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You saw this advert on internet dating services and you look at the woman/man pictures and you feel you liked him/her, then you email him/her and He/she responded, you both communicated for months and He/she visited you and then you both get married. Processing immigrants document for months and then you finanly went to meet together in United States. You both spend time together and sudenly you find out you were not really in love with this African lady or getntle man, or the african lady or gentle man is not really in love with you the American, and wants to go back or live alone. This may happen what will he or she do??

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Nigeria
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I believe that he or she should try it out for a while, try couseling as well and both make a major effort to try to work it out before thinking of the alternative of running out. If this is happening to you; i hope it gets better and good luck to you


06/06/05 I-130 NOA1

06/14/05 K-3 NOA1

07/08/05 k-3 NOA2

07/22/05 K-3 leaves NVC to Lagos

08/08/05 Hubby picks up interview packet from embassy

11/17/05 K-3 interview (denied, C.O refused to take co-sponsor for k-3)

12/16/05 I-130 NOA2

01/03/06 NVC assigns case number

02/15/06 Case complete (thank you James Shortcuts- only 6 weeks!)

04/19/06 tired of waiting, filed k-3 #2 ( petition is still lost in oblivion)

09/11/06 NVC scheduled CR-1 interview/ on to Lagos (thank God after 7 months of waiting!)

10/14/06 Interview date (success!)

10/18/06 Hubby goes to pick up visa- not ready ( ugh what's going on!)

10/19/06 Visa in hand ( thank you God!)

10/29/06 Together at last :)

Whole process 1 year and 4 months

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Filed: Country: Nigeria
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This is simple, if you and your spouse have found that your not in love, and you came here on a visa agreement to marry and live with your spouse ( K-1 ) you can both file for divorce and you can return home, as now there is no reason for you to be here.


idocare

NSC, NOA1 September 26th,03

received NOA1 in mail Oct. 03,03

RFE - received in mail March 29th,04

RFE returned April 17th,04

RFE received April 21,04 at NSC online

NOA2 received April 29th,04 via online

NOA2 received May 03,04 in mail

NVC receives file May 6th,04

NVC sends file to Nigeria May 11th,04

Lagos receives our file, notified thru e-mail May 19th,04

Victor goes and picks up packet #3....May 20th,04

Sent request for earlier interview date via e-mail May 20th,04

May 27th, Lagos won't change date.

August 16th, 2004 fly to Nigeria for Victors interview

August 19th, 2004 Interview date, visa approved.

August 25th, 2004 Victor picks up passport with visa stamp.

August 26th, 2004 fly back to USA

September 18th, 2004 Victor arrives in USA, Lord willing.

October 9th, 2004, we become husband and wife

October 25th, 2004 I learn that I'm pregnant.

Feburary 25th, 2005 AOS Appointment

( went to appt. and requested a reschedule)

June 7th, 05 gave birth to a boy child.

July 5th, 05 Victor packs he suitcase and leaves for good.

July 2005 2nd AOS appointment

( went and requested a reschedule )

August 2005- I file for divorce. and withdraw immigration paperwork.

Washington State/ Nigeria

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i'm sorry ... i have to laugh when people, who have not committed to each other, are advised to go to counseling ... there are SIX BILLION people on this planet!!!!! leave and go back (or respectfully send him/her back) to africa. there is nothing requiring them to stay ... since you are first meeting and the requirement for the K1 is meeting (and the K3 is marraige in which you would have had to met) ... you are not obligated any further.

you tried it and the spark was not there ... no harm, no foul! bid your acquaintance farewell and move on with your life.


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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Nigeria
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It's always the newbies..... :rolleyes: Isn't this what K1 was designed for? Anyway, if you make a mistake and marry, then just divorce and go back. If your intent is to stay here, then that is another story. I know that DIVORCE is a terrible word in many cultures, but what is your alternative?


K3

10-xx-04 I129 sent

05-xx-05 NOA1 from USCIS - Aproved - Abandoned for Cr1

CR1

11-15-04 I-130 sent

12-10-04 NOA 1 fee changed had to resend info with new fee

12-11-04 Resend case with new fee

02-14-05 NOA 2 I-130 Case aproved and sent to NVC

02-25-05 NVC received case

03-21-05 Received I-864 fee bill

03-22-05 Sent $70 I-864 payment to

04-16-05 Received IV fee bill

04-17-05 Sent $ 380 IV payment to NVC

05-02-05 Received I-864 packet from NVC

05-02-05 Sent I-864 packet to NVC

05-11-05 NVC received IV payment

05-16-05 NVC sent third packet

05-25-05 Received DS-230 and third packet instructions

06-06-05 NVCReceived DS-230 per fed ex confirmation

06-07-05 NVC Enters DS-230 information in system

waiting waiting waiting

06-20-05 Case Completed!!!!!!!yipee.

waiting for interview date.............

7-26-05 Baby born!!!! yaya

8-15-05 Interview set for 9-29-05

9-29-05 Interview suck they want more proof

10-20-05 second interview

10-24-05 yaya haleloujhya finally got it.

10-28-05 going to meet husband in New York. yayayaya

10-30-05 Home!!!!

Lifting Conditions

7-28-07 Mailed form I751 and supporting documents. $275 (Old fee!!!!!Yipee!!!)

8-17-07 Check cleared my account.

8-20-07 Touched

8-30-07 Received Biometric apointment letter.

9-11-07 Biometrics Apointment

9-22-07 Received letter of approval

9-24-07 Received GC Whoo hoo done for 10 years!!!

09-20-09 Sent N-400 for Citizenship

11-01-09 Bio

01-11-10 Passed Interview

01-16-10 Received notice for swearing in ceremony

02-03-10 Swearing in ceremony

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Ireland
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Life is way too short...............if you are that unhappy-go back to Africa.

You must be sensing that things aren't going to get better already. Sorry to hear of your troubles, but why stay if you are not into it?


Ni neart go cur le cheile

"Togetherness is Strength"

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You saw this advert on internet dating services and you look at the woman/man pictures and you feel you liked him/her, then you email him/her and He/she responded, you both communicated for months and He/she visited you and then you both get married. Processing immigrants document for months and then you finanly went to meet together in United States. You both spend time together and sudenly you find out you were not really in love with this African lady or getntle man, or the african lady or gentle man is not really in love with you the American, and wants to go back or live alone. This may happen what will he or she do??

One thing about the US...you are free to leave anytime you want.

Need a number for an airline?


I finally got rid of the never ending money drain. I called the plumber, and got the problem fixed. I wish her the best.

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Nigeria
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Why don't U want to try and work things out together? U're just coming together after a long while of being away and definately things may not look smooth all the times. Everyone goes thru this same time and one time or the other and they just don't say it but keep working hard to make it work. Put in more hard work cos every married needs this.

Lekan


Embassy admit having petition (interview date not known yet) 20th Oct 2005

Picked up package 4 at embassy 24 of Oct

Interview date: 19th January 2006 DENIED (221G)

Second interview: 3rd of Feb 2006 VISA APPROVED! Thank U Lord!!!

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