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Joyoussinger last won the day on February 1 2019

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    Wall Township
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    New Jersey

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    Naturalization (approved)
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    Chicago Lockbox
  • Local Office
    Mount Laurel NJ
  • Country
    Australia
  • Our Story
    Neil Milliner and I met on a musicians’ website called ReverbNation in January 2015, and from there we connected on Facebook. Our friendship began as we commented on each other’s statuses and grew quite solid as we continued over several months. Neil’s wit was fun, and he was very easy to share ideas with. I found myself posting things I knew would interest him, so he would comment. He always did! We flirted, very nervously at first, each not sure that the other was feeling the same attraction. Having a planet between us has been frustrating and sometimes, painful, but could not keep us apart. We began text messaging and video chatting on FaceBook. We discovered that we both write poetry and decided to collaborate on a book, “The Poetry and Prose of Jodi DiLiberto and Neil Milliner. We’ve also written a song together, and it’s been played on several radio stations! Neil and I began to realize we have so much in common in our passion for music and poetry, our love of nature, and our beliefs in natural living. It was undeniable that we had fallen in love and it became unthinkable that we should live the rest of our lives apart. We decided that we wanted to marry and began making plans to bring that about. We knew we had to meet in person, and we began researching the K1 Visa process and organizing our finances to make this happen. Our relationship has been multi-faceted. While physical contact has been absent; emotional, artistic, and intellectual contact has not. We go on dates via Google Earth, where we choose a place to meet virtually and explore it together. We have tea together every day and have gone on breakfast/dinner dates while we chat. In September 2016, Neil had saved enough money to visit me! The anticipation was so exciting and the next couple of weeks seemed to take forever, but on October 11 he was here, in New Jersey! He stayed with me, at my house, and being together, in person, was better that our most wonderful dreams! We went for walks, took a day trip, visited some local places, looked for a lovely setting for our wedding, and were just able to be together. Neil even did some much-needed repairs around the house! Neil formally proposed, presented me with a lovely ring, and I joyfully accepted! We are planning to have our wedding in Wall Township, NJ. After ten idyllic days, when it was time for Neil to leave, we felt like we were being torn apart. Once again, the Earth was too big and lay between us. Neil is back in Australia now, and we are again continuing our relationship via Facebook chat as we fill out the paper work and gather evidence of our relationship for the K1 Visa.

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  1. This is from the USCIS website: "You are only required to receive a single dose of each vaccine when you visit the civil surgeon. You are encouraged to follow up with your private health care provider to complete the series. Once you have received the single dose appropriate at the time, the civil surgeon can sign and certify the Form I-693." https://www.uscis.gov/tools/designated-civil-surgeons/vaccination-requirements#:~:text=Certain vaccine series,Technical Instructions.
  2. My husband's N-400 interview letter said nothing about his pending I-751 or a combo interview. There was nothing saying I was required to be there. We knew there was a chance it would be a combo interview, so I went along. To be honest, I felt it was important for me to be there, to support him on what could be a huge event in his life. It did turn out to be a combo interview and he took the oath that afternoon! It would have been a mistake for me to not have attended. Since we were both there, it was easy for us to go out, when it was over, and celebrate!
  3. Congratulations! Best of luck with your N-400! It's pretty easy!
  4. We have pillows filled with organic buckwheat hulls, and they are wonderful!
  5. That's fantastic! It will make preparing for the N-400 interview so much easier! Congratulations!
  6. You say, "Besides, I do not know what she is up to." Also, the thing that made you start to think of remarrying her is that "She appeared younger and more desirable". It seems to me that it would be a good idea, for both of you, to take this slowly in order to get to know each other again and to really understand what each of you wants.
  7. He needs to submit his most current tax return or transcript. The transcript is preferred and can be found at: https://www.irs.gov/individuals/get-transcript Right now it would be the 2022 return, unless he's already filed his 2023 return.
  8. That's fantastic, and Congratulations! It's exciting when those notifications start coming in like that, isn't it!
  9. I'm sure it's better for him to be forthcoming about it, anyway.
  10. He needs to call the police and find out if there is an Incident Report.
  11. I've actually had good experiences with cold calling. Several years ago, I was unemployed. and did submit applications with online job recruiting networks I do recommend doing it, but I also began researching schools in my area (I teach music and art), and sent out applications to schools that looked good to me even if they didn't seem to be hiring. I even popped into a school, as I was driving by, and introduced myself. My cover letters were always tailored to the specific school, by quoting a sentence or paragraph from their website that described their philosophy and telling them how wonderful it is to have found a school with the same philosophy as mine and what a good fit we would be for each other. This is how I got the job I wanted! It's also a good idea to send a thank you letter, after each interview. I got a job once, solely because I did this. Best of luck to you, and I hope you find your dream job soon!
  12. I owned my home long before I met my now husband. We did exactly the same thing @Sukie did and had no problems at all.
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