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Love is an unexpected thing...and when it arrives grab it with all ur heart....it may pass u jsut once.......

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11.20.07 : mailed I130

01.23.08 : NOA1

04.21.08 : mailed I129F

04.22.08 : NOA1

05.14.08 : NOA2 both for I 130 and I 129F

06.26.08 : medical exam 2nd day PASSED!!

07.09.08 : interview day! PASSED! PINK SLIP!

07.15.08 : visa on hand!!!

08.01.08 : POE SFO (home with my papi!)

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Blessing in disguise. Let it go no matter how hard it hurts rather than you keep living with a lie. She is a witch! That is so pathetic --- seeing you as a meal ticket??? That is awful. I am so sorry brother. She is never going to be good for you. So chin up and move forward. Let it go coz she is not IT. :)

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this is shocking...........im so sorry to hear about it. you will be in my prayers. let your self give time to heal.....life must go on and you deserve the best...

god bless!

K1 VISA / AOS JOURNEY

01/09/2008 - mailed I-129F to CSC via Fedex

01/10/2008 - received @ CSC

01/11/2008 - NOA1 was issued

01/14/2008 - check cashed

01/23/2008 - NOA1 hardcopy received

05/07/2008 - RFE

05/14/2008 - RFE mailed back to CSC

05/29/2008 - NOA2

06/15/2008 - Interview date set 07/09/2009

07/04/2008 - Medical Passed!!!!!

07/09/2008 - Visa Interview Approved!!!!!!

08/29/2008 - Visa recieved!!!!

09/16/2008 - CFO Manila

09/18/2008 - Flight

10/25/2008 - Wedding Day

AOS

12/05/2008 - AOS sent Chicago Lockbox

12/10/2008 - AOS delivered

01/21/2009 - Case transfer to CSC

02/05/2009 - AP recieved

02/13/2009 - ASC Appointment Notice recieved

03/20/2009 - AED recieved

05/07/2009 - Welcome letter recieved

05/18/2009 - GREEN CARD RECIEVED

"The real test of true love is having all the things go wrong but there is always special way to love in spite of all the wrong things that may happen ...."

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move on....move on....move on....move on! she doesnt deserve anyone i guess. believe in karma

K1 VISA / AOS JOURNEY

01/09/2008 - mailed I-129F to CSC via Fedex

01/10/2008 - received @ CSC

01/11/2008 - NOA1 was issued

01/14/2008 - check cashed

01/23/2008 - NOA1 hardcopy received

05/07/2008 - RFE

05/14/2008 - RFE mailed back to CSC

05/29/2008 - NOA2

06/15/2008 - Interview date set 07/09/2009

07/04/2008 - Medical Passed!!!!!

07/09/2008 - Visa Interview Approved!!!!!!

08/29/2008 - Visa recieved!!!!

09/16/2008 - CFO Manila

09/18/2008 - Flight

10/25/2008 - Wedding Day

AOS

12/05/2008 - AOS sent Chicago Lockbox

12/10/2008 - AOS delivered

01/21/2009 - Case transfer to CSC

02/05/2009 - AP recieved

02/13/2009 - ASC Appointment Notice recieved

03/20/2009 - AED recieved

05/07/2009 - Welcome letter recieved

05/18/2009 - GREEN CARD RECIEVED

"The real test of true love is having all the things go wrong but there is always special way to love in spite of all the wrong things that may happen ...."

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My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I cant really say much, except is she worth enough to you to lose weight. I mean that seems like her only problem she has is your weight. You are not an ugly guy, but some people cant see past someones weight. We have all seen those people on TV that were overweight and when they lost it, they looked so much better, not just their body but in their face too. It's also not just for the looks, but for the health.

But who knows...if you did get yourself to a weight of 150 pounds, maybe you would feel like you could get prettier than her and not let her get back with you even she begged to have you back. Or even send her a thank you card for motivating you to lose weight that now you are fighting all the women off you with a stick! :)

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Aug 3, 2006 Sent I-129f in to CSC

Aug 15, 2006 Sent in updated I-129f

Aug 23, 2006 NOA1

Aug 25, 2006 They cashed my check

Aug 30, 2006 NOA1 received in mail

Dec 2, 2006 NOA2 recieved in mail

Dec 12, 2006 I receive that letter from NVC

Mar 22, 2007 St. Lukes appointment

Mar 29, 2007 7:30am Interview

Mar 29, 2007 12pm APPROVED!!! PRAISE GOD!!!

April 10, 2007 Fiancee Arrived!!! WOO HOO!!!

June 26, 2007 Wedding

July 2, 2007 Medical for AOS

July 6, 2007 Sent in AOS (cutting it really close to the 90 days!)

July 8, 2007 USCIS receives i-485

July 16, 2007 NOA1

July 18, 2007 NOA biometrics

Aug 11, 2007 Biometrics appointment.

Oct 11, 2007 Interview

Oct 11, 2007 Green card Approved!!! You cant kick me out now Baby!

Oct 18, 2007 Welcome letter saying Green card is on its way

Oct 22, 2007 2 year Green card arrived!!

TIMELINE-I-751-Oct 11, 2009 GC Expiration

July 8, 2009- Sent 1-751 in to CSC

July 15, 2009- CSC sent back my papers saying its too early for 90 days expiration

July 16, 2009- Resend my papers 85 days before GC expired

July 18, 2009- Arrived at CSC-10:53 am

July 22, 2009- Cashed Check

July 27, 2009- NOA 1 recieved

July 31, 2009- Biometric Notice Recieved

Aug 18, 2009- Biometric Schedule

Sep 03, 2009- Card Production ordered

Sep 09, 2009-Approval letter recieved in the mail

Sep 12, 2009- 10 Year GC recieved

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Weight should NOT have been an issue for her if she truly loved him. She also admitted that she was looking for an American so she could help her family - weight or not, this would have been the deal breaker of all. No...I don't think losing weight is going to change this girl's mind. IMHO weight should NEVER be a factor in determining a person's worth.

To the OP: I'm sorry...wish there were something more to say.

Teaching is the essential profession...the one that makes ALL other professions possible - David Haselkorn

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I agree, it's not a weight issue. It is all about making the OP her meal ticket. Oh puhleez, this is so old drama. She needs a good grip of her morals and give herself a real good kick. Lowlife - that's what she is. A big No-no to you my friend.

Weight should NOT have been an issue for her if she truly loved him. She also admitted that she was looking for an American so she could help her family - weight or not, this would have been the deal breaker of all. No...I don't think losing weight is going to change this girl's mind. IMHO weight should NEVER be a factor in determining a person's worth.

To the OP: I'm sorry...wish there were something more to say.

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Well, I'm not advocating the following, but I can tell you that if it were me (and I AM fat), that I'd be getting rip-roaring drunk right now and then going' out in the yard/field/vacant lot and kicking the sh!t out of something.

But maybe that's just me.....

This may make me sound like a pig, but I would go South of the Border and have a "binge". And I am not talking about drinking. Find the nearest Mexican bordertown and kill a whole weekend there.

TexPamp

DISCLAIMER: Stay away from CD. Juarez. The Narco War has claimed almost 900 lives this year and the Police are impotent right now to control regular crime which has skyrocketed. Nogales is good.

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March 17, 2008.....I-129F Packet sent to Vermont Service Center

March 20, 2008.....I-129F arrived at Vermont Service Center

March 21, 2008.....NOA 1

May 27, 2008........NOA2

June 19, 2008.......Delbros Paid

June 30, 2008.......Medical (Passed)

July 18, 2008........Interview (Passed, Pink and White slip)

Sept 17, 2008.......Recieved Visa

Sept 19, 2008.......CFO at St. Mary's

Sept 22, 2008.......Travel to USA, POE Honolulu, Late night arrival to Las Vegas

Sept 23, 2008.......MARRIED

Sept 25, 2008.......Left Las Vegas driving home

Sept 26, 2008.......Arrived in El Paso, Texas

AOS

December 8, 2008 Package sent

December 26, 2008 NOA

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If I were you, I wouldn't think to much about her. Its obvious she never loved you. People who love each other don't say things like "you're ugly" or whatever. As others said, she seemed to be out to use you. At least she was finally honest about it before it went too far. You will find the one for you, just take your time and don't rush into anything. Love is deeper than any initial attraction. If she truly cared about you, and felt you were "too overweight" in her eyes, I think she'd stay and help you become more healthy. Couples should help each other, not hurt each other. Take care and try to get happy again. You don't deserve someone to be mean like that to you. Seems sorta childish to me as well.

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I'm so sorry but at least she honest. It's better you find out now that later on when you are married. At least you have been spared further heartache. All the best to you and the right girl is out there for you.

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Life is so strange but it sure keeps you on your toes!!!

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This is what i look like..........

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hey, you don't look overweight! I think your ex(?)-fiancee' has other reason for breaking up with you... Those reasons you stated, probably, just said to hide the real story becasuse for me physical issue is so shallow! But then you said she told you that she just wanted to help her family that's why she got into relationship with you (finding USC bf) was so harsh...

I believe, God prepared someone destined to be with you and will love you truly and with no pretensions... Don't lose hope and don't let this experience ruin you... Stay positive... God bless!

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Hey u must feel really hurt and I will pray for you. Things will work out. And.............................even though I am married girl now LOL! I think UR VERY CUTE! You are great just the way u are and dont forget that! Don't get down on urself. Just remember time heals all wounds and everything happens for a reason, you dont need someone shallow like that! Take care always and gud luck on ur journey! just take time out for urself!

mailed out aos and ead 7/13/2007

aol and ead packet received per usps 7/16/2007

checks cashed 07/26/07

noa 1 FOR EAD RECEIVED 07/27/07

noa 1 for aos received 07/28/07

biometrics 08/15/07

ead card ordered 09/20/07!!!!

ead card received 10/01/07! finally!

aos case transferred to California Service Center 10/03/07!

received "Welcome to the United States of America I-797 11/05/07!(dated 10/30/07)!

Permanent Resident card received 11/05/07 (dated 10/31/07)! THank u LorD!

Will file for 10 year GC End of July/Early August 2009!

Removal of Conditions:

Mailed I-751 overnight mail to Vermont Service Center 09/10/09

VSC received the I-751 Packet 09/11/09 About 12 pm Local time

Check was cashed as of Sept 16th 2009

NOA Received 09/19/09 dated 09/14/09

I-797 Appointment Notice received 10/01/09 dated 09/25/09 (Biometrics)

Got they 10 year GC approval letter in the mail dated 01/08/10! yehey!

10 GREENCARD RECEIVED 01/20/10

Citizenship.......maybe............or maybe stay a permanent resident .......................

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there is always a sayin.."there is a always a rainbow after every rain"

i know you are hurting..take time to mend your broken heart..

and before u know it..you have found someone who is worth of your love

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