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Your fiance is seeing how easy you are to manipulate. This won't be the only example. You are in what researchers call the "evaluation phase" of this manipulator, where they try different tactics

xxxwabbiexxx
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A person in a situation like the visa process does not play games like this its totally unreasonable and thoughtless. Its not like they're at work and you have to wait an hour or two to hear it. T

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I would immediately stop typing in all caps.

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Found somebody else?

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Could be ...........

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If my fiance told me that he had something to tell me... I'd want to know what it was right then and there! :unsure:

As the other posters said, It could be anything...from a surprise of good news or bad news.

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WhT WOULD ANY OF U DO IF YOUR FIANCE OR FIANCEE SAID TO U OVER THE PHONE THAT-OH I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL U BUT I CANT TELL U UNTILL U GET TO THE US?.I FIND IT RATHER STRANGE :innocent::whistle:

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A person in a situation like the visa process does not play games like this its totally unreasonable and thoughtless.

Its not like they're at work and you have to wait an hour or two to hear it.

Tell him or her that what they've said is not acceptable in the circumstances as its messing with your mind so they need to tell you.

Maybe don't make threat like you won't file the paper work or cancel it (unless the conversation comes to that) but just you need to know --- and if they don't tell you then say how am I to trust you when you say something like that under the circumstances we're in, because you could be coming with bad news and I want to know now.

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I would not like to be put in this situation because it could be good or bad. What ever the surprise may be he or she should have waited until they got to US to tell you. This will give me a headache and raised my blood pressure. i will ask for them to tell me because I'm worried . Y would some1 in there right mind want you to wait until they get the US to tell you a surprise???? its not like its going to be 2morrow. No they would have to tell me. this process is already intense and you don't need anything adding to the fire.

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A person in a situation like the visa process does not play games like this its totally unreasonable and thoughtless.

Its not like they're at work and you have to wait an hour or two to hear it.

Tell him or her that what they've said is not acceptable in the circumstances as its messing with your mind so they need to tell you.

Maybe don't make threat like you won't file the paper work or cancel it (unless the conversation comes to that) but just you need to know --- and if they don't tell you then say how am I to trust you when you say something like that under the circumstances we're in, because you could be coming with bad news and I want to know now.

Yikes!

I wouldn't like to have to wait either...but threatening not to file paperwork is worse than what the OP's fiance did.

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mr and mrs   187

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why do you always type in caps?

possibly the OP is hard of hearing? eh?

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Found somebody else?

That would be a pretty crappy anouncement to make after clearing POE...

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WhT WOULD ANY OF U DO IF YOUR FIANCE OR FIANCEE SAID TO U OVER THE PHONE THAT-OH I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL U BUT I CANT TELL U UNTILL U GET TO THE US?.I FIND IT RATHER STRANGE :innocent::whistle:

I would immediately stop typing in all caps.

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Could be pregnant, could be anything, we have enough to worry about with the visa process IMO but hey, could be a treat :)]

BTW Please STOP TYPING IN ALL CAPITALS it means you are shouting! :thumbs:

:thumbs: oh sorry didnt know i was shouting sorry about that am new here.lol :)

I would immediately stop typing in all caps.

:rofl: oops sorry abt that.lol

That would be a pretty crappy anouncement to make after clearing POE...

:huh: whats poe?? :(

 

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