Have you ever gotten into any arguments with your SO during your visa journey ?

[Alex+R 0]

So the non-fighters appear to be liars and propping their relationship up on some pedestal?

LOL, not liars....lucky

A few have suggested those who say no are unbelieveable and you mocked the fact that some don't fight and spun it into something that none of us had actually said. Sarcastic remarks flung in the direction of the ones who stated "no" is pretty obvious, as if those who said no were looking down off at our supposed pedestals at you "fighters".

No, I wasn't mocking you. I was kidding about myself, because I don't think anyone who knows me on VJ would think I would be one of those people capable of a totally harmonious relationship. But it probably came out through the filter of my general bitterness to seem like I was talking about someone else. That really wasn't supposed to be a sarcastic remark about anyone other than myself.

[Mags 112]

Platy and I never fought during our visa journey, we may have felt stressed and been snappy but there were no arguments. With regards to our marriage maybe a couple of times but no more than that.

[JVKn'CVO 11]

nessa and i don't fight. i just tell her the way it's gonna be and she has to live with it.

then i go wash dishes and spend a few nights on the couch.

Is it weird that we haven't had our first fight yet?

Saludos,

Caro

[isleta521 5]

Before we were together, it was mostly that I either called her too much or I didn't call her engough, Lols.

Here are the things that have made us argue now:

She likes coffe strong (To strong for me -mud).

She likes the heater left on high (to hot for me)

I like to take warm steamy showers (to hot for her)

I like to get up early (she likes to sleep in)

She loves the cat (I tolerate him)

Me being on the computer (her being on the computer - lols)

And we have argued once or twice over money and other stupid things - but when the lights go out all is forgiven

nessa and i don't fight. i just tell her the way it's gonna be and she has to live with it.

then i go wash dishes and spend a few nights on the couch.

Reminds me of the "Man song".

[Alex+R 0]

Before we were together, it was mostly that I either called her too much or I didn't call her engough, Lols.

Here are the things that have made us argue now:

She likes coffe strong (To strong for me -mud).

She likes the heater left on high (to hot for me)

I like to take warm steamy showers (to hot for her)

I like to get up early (she likes to sleep in)

She loves the cat (I tolerate him)

Me being on the computer (her being on the computer - lols)

And we have argued once or twice over money and other stupid things - but when the lights go out all is forgiven

Those are *cute* problems. I don't think arguing over them counts as fighting.

[isleta521 5]

Before we were together, it was mostly that I either called her too much or I didn't call her engough, Lols.

Here are the things that have made us argue now:

She likes coffe strong (To strong for me -mud).

She likes the heater left on high (to hot for me)

I like to take warm steamy showers (to hot for her)

I like to get up early (she likes to sleep in)

She loves the cat (I tolerate him)

Me being on the computer (her being on the computer - lols)

And we have argued once or twice over money and other stupid things - but when the lights go out all is forgiven

Those are *cute* problems. I don't think arguing over them counts as fighting.

Actually, some have been more than "cute" problems.

[Alex+R 0]

LaaaaaL come baaaaaaack and see my post that I wasn't making fun of yooouuuuuuuuu

I feel bad now

[Jenn! 918]

So the non-fighters appear to be liars and propping their relationship up on some pedestal?

LOL, not liars....lucky

A few have suggested those who say no are unbelieveable and you mocked the fact that some don't fight and spun it into something that none of us had actually said. Sarcastic remarks flung in the direction of the ones who stated "no" is pretty obvious, as if those who said no were looking down off at our supposed pedestals at you "fighters".

No, I wasn't mocking you. I was kidding about myself, because I don't think anyone who knows me on VJ would think I would be one of those people capable of a totally harmonious relationship. But it probably came out through the filter of my general bitterness to seem like I was talking about someone else. That really wasn't supposed to be a sarcastic remark about anyone other than myself.

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

[rebeccajo 14]

I don't know what you guys are talking about. My relationship is an island of serenity -- a veritable Japanese rock garden of tranquility. Argue? I seem to have forgotten the meaning of this word. Fight? Futile, against the fortress-like temple of our love.

Um yes, we are fighters.

[Alex+R 0]

So the non-fighters appear to be liars and propping their relationship up on some pedestal?

LOL, not liars....lucky

A few have suggested those who say no are unbelieveable and you mocked the fact that some don't fight and spun it into something that none of us had actually said. Sarcastic remarks flung in the direction of the ones who stated "no" is pretty obvious, as if those who said no were looking down off at our supposed pedestals at you "fighters".

No, I wasn't mocking you. I was kidding about myself, because I don't think anyone who knows me on VJ would think I would be one of those people capable of a totally harmonious relationship. But it probably came out through the filter of my general bitterness to seem like I was talking about someone else. That really wasn't supposed to be a sarcastic remark about anyone other than myself.

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

True... I don't think fights matter as long as both people know how to handle a conflict so that it ends up being productive or produces change. It's when one person wants to "win" every fight that you have a problem. A very serious problem.

[rebeccajo 14]

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

Well, for me, I've never met a man who didn't need me to modulate his behavior from time to time.

They're such flawed creatures.

[*JG* 2]

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

Well, for me, I've never met a man who didn't need me to modulate his behavior from time to time.

They're such flawed creatures.

Amen!

[Alex+R 0]

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

Well, for me, I've never met a man who didn't need me to modulate his behavior from time to time.

They're such flawed creatures.

It's a burden, being the superior sex.

[Ban Hammer 12,836]

LaaaaaL come baaaaaaack and see my post that I wasn't making fun of yooouuuuuuuuu

I feel bad now

she's busy writing your suspension pm

I think some people are probably incredulous due to lack of experience. I've never personally known any couples that have never had arguments, so their existence seems like somewhat of an urban legend. It's just very surprising to many of us, that's all.

Well, for me, I've never met a man who didn't need me to modulate his behavior from time to time.

They're such flawed creatures.

man hater!

[Amby 490]

we argue because Neil says he is going to empty the trash and then doesn't for like 4 days and b*tches cos I keep telling him to do it and finally it's overflowing out of control and I empty if he doesn't. does that count?