Will divorce wife soon wish to withdraw the i751 petition that removes conditional residence any chance she can defend her case

[pushbrk 12,093]

are we saying that a spouse can just walk out of the home with his/her luggage and travel without the other person being made aware and its ok ? pls lets all be realistic unless I am from another world. While 'consent' may not be the right word to use but posting here that everyone is an adult and free to do as they please is fantasy in a marriage even a good one. I hope none of us will find fault if we woke up one day or came home to find our spouse has traveled to another state for a trip without our knowledge cos if we do then we are hypocrites.

This is a sad story cos i hate when marriages break up. I wish OP wisdom as he decides.

In the context of immigration and whether the marriage was entered into in good faith by the foreigner, yes, an adult is free to pack their bags and travel as they please AND their spouse can go to jail for attempting to physically stop them from doing so. "Freedom" and "good decisions" are not the same thing and are often in conflict.

[Pinkrlion 2,607]

She can remove conditions by herself, even after you divorce her.

[jaycali 415]

are we saying that a spouse can just walk out of the home with his/her luggage and travel without the other person being made aware and its ok ? pls lets all be realistic unless I am from another world. While 'consent' may not be the right word to use but posting here that everyone is an adult and free to do as they please is fantasy in a marriage even a good one. I hope none of us will find fault if we woke up one day or came home to find our spouse has traveled to another state for a trip without our knowledge cos if we do then we are hypocrites.This is a sad story cos i hate when marriages break up. I wish OP wisdom as he decides.

I wouldn't be happy if I woke up one morning and found out my wife was in Mexico without my knowledge - But she wouldn't have broken any law. This is a free country, an adult does not need consent from anyone to travel.

This is an immigration forum and not a marriage forum, thus the advise given to the OP is given in the context of immigration law. An adult is free to pack up their bags and leave if they so please. It may not be good ethics, but it is not a violation of any sentence in the INA. In other words, without proof of fraud, this is a divorce issue to the OP, not an immigration issue.

No one enjoys a failed marriage, but reality is, it happens to nearly half of all marriages. The vast majority of divorces have nothing to do with fraud, and everything to do "common" marital issues.

Edited December 28, 2012 by Jay Jay

[rade2rising 205]

agreed with pushbrk. keep the letter professional and try not to appear hateful. hope she gets kicked out of the country for her dirty actions. good luck.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

The purpose for this letter is to withdraw my support of [wife's name] I-751 application.

I will be filing for divorce within a few weeks due to continued infidelity on the part of my wife, [wife's name], dating back to her arrival to the United States.

I am not currently living with [wife's name] and have no been living with her since [date].

I would change the letter to the above. You wrote a lot of pointless info and your comment about "traveling without your consent" seems very controlling. You do not withdraw her I-751, but you can withdraw your support.

She doesn't need you to file the I-751 with her. she can file by herself as long as she shows proof of bonafide relationship. If you have evidence of her infidelity, or evidence that she entered the relationship for fraudulent reasons then include it.

I re-state the above.