k1 fraud help

[James&Lynn 0]

I do not know if this is the correct place for this but.....I met my Fiance through her sister. Long story short my fiancee has 2 sisters here in US both came on K1 niether stayd married to pettioner. Oldest waited 5 years other waited 2 years. I am worried I have been hustled.......I have not filed AJOS yet and wonder what I need to do to report this. My fiance also has 2 K2 age 8 and 6 that are here and since she arrived the 8 yearold refuses to leave the aunts house and they are already plan on enrolling her in school else where nd her living without us. My fiance has only been here 30 days and I. Have not married her as I am growing supicous of her familys intent. The oldest pettioned the mother who is here hooked up the other sister with a co worker fr a K1 and now me.........what can I do of the k2 that they are letting live else where and also my fiance as I suspect fraud?

[tejana67 0]

I do not know if this is the correct place for this but.....I met my Fiance through her sister. Long story short my fiancee has 2 sisters here in US both came on K1 niether stayd married to pettioner. Oldest waited 5 years other waited 2 years. I am worried I have been hustled.......I have not filed AJOS yet and wonder what I need to do to report this. My fiance also has 2 K2 age 8 and 6 that are here and since she arrived the 8 yearold refuses to leave the aunts house and they are already plan on enrolling her in school else where nd her living without us. My fiance has only been here 30 days and I. Have not married her as I am growing supicous of her familys intent. The oldest pettioned the mother who is here hooked up the other sister with a co worker fr a K1 and now me.........what can I do of the k2 that they are letting live else where and also my fiance as I suspect fraud?

Don't file the Adjustment of Status for her. I think that you can call the Fraud hotline too. You can write a letter to USCIS and let them know what you think is going on. How long has she been here? Did you meet her in person here in the U.S. or did you go to her country? I seen that you met her through her sister and I am just wondering how you met her. If you feel that you have been taken, by all means report it.

[together4evr 360]

Do not marry her

Do not worry about the kids or her

Tell her it is over and she will need to find another sucker

And I am sorry about all the time, money and love you wasted on her. I hope you find someone worthy of your love

[LSnBigBear 61]

Well if you are worried then maybe your paranoia is warranted.. I have many years experience and myself many many past paranoias.. Fraud is an ugly word unless true so be careful when accusing..

Ask yourself a few question that only you know.. Are you normally non-trusting?? If so then look at your fiancee and ask yourself why you feel this way??? I was burnt before in RP but some due to my own issues which brings its own paranoia.. Just because her sisters did one thing does not mean she will. Mayhe her sisters now have regrets that your fiancee does not want. Dig down why she wants to put her kids in school elsewhere..

I know I am not much help as this is a tough one. Only you know your gut feeling and what you are witnessing. By all means if this all is not passing your smell test then DO NOT Marry her.. You should talk it out with her. Watch her movements.. Filipinas are not good liars if you peel back layers and are good at cross examining.. I know that sounds bad but this is process of elimination in terms of what is in your mind..

Good luck

Shawn

[Darnell 8,478]

some possible paths:

Do Nothing

1. Do Not Get Married

2. Her I-94 will expire then

3. yer off the hook

Marry Her

1. Marry her then

2. File the Adjustment of Status Casefile then

3. IF and only IF your fraud suspicions prove to be true then

4. withdraw the I-864, affadavit of support prior to green card issuance and then

5. divorce

There is another path, but I not suggest it unless you are certain she's not defrauding you, and that's to marry, file, stay married, and have a happy life together.

[fantonledzepp 159]

Follow your gut. If you feel something is up, then it probably is. Don't marry her. Let USCIS know you're not marrying her.

[Penguin_ie 5,984]

*** moving from General Immigration to Effects of Major changes forum, which fits discussion of possible fraud best ***

[aws&ndd 103]

If you suspect something is up, chances are that it is. But take time and find out for sure, and if it is the case then don't marry her.

[novio2010 1]

That is why USCIS estimates that 90 days are good enough for the couple to know more each other and be sure or getting married. My advice, do not marry unless you are 100% certain of that. Good luck

[Orando 57]

That is why USCIS estimates that 90 days are good enough for the couple to know more each other and be sure or getting married. My advice, do not marry unless you are 100% certain of that. Good luck

Not at all, 90 days is given so people can make wedding plans. If they wanted to give people time to get to know each other state side, they would do like Australia and provide 9 months or more to get married using the fiance visa.

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

Not at all, 90 days is given so people can make wedding plans. If they wanted to give people time to get to know each other state side, they would do like Australia and provide 9 months or more to get married using the fiance visa.

Or better yet, give the beneficiary a non adjustable tourist visa once an application for I-129F has been filed so he/she can travel. They already have all the information they need, or ask for more, on both the applicant and beneficiary. ICE can just show up to carry any overstaying beneficiary off and charge the applicant with a felony.

Edited May 29, 2012 by Iyawo Ijebu

[Darnell 8,478]

OP - the flip side (the good bits)

the two kids are out of the way at YOUR household right now, so you and yer lass can spend lots of quality time together. I think one can see this to be a big plus, if, indeed, the two of you ARE spending quality time together.

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whoops, sorry, this is the only good bit that comes to mind, at the moment. I smell a long-running , perpetuation of fraud with the sisters . Or, maybe, indeed (look into this, soon) this is some cultural thing with family and taking care of the kids. They have more immediate family around, and you need to ease into being the daddy.

[Anh map 2,098]

There is nothing for you to report so far.

At this point you have to make a personal decision as to how you want to proceed. There seems to be a pattern.

Best of luck.

[bigdog 376]

I agree with Roger, their appears to be a pattern of activity. The question is did you know this before or just ignore it, either way, it is a personal decision. Do nothing no AOS. Let her stay at family and not at your house. Every time I don't follow my gut i get jammed. Best of luck no matter what you decide, your decision not ours.

[Peter_Pan 661]

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.