What was that special "something"that made you fall in love with your fiance/spouse ?

[Autumnchik 6]

The fact that he's a psychologist and that he can read my mind and actions without me saying anything to him.

Seriously speaking, it's his maturity and tenderness that could melt even the hardest stone in this world. Physical appearance, I guess it's his mischievous smile that can make my knees so weak and my heart beat so fast. I love everything about my husband, even his being moody .

you are correct sister..psychologist and therapist have the ability to read minds...or convince you that they can

So true Brother Dean At least, the convincing you they can part of it! LOL

I am a therapist and I don't think that is what my poor husband would say he loves the most about me ... more like he tolerates the "therapy speak" (as he likes to call it) and just rolls his eyes when I read his mind... LOL!

There is so much I love about him ... but one of my favorites is how sweetly dorky and awkward he can be ... he has a knack for putting his foot in his mouth. First time we met in person, he meant to tell me I was pretty ... instead, what came out of his mouth was, "Wow, you are better than I thought". Gotta love him! I also love that he lets me be as silly and goofy and childlike at times and then goes along with my debating social issues and gets into a good debate with me. And his blue eyes rock!!!

[Steve'sGirl 0]

His eyes, his smile, his charm, his calm demeanor. He always finds new ways to make me smile and surprise me.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Hi intelligence, his quirky sense of humour, his kindness - and they way he totally accepts me as me.

[JASONandDAA 0]

My girl told me that when she first saw me, she thought I was gay...but soon after that, I convinced her otherwise!!

Edited January 22, 2008 by JASONandDAA

[Don_Joy's Prince 0]

I fell in love with Joy's Smile, sense of humor, the ability to talk with her for hours, her conservative values and her compassion for others, especially for children.

Edited January 22, 2008 by Don_Joy's Prince

[Nessa 23]

As someone once said on Six Feet Under, it's the person who makes you be the most you that you can possibly be. That's how I feel about Charles. I can be myself without judgement, without playing games, just be myself and be accepted the way I am. In other words, he puts up with me and that's all I need

[Marilyn. 340]

As someone once said on Six Feet Under, it's the person who makes you be the most you that you can possibly be. That's how I feel about Charles. I can be myself without judgement, without playing games, just be myself and be accepted the way I am. In other words, he puts up with me and that's all I need

yeah same here....

I have been trying to put it into words but you did it for me

[Alex+R 0]

As someone once said on Six Feet Under, it's the person who makes you be the most you that you can possibly be. That's how I feel about Charles. I can be myself without judgement, without playing games, just be myself and be accepted the way I am. In other words, he puts up with me and that's all I need

I totally love Six Feet Under, btw. Didn't know you were also a fan!

But I think that paraphrase up there suggests more that the person pushes you to be better than just yourself, and makes you strive to change. They inspire something great in you, probably while accepting you too.

Not sure I agree with it, but that's what I think it means.

[Nessa 23]

As someone once said on Six Feet Under, it's the person who makes you be the most you that you can possibly be. That's how I feel about Charles. I can be myself without judgement, without playing games, just be myself and be accepted the way I am. In other words, he puts up with me and that's all I need

I totally love Six Feet Under, btw. Didn't know you were also a fan!

But I think that paraphrase up there suggests more that the person pushes you to be better than just yourself, and makes you strive to change. They inspire something great in you, probably while accepting you too.

Not sure I agree with it, but that's what I think it means.

yeas, the rabbi actually was telling Nate what a soulmate is:

Nate: What is Soul Mate?

Female Rabbi (Ari): A person who makes you be the most you that you possibly be. A person who forces your soul to grow the most.

[Alex+R 0]

As someone once said on Six Feet Under, it's the person who makes you be the most you that you can possibly be. That's how I feel about Charles. I can be myself without judgement, without playing games, just be myself and be accepted the way I am. In other words, he puts up with me and that's all I need

I totally love Six Feet Under, btw. Didn't know you were also a fan!

But I think that paraphrase up there suggests more that the person pushes you to be better than just yourself, and makes you strive to change. They inspire something great in you, probably while accepting you too.

Not sure I agree with it, but that's what I think it means.

yeas, the rabbi actually was telling Nate what a soulmate is:

Nate: What is Soul Mate?

Female Rabbi (Ari): A person who makes you be the most you that you possibly be. A person who forces your soul to grow the most.

So isn't accepting your partner for "who they are," nothing more, nothing less, the opposite of making them grow?

[Nessa 23]

So isn't accepting your partner for "who they are," nothing more, nothing less, the opposite of making them grow?

Accepting your partner for who they are doesn't stop them from growing.

[panamania79 2]

My girl told me that when she first saw me, she thought I was gay...but soon after that, I convinced her otherwise!!

She thought you were "Katoey?" Oh no,that's messed up,man.

[Marry American 0]

My fiance's smile and full lips is what did it for me.

It was a number of things; I could never just pick one thing. I fell in love with my husband because he was a wonderful son, a caring father, loved by his friends, and the best lover in all my life sorry for being vulgar

[panamania79 2]

My fiance's smile and full lips is what did it for me.

It was a number of things; I could never just pick one thing. I fell in love with my husband because he was a wonderful son, a caring father, loved by his friends, and the best lover in all my life sorry for being vulgar

That's not vulgar.If he "rocks your world" that's a good thing.

[Ban Hammer 12,836]

My fiance's smile and full lips is what did it for me.

It was a number of things; I could never just pick one thing. I fell in love with my husband because he was a wonderful son, a caring father, loved by his friends, and the best lover in all my life sorry for being vulgar

That's not vulgar.If he "rocks your world" that's a good thing.

and if he knocked her socks off so well that she has to go halfway across town to retriever her socks, even better