who do I contact about divorcing K-1 visa holder?

[Ban Hammer 12,829]

thanks guys. actually the main reason for my concern was the fact that I had signed the I-134. I want to know what my responsibility was from this point.

I don't know where she is now but I hope she's happy. Don't really care if she stays in the US or not as long as I don't have to pay the bill and I don't get in any type of trouble for not reporting the failure of the terms of the K-1 visa.

your comments have been helpful. good luck to you.

scott

the i-134 and such has been explained to me in pm and my previous posts were in error. i learned something today, ty john

[phatmadame81 0]

Just want to say truly sorry that it did not work out for you both.

Just wanted to say I am sorry to hear about this.

[mychelle 1]

sorry to hear about your situation. i hope it will be taken cared of soon.

If I had seen that photo before she came here I would have warned you.Sorry I could not help.

i went and checked out what you were talking about. it is because of the body language and the facial expression? i'm curious about this...just a bit. they have something like this featured in People Mag on celeb couples who are "happy" or on the "rocks" and it shows in the picture. i'm not sure how accurate that is though.

Edited August 1, 2006 by mychelle

[asante 0]

Yes you can see she is hiding smthng....usually when one couple is looking away from the other in the picture, look at one of them and you will know whether the happiness is real or feigned.

Edited August 1, 2006 by asante

[mrc 0]

In the pic in my avatar, my fiancee is not looking at me. Should I be worried?

[asante 0]

No, your cutie looks more real. C'mmon you can tell..that the other girl was a joke from the photo..she doesnt sound real..

[mychelle 1]

^i don't know if you should worry about that. she looks really happy though. that's why i said i'm unsure about the picture-analysis thing. i think it's up to the couple to know if they are both happy or only one is (or worse neither of them is!) :/

[mrc 0]

Ok, good. I didn't want to have to get rid of her. I'm very fond of her. Hi Susie!

[asante 0]

Isnt the question whether she is fond enough of you as to land in the US and still be yours even after she knows that she now has all the freedoms?

Analogy: Most caged birds fly away when they come out of a cage, though some loyal ones are known to stick around even when the cage door is open.

Ok, good. I didn't want to have to get rid of her. I'm very fond of her. Hi Susie!

Edited August 1, 2006 by asante

[mrc 0]

Isnt the question whether she is fond enough of you as to land in the US and still be yours even after she knows she knows she now has the freedom?

Analogy: Most caged birds fly away when they come out of a cage, though some loyal ones are known to stick around even when the cage door is open.

Ok, good. I didn't want to have to get rid of her. I'm very fond of her. Hi Susie!

Yeah, dude. I was just joking when I was asking about analysis of my pic. I'm not worried. I can just do what I do. We know each other pretty well...we lived together for several months. She treats me well...the only thing I can do is reciprocate.

[dmartmar 1]

Why would you need to contact USCIS? There's nothing for you to do.

DO contact the USCIS! She used you for a Green Card!

Write to the Agency, asking them to withdraw ALL OF YOUR PETITIONS ASAP! Include her A#, a timeline of the events, EVERYTHING!

SEND HER FRAUDULENT ### BACK HOME! SHE DESERVES IT!

AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

Edited August 2, 2006 by dmartmar

[rushter 0]

but she left and I have filed for divorce, also within the 90 day time frame before her K-1 visa was up.

You say she left... left as in where? Back to khazakstan or to the friends cousin's brothers house in the next city?

There may be other issues if she's still floating around in the states...

[john_and_marlene 162]

Why would you need to contact USCIS? There's nothing for you to do.

DO contact the USCIS! She used you for a Green Card!

Write to the Agency, asking them to withdraw ALL OF YOUR PETITIONS ASAP! Include her A#, a timeline of the events, EVERYTHING!

SEND HER FRAUDULENT ### BACK HOME! SHE DESERVES IT!

AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

I didn't see anything that indicated they had filed the I-485. Was the I-485 sent in?

[javaman 0]

No, an I-485 was not sent in. I was waiting for the immunization records to be returned from the civil surgeon.

I do plan on contacting the USCIS by mail, I'm unable to find a phone number or email address.

FYI I'm okay with her leaving. It's complicated why the relationship didn't work out but for the benifit of others I'll say that a lot of the problems had to do with the differences and philosophies in raising children. She has a child that's 12 and I have 2 children, 11 & 13 and there was a lot of friction which began soon after they arrived. The children were only one factor though of many other what I would call small differences that eventually added up to one big mistake.

I wish everybody on VJ the best of luck and I'm sure that the majority of these relationships do work out but it's not the end of the world if your in the minority and it doesn't work.

scott

Why would you need to contact USCIS? There's nothing for you to do.

DO contact the USCIS! She used you for a Green Card!

Write to the Agency, asking them to withdraw ALL OF YOUR PETITIONS ASAP! Include her A#, a timeline of the events, EVERYTHING!

SEND HER FRAUDULENT ### BACK HOME! SHE DESERVES IT!

AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

I didn't see anything that indicated they had filed the I-485. Was the I-485 sent in?

[john_and_marlene 162]

No, an I-485 was not sent in. I was waiting for the immunization records to be returned from the civil surgeon.

I do plan on contacting the USCIS by mail, I'm unable to find a phone number or email address.

FYI I'm okay with her leaving. It's complicated why the relationship didn't work out but for the benifit of others I'll say that a lot of the problems had to do with the differences and philosophies in raising children. She has a child that's 12 and I have 2 children, 11 & 13 and there was a lot of friction which began soon after they arrived. The children were only one factor though of many other what I would call small differences that eventually added up to one big mistake.

I wish everybody on VJ the best of luck and I'm sure that the majority of these relationships do work out but it's not the end of the world if your in the minority and it doesn't work.

scott

Why would you need to contact USCIS? There's nothing for you to do.

DO contact the USCIS! She used you for a Green Card!

Write to the Agency, asking them to withdraw ALL OF YOUR PETITIONS ASAP! Include her A#, a timeline of the events, EVERYTHING!

SEND HER FRAUDULENT ### BACK HOME! SHE DESERVES IT!

AND DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

I didn't see anything that indicated they had filed the I-485. Was the I-485 sent in?

I don't understand what you have to tell them then as there is no pending application to revoke. If there had been fraud, you could notify ICE but that's not the case here either. What do you expect USCIS to do with your letter? There's no case to file it with ... she didn't get an LPR A#. I expect it would be disregarded.

There's no rule/advantage/reason/form/requirement for reporting a divorce to USCIS.

Edited August 2, 2006 by john_and_marlene