How to go about providing chats/sms evidence when you are arguing alot?

[dwheels76 5,459]

wow never thought about it that way, it does make sense. I guess some minor disagreements just goes to show its a natural relation not a fairy tale one and possibly fake....

Long as in your chats and things you have resolution that's real. Me and my husband have had some good ones. Hang ups. If you just present all the "I love you Boo, No I love you moire" for 1000 pages well that isn't real life. Everyone argues and disagrees. Just be selective and do print out a log that shows the time stamp.

[djricky4 67]

why not exclude some stuff. its not like they gonna sit and read your convo with you. they just need to know you all communicate. keep the PG-21 stuff to your self. add a little variety to what your using too. good luck

[memlaura 60]

well when you go for interview you have to take lots of evidence. some of that is normally bbm/sms chats. However, is it a good idea to take that if in those chats you are normally arguing and fighting alot? It will seem bad right? But if you take NONE wouldn't it look suspicious? whats your advises on this delicate matter?? take those crazy chats or none at all? well in case you are wondering why there is alot of arguments in these chats well it just happens and then things are ok after that. But an outsider will misunderstand completely.

I included the arguements too. Husbands and wifes fight it happens we have a real relationship it is not all hugs and kisses... Of course I didnt put in the extreme hugs and kisses conversations those are ours only... I also didnt put in extreme fights but most arguements show how you work thru things if you never fight someone is hiding something and they dont want it to slip out in an arguement. I do agree if every chat you have is a fight than maybe you want to re think how fast you proceed and get some more face time together to make sure it is only the pressure of the distance and this process and you are good face to face... Good luck and good journey....

[rade2rising 205]

thanks for the advise. Yea with the distance and not seeing each other for long periods of time it puts stress on relations and misunderstandings come about so easily.....

[AYMAN_RINA 92]

thanks for the advise. Yea with the distance and not seeing each other for long periods of time it puts stress on relations and misunderstandings come about so easily.....

Exactly I agree 100% ...My husband and I have disagreements more now that we are apart than when we are together but of course we are normal all couples have them

[Cali-B 0]

I included some of our little squables because no matter how good a relationship is we as humans do tend to disagree sometimes and i dont care what no one says , no relationship is 100 perfect, might be close to it though....

Ok so this is an unrelated question but i need some advice re completing the Affidavit of support I-134, re: Question # 10 . My I-129 has been approvd ny USCIS. The petuition includes my fiance's 6 yr old daughter and i wanted to know if her name has to be included on line 10 on the i-134...Please help. I know mistakes can cause hold ups and i don't wnat that to happen.

[Ryan H 3,790]

Ok so this is an unrelated question but i need some advice re completing the Affidavit of support I-134, re: Question # 10 . My I-129 has been approvd ny USCIS. The petuition includes my fiance's 6 yr old daughter and i wanted to know if her name has to be included on line 10 on the i-134...Please help. I know mistakes can cause hold ups and i don't wnat that to happen.

This is a question you need to ask in your own thread in the appropriate forum instead of hijacking another member's thread.