Visiting in her home city....

[slim 1,514]

Not knowing someone well guarantees more surprises about their personality, etc. when you do live with them. Visiting before hand is of limited value IMO. You are not in "real life" situations. It is a honeymoon, a vacation. 6 days in a sexual wonderland. So what? You didn't have to clean the toilets go to school, pay for dental work, go to work 14 hours, drive her to everywhere she needs to go, teach her driving after you have taken her everywhere, take off your shoes, put the milk in the refrigerator (she takes it back out)...

IF you are willing to commit to each other, no matter what (sickness and health, richer and poorer, all that stuff) you will be fine. If you are going to bail out because you find all your pots and pans in the refrigerator and the milk on the counter and you didn't know she did that...yeah, then your marriage is going to fail.

"I don't know what happened. We got along so well on our trip to Egypt. Something changed."

Yeah, buddy. Life!

I hope those guys read this VJ RUB Forum and realize there's a lot more to it than clicking on the hottest one and buying her a free trip somewhere. Wake up guys! It takes work just like it would with any other chick. Yes, she's hot. Yes, she's sassy. But at the end of the day, she's just a woman like all the rest of 'em, even if she does wear heels to the supermarket.

[Brad and Vika 129]

"I don't know what happened. We got along so well on our trip to Egypt. Something changed."

Yeah, buddy. Life!

I hope those guys read this VJ RUB Forum and realize there's a lot more to it than clicking on the hottest one and buying her a free trip somewhere. Wake up guys! It takes work just like it would with any other chick. Yes, she's hot. Yes, she's sassy. But at the end of the day, she's just a woman like all the rest of 'em, even if she does wear heels to the supermarket.

There you go

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

There you go

and for Slim...