Status revoked but stayed 5 years now

[Shala79 0]

41 minutes ago, Damara said:

Go apply for a restraining order.

 

It can cover you and your child. Its not "family court" where they dismissed your allegations. Its civil court. Once you get it family court will honor it and stop the visitation. 

We were in family court because we were forced to get a divorce even though we were never legally married. The judge wouldn't stop visitation and has recently removed the previous supervised visits. He will get alone time with her now and I'm so very worried. He cannot communicate in English and she has special needs,  he has never taken care of her.

[Shala79 0]

44 minutes ago, Merrytooth said:

May I know which state you are in?

 

He is trying to make you look bad that you are a 'unfit mother' and it will be the child's best interest if he remains in US.

 

 

I'm in Oklahoma. Yes, I agree and thought he was trying to use our daughter as an anchor baby. My daughter had to undergo a forensic interview to prove my innocence. He has nothing on me. I have a clean background, disabled veteran, college degrees and a great state job. He's the one with all the issues, he owes his divorce attorney 50 thousand and hasn't paid, he's filed 40+ false police welfare checks, and 5 DHS (child welfare) reports. He is totally harassing me and my daughter. I just want him to leave us alone. He doesn't care about her at all.

 

Does anyone have any contacts with ICE or USCIS? 

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

11 minutes ago, Shala79 said:

I'm in Oklahoma. Yes, I agree and thought he was trying to use our daughter as an anchor baby. My daughter had to undergo a forensic interview to prove my innocence. He has nothing on me. I have a clean background, disabled veteran, college degrees and a great state job. He's the one with all the issues, he owes his divorce attorney 50 thousand and hasn't paid, he's filed 40+ false police welfare checks, and 5 DHS (child welfare) reports. He is totally harassing me and my daughter. I just want him to leave us alone. He doesn't care about her at all.

 

Does anyone have any contacts with ICE or USCIS? 

 

It isn't really going to help to contact USCIS.  Spurned petitioners do it all the time.

 

You need a better lawyer to solve these custody issues.

[Shala79 0]

8 minutes ago, N-o-l-a said:

 

It isn't really going to help to contact USCIS.  Spurned petitioners do it all the time.

 

You need a better lawyer to solve these custody issues.

I have sole custody of my daughter, he just gets visits with her and that can't be stopped unless something severe on record takes place. I also have a really hood lawyer who is both family law and immigration law. I wish I knew if he was going to be deported.

 

He did admit to me by text that he married me for a green card.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

39 minutes ago, Shala79 said:

We were in family court because we were forced to get a divorce even though we were never legally married. The judge wouldn't stop visitation and has recently removed the previous supervised visits. He will get alone time with her now and I'm so very worried. He cannot communicate in English and she has special needs,  he has never taken care of her.

Maybe you can play up the issue that he never takes care of your special needs child before, and you are uncomfortable to have unsupervised visits.

 

Other than that, contact your congressman, senator, even TV stations, on how he is 'allowed' to harass you, making 40+ false police welfare checks, and 5 DHS (child welfare) reports -> wasting public resources?

 

 

[Shala79 0]

42 minutes ago, Merrytooth said:

Maybe you can play up the issue that he never takes care of your special needs child before, and you are uncomfortable to have unsupervised visits.

 

Other than that, contact your congressman, senator, even TV stations, on how he is 'allowed' to harass you, making 40+ false police welfare checks, and 5 DHS (child welfare) reports -> wasting public resources?

 

 

This is exactly what I am working on now. Thank you!

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3 hours ago, Shala79 said:

I also have a really hood lawyer who is both family law and immigration law. I wish I knew if he was going to be deported.

 

He did admit to me by text that he married me for a green card.

But isn't your lawyer the one who can give you solid advice? 

[sparkles_ 456]

You need a good family lawyer, not VJ advice about this guy making your life hell because it doesn't sound immigration related to me.....him being an ### has zero to do with his status. Never married legally (double proxy), guessing no custody order in place? The there is your answer, legally nothing is in place and he sees the child when you allow and is in contact with you two when you allow. Morally is it right, probably not, but I dont know the whole story either. I would get to filing for sole custody ASAP. Let the family courts put him in his place, and trust the Master hearing an immigration court will sort out his status stuff in time.

Edited October 13, 2017 by sparkles_

[Merrytooth 5,748]

4 minutes ago, sparkles_ said:

You need a good family lawyer, not VJ advice about this guy making your life hell because it doesn't sound immigration related to me.....him being an ### has zero to do with his status. Never married legally (double proxy), guessing no custody order in place? The there is your answer, legally nothing is in place and he sees the child when you allow and is in contact with you two when you allow. Morally is it right, probably not, but I dont know the whole story either. I would get to filing for sole custody ASAP. Let the family courts put him in his place, and trust the Master hearing an immigration court will sort out his status stuff in time.

 

OP already stated she has sole custody of her child.

The Judge granted visitation rights to ex and  has recently removed the previous supervised visits, which is making her very nervous of her special needs child being alone with the ex.

[sparkles_ 456]

14 minutes ago, Merrytooth said:

 

OP already stated she has sole custody of her child.

The Judge granted visitation rights to ex and  has recently removed the previous supervised visits, which is making her very nervous of her special needs child being alone with the ex.

My oversight, I didn't read anything except the very first posting. In that case, all OP can do is allow the child to visit and document any adverse changes that occur shortly after visits or since unsupervised visits began. Or else file a motion to have the supervision reinstated but I'm pretty sure something major has to occur for that to be granted again. If she knows his A number she can check his court status on the EOIR 800# as to what the outcome was and if he will be ordered removed.

Edited October 13, 2017 by sparkles_

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[Villanelle 4,121]

5 hours ago, Shala79 said:

We were in family court because we were forced to get a divorce even though we were never legally married. The judge wouldn't stop visitation and has recently removed the previous supervised visits. He will get alone time with her now and I'm so very worried. He cannot communicate in English and she has special needs,  he has never taken care of her.

You still have to go get a restraining order. If you need specific help send me a message.

[mallafri76 1,012]

Did he come here on a spousal visa? You said that your marriage isn’t valid so did you get it annulled? If you were never legally married or your marriage is annulled and he came here on a spousal visa then the basis for his immigration status no longer exist. Have you talked to your lawyer about this?

[Boiler 43,429]

Not really an Immigration issue, you have no say on that aspect and they are not going  to tell you what is happening, does not work that way. 

[Shala79 0]

17 hours ago, Shala79 said:

We were in family court because we were forced to get a divorce even though we were never legally married. The judge wouldn't stop visitation and has recently removed the previous supervised visits. He will get alone time with her now and I'm so very worried. He cannot communicate in English and she has special needs,  he has never taken care of her.

I was told that I could get a restraining order for harassment, but he would still get visits with her and I'd have to pay for a professional person who supervises visitation. We did this before during our divorce and it was a few $100 each visit. The cost was split, but it's not something I can afford.