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I think now would be the time to develop a longing to go to a different climate. Like, Hawaii, Maine, California, Oregon.... Somewhere that isn't where you are now. If you can take yourselves out of the situation without confrontation, it may be the easiest, quickest fix.

That being said, I'd let her know that it bothers you, and give her the option to stop. It's doubtful, but there's the slightest chance that she's like it with all her exs and doesn't think anything of it. Is there a supervisor who could have a word in her ear and let her know that it's not appropriate?

As far as he is concerned, I think he needs to be made very aware that you are not putting up with that behaviour and if it doesn't stop then he will either need to find a new job or a new wife - in my opinion. He certainly should not be taking personal calls from her at 8pm. It sounds like an affair waiting to happen if you don't do something.

Good luck (F)

..time for you to move on..sounds like he already has..my 2 cents..

So, so telling. "Sounds like he's moved on"? Should sound like "he's moved on with you".

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Make sure you're wearing clean knickers. You never know when you'll be run over by a bus.

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..time for you to move on..sounds like he already has..my 2 cents..

So, so telling. "Sounds like he's moved on"? Should sound like "he's moved on with you".

:whistle:

Hmmmm.... brother dean might actually have been trying to say that!! :yes::D

Yep, if he doesn't give a rats a$$ about you and your feelings... move on!!! :whistle:

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AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

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09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

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10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

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10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

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02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

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can't we all just get along? :(

Daniel

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Ana (Mexico) ------ Daniel (California)(me)

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July 23, 2005: Church wedding

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Nov. 3, 2004: NOA1!!!!

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zzzz deep hibernationn zzzz

May 12, 2005 NOA2!!!! #######!!! huh???

off to NVC.

May 26, 2005: NVC approves I129F.

CR1(I-130):

Oct. 6, 2004: Mailed I-130.

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Oct. 8, 2004: I-130 Delivered to CSC in Laguna Niguel.

~Per USPS website's tracking tool.

Oct. 12, 2004 BCIS-CSC Signs for I-130 packet.

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..time for you to move on..sounds like he already has..my 2 cents..

So, so telling. "Sounds like he's moved on"? Should sound like "he's moved on with you".

:whistle:

Hmmmm.... brother dean might actually have been trying to say that!! :yes::D

Yep, if he doesn't give a rats a$$ about you and your feelings... move on!!! :whistle:

:yes: sorry i did not write it that well.. thanks brother robert .. :thumbs:

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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..time for you to move on..sounds like he already has..my 2 cents..

So, so telling. "Sounds like he's moved on"? Should sound like "he's moved on with you".

:whistle:

Hmmmm.... brother dean might actually have been trying to say that!! :yes::D

Yep, if he doesn't give a rats a$$ about you and your feelings... move on!!! :whistle:

:yes: sorry i did not write it that well.. thanks brother robert .. :thumbs:

anytime brother... anytime! :yes:

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Her sitting on his desk is an unacceptable action in a professional environment.

How so? I had chicks sitting on my desk or myself sitting on a chick's desk quite frequently. What's the big deal? Yes, I was single then. And no, I wouldn't have that happening today. But the act of sitting on a desk in and by itself? Please. Where are we? In prudy central?

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Her sitting on his desk is an unacceptable action in a professional environment.

How so? I had chicks sitting on my desk or myself sitting on a chick's desk quite frequently. What's the big deal? Yes, I was single then. And no, I wouldn't have that happening today. But the act of sitting on a desk in and by itself? Please. Where are we? In prudy central?

tell it like it is reinhard!!! :thumbs:

maybe there wasn't a chair nearby! hmmm... what if it was a man sitting on the desk!!! :o

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K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Her sitting on his desk is an unacceptable action in a professional environment.
How so? I had chicks sitting on my desk or myself sitting on a chick's desk quite frequently. What's the big deal? Yes, I was single then. And no, I wouldn't have that happening today. But the act of sitting on a desk in and by itself? Please. Where are we? In prudy central?
tell it like it is reinhard!!! :thumbs:

I always do. ;)

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almaty Grand Master

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Her sitting on his desk is an unacceptable action in a professional environment.
How so? I had chicks sitting on my desk or myself sitting on a chick's desk quite frequently. What's the big deal? Yes, I was single then. And no, I wouldn't have that happening today. But the act of sitting on a desk in and by itself? Please. Where are we? In prudy central?
tell it like it is reinhard!!! :thumbs:

I always do. ;)

i agee...

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

Peppi_drinking_beer.jpg

my burro, bosco ..enjoying a beer in almaty

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...st&id=10835

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Her sitting on his desk is an unacceptable action in a professional environment.
How so? I had chicks sitting on my desk or myself sitting on a chick's desk quite frequently. What's the big deal? Yes, I was single then. And no, I wouldn't have that happening today. But the act of sitting on a desk in and by itself? Please. Where are we? In prudy central?
tell it like it is reinhard!!! :thumbs:

I always do. ;)

touché

:D:thumbs:

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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i must say... DANG! she's flirting, and there's something fishy going on.. but we can't just say that it's the girl's fault, we never know the side of your husband. . . hmm, changing jobs may be a solution but it wouldn't stop there if you're not completely sure that they're just civil by the way the girl's acting around him. I hope you'll find the best solution... (F) as for me, you wouldn't even believe what i let my fiance do to his ex :devil::devil::devil:

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Dec. 19, 2006- sent out AOS

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March 27, 2007- GREENCARD

Sept 5, 2007 - my first anniversary in the U.S

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Ahhh, dear.... If after talking to him he doesn't take any attitude in order not to make you upset, tell him to stay with his ex, then! And ask him to do what he wants with his f¨%#@kin reputation!

It seems really obvious that he's using this reputation thing as an excuse not to take the decent attitude of telling her he doesn't want her to sit in his desk or to call his cell phone at evenings with no serious professional reason! I'm not telling that he has a "case" with her... But yes, it's evident that he likes her attention!

Well, if I were you, I would never accept this! I think it's moment for you to make him decide... If he doesn't stop being idiot and doesn't attend your request, quick his butt and move on with your life... It wouldn't worth it to stay with a man that doesn't respect you!

Do love yourself!

(((hugs))) :luv:

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--> Jan 27th, 2006 - Sent the petition to Nebraska SC.

--> Jan 31st, 2006 - 1st NOA received by mail.

--> April 20th, 2006 - 2nd NOA in snail mail!

--> May 5th, 2006 - NVC received and left

--> May 24th, 2006 - Pack. 3 received and left (never received package 4, so the Embassy sent me its content by e-mail)

--> June 26th, 2006 - Medical in São Paulo (Dr. Celso Rodrigues Fava)

--> July 11th - Interview APPROVED!! :D

--> July 13th - Visa in hand

AOS

--> Novr 11th, 2006 - Sent AOS and EAD forms

--> Nov 17th, 2006 - NOA 1

--> Dec 4th, 2006 - Biometrics (appt. letter rec. in 11/24)

--> Nov 28th, 2006 - RFE received

--> Jan, 8th, 2007 - RFE sent

--> Jan, 30th, 2007 - EAD card received

--> Mar, 13th, 2007 - Interview - Pending Security Checks

--> July, 16th, 2007 - USCIS site: Security checks cleared. Welcome Letter in the way!

--> July, 26th, 2007 - GREEN CARD IN THE MAIL!!! (done with USCIS until 04/2009)

Removing Conditions on Residency

--> April 16th, 2009 - Sent I-751 Application to California Service Center

--> May 8th, 2009 - NOA received (1 year extension letter]

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If it were me and my hubby refused to handle the situation then I would, right quick. :yes:

Three little words should do it - "Back....off....b!tch". :angry:

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