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November 26, 2014, 9:12 am Last comment by Betrayedlove

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Hello everybody,

I posted sometime ago on another sub forum on VJ about what I'm going through in my marriage of just 6 months but I guess this is the right place to post for others who made comments last time I will repost at adjustment of status page too.

I want to thank you guys that contributed very positive ways to get me ROC because it has been a long journey for me time and money wise and also the 6 months of my married life has been the most miserable months of my life.

An incident happened again a week a go last week Monday to be precise. I was to start my second job that week.

Got home from the first job after 9 hours hungry and about to take my bath. When she ask me why I didn't do what she ask me to do. I don't want to go into details because I bore people here with my domestic issues. I told her I already let her know I won't do it as it is against my religious ethics.

So she started lashing out and saying very mean things as usual. You are leaving this house tonight etc so I responded to her with just a few words of truth and she jump on me on my way to the bath room. She was eating on top of her bed and the road to the bath room is right by the bed. So I use my other hand to push her hands from my face gently enough not to hurt her. She started punching me in my chest and her fingers where a scratching my face. To cut the long story short she called her daughter to call the cops which she later did herself and I went downstairs still in my boxers and vest quickly look for anything to eat cos I haven't eaten all day she order food for herself and daughter that night.

I was about eating when the cops came. I said a short heart felt prayer before the cops came. I said Father only you knew I'm innocent of this charge. Pls let your Will be done here tonight.

The cops came and met me downstairs in the kitchen good still in micro wave. Hands on their gun in the holster because she told the 911 operator I was choking her while she was eating that I am very dangerous. Three cops were dispatch to our house and the street were full of 3 police cars with lights everywhere.

They listen to our stories and they both went up stairs to check the crime scene and found out that the plate if food and the spoon where still in tact in a carefully made bed with pillows carefully arranged and a glass of wine by the bed side.

They look at her body there was no single mark on her and she is very light skin. I'm a dark skin person and they look at my face and saw her finger marks all over my face.

She was telling the cops that I'm from africa that's how we beat women. That I use her to sweep her room and turn the place upside down. She even called her 13 yr old daughter to come and confirm the story even though she was not there during the scuffle and the little girl was confused as she was not too convincing lying like her mom. I was just watching in awe is this the woman I married. What happened that she change so fast and the lies want to make me puke.

Well she was put under arrest and was hand cuffed and taken away. They put a restraining order on her for 3 days and asked if I want it extended for 15 days I said know.

I even told them to let her go cos I don't want to press charges but they said is not for me to say that is the state vs my wife.

I did a study on the internet and found out that my wife is sociopathic. The 17 traits or characters of a sociopath she happened to have all. The best thing for both of us or for in particular is to leave the union.

So my question now is: Can I file VAWA while ROC? I have her as a joint owner in my car registration, I have as a co driver in my insurance and also as a joint account holder. She has refused to allow me make changes to the utility bills even though I will be the one to start paying them from this week or put me in her health insurance.

The few things I have her name on are they okay to file for ROC?

Please your knowledgeable experience in this field will be very much appreciated.

Those without deep experience are welcome also to comment.

Thank you very much for your time and contributions.

Remain Blessed All.

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November 25, 2014, 7:08 pm Last comment by EOC

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Hello All I had my interview in Sept 5th 2014 and was placed on Administrative Processing and recently my application was updated 3 times 6th, 13th and 19th, does that mean I'd be getting an approval notice soon? I did fill the contact sheet though with info of a couple of friends and relatives but they've not contacted anyone of them yet. What do I expect? Will be glad to get response from people who's been through this phase before. Thanks.

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arrowGot an Approval (4 Months 1 Week)
November 23, 2014, 5:14 pm Last comment by Nkkystel

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Hi everyone! was less busy this evening and something in me (GOD) just told me to atleast check my status and guess what, the writting below was what I saw:
Case Was ApprovedOn November 21, 2014, we approved your Form I-130, Immigrant Petition for Relative, Fiance(E), or Orphan, Receipt Number WAC14********. We will mail your approval notice. Please follow the instructions in the notice. If you do not receive your approval notice by December 21, 2014, please go to requestto request a copy of the notice. If you move, go to hangeto give us your new mailing address.

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arrowpay noW
November 23, 2014, 1:37 am Last comment by kayflex n pinky
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Hello,evryone,AoS bill paid by my wife 12th NOV 14 ,Is clearly written on the Website wait for 5days for ur bill to b processd bt now is almost 2 weeks still pay now indicated on d Aos bill,pls wot is happning?

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November 23, 2014, 12:07 am Last comment by dnp2014

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Can anyone explain Frontload. I'm seeing that in a lot of stories regarding the Nigerian embassy. So please can someone explain it..I have no clue what it means and my husbands interview is coming up soon

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