being bipolar. all of this is somewhat of a medical emergency because i need him here as soon as possible. He not only has been the love of my life, but he eases my mental illness. but my problem with writing that to my attachment of urgency is that maybe they wont approve us because they will think im too crazy and not thinking right. you still think we could possibly be approved within 6 months if i have to wait up to 2 months for this thing?

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Put unknown, then on an additional sheet put what information you do know. His name, his last known address, the country he came from , where he landed in the US, the date when he got his green card and where

[Boiler 43,386]

Immigration is a two way road, have you considered moving, probably quickest.

[hatemheather 0]

I have no idea where he landed in the US, or the date of when he got his green card (or if he even did). I wasn't aware he wasn't a citizen until after i married him.. he was secreative, a liar, and abusive. Getting him summoned was hard enough.

Put unknown, then on an additional sheet put what information you do know. His name, his last known address, the country he came from , where he landed in the US, the date when he got his green card and where

I WOULD LOVE TO MOVE TO HIM! but i have come wayyyy to far along in my studies to just throw it out the window. So yes moving there would be an option. but we also want our children to have the benefits and more choices by being born in the US.

[Cody and Daisy 373]

I have no idea where he landed in the US, or the date of when he got his green card (or if he even did). I wasn't aware he wasn't a citizen until after i married him.. he was secreative, a liar, and abusive. Getting him summoned was hard enough.

You're not making much sense.

I don't understand this.

You don't know where he landed in the states.

Or if he got a green card.

But when you married him you thought he was a citizen?

Did you go through a k1 with him? Because it sounds like you petitioned him.. Then how could you have thought he was a citizen?

[hatemheather 0]

Trust me, I'm just as much as confused as you are.... I married him just for impulse kind of like a vegas thing. I was heartbroken from a previous relationship, and i barely knew this guy. But i thought he was nice so i figured why not, i never have to worry to date again. I asked him if he was a citizen and he would give me a response like he was offended i'd even ask. i didnt go through any k1 visa. i didnt fill out any paperwork. but a month after marriage he tells me we need go sign some papers with his lawyer. turned out to be an immigration lawyer. i just went with the flow. So i guess since i signed i was the petitioner. i met him in new jersey. but i dont know here he orignially landed no... It doesnt make sense to me either, which is why it's so complicated.

You're not making much sense.
I don't understand this.
You don't know where he landed in the states.
Or if he got a green card.

But when you married him you thought he was a citizen?
Did you go through a k1 with him? Because it sounds like you petitioned him.. Then how could you have thought he was a citizen?

[Cody and Daisy 373]

Okay it's a bit clearer.

You don't need to write down an alien number for him. How would you know it? You didn't know he was an alien with no green card.

You met him, married him assuming he was a citizen and then it turned out he wasn't.

So just write down what you know on the forms.

[Boiler 43,386]

Back to needing a time line. Sounds like a lot of the information could be obtained from the lawyer.