Is he cheating?

[Gregory&Dyn 113]

Send me the phone number in a private message. I will call it from my office (at the Pentagon in Washington DC). I will tactfully get any information I can, claim it is a mis-dialed number, and get back to you.

[Sandra G. 5,016]

Considering what you posted here, do you really believe if you ask him about the number he will tell you if he is cheating ...no way, no how. He will give you excuses and more excuses, by the way in my opinion a man that does not get along with his family (mother/father/siblings)is a ####### man, just saying.

Edited July 21, 2015 by sandranj

[Jawaree 717]

Hello, happy to be in this good website, i came here to have some point of views/comment , i didn't like my first post here to be question like thi.. i originally from Russia married to US citizen i living here for 1 year and 4 months, few months ago , i have noticed that in our telephone bills /family plan there is another number -line, my number , my husband phone number and third number in bill, it was added since feb, 2015, with time i started being curious about this third number in paper bills / Samsung phone that we don't have at the house, every time i would like to ask my husband about it but i forget, i still see this number in bill , in your opinion what this number is? what could be? thank you to give me some ideas about this info

sorry for my English, i wish you good luck and happy life

I am not saying dig your head in the sand, its a phone before you came right?

It could be a family member

Does he have a kid

It could be along time platonic friend (don't let jealousy & the mind play tricks on you , it leads to unhappiness)

You can call the number but I would tell you just ask him about the 3rd # on the bill( you are his wife)

If your husband works, provide for you, does not disrespect you or is acting sneaky don't mess up a good thing

Some ppl are turned off by mates who wants to know every single thing or move they make which is fine if that's agreed upon.

I don't sneak around but I don't appreciate my wallet or phone being searched & my mate & I have each ones email PWD (TRUST)

If it bothers you ask him & quit thinking the worst...remember also those who seek may find.

[NikLR 13,220]

Considering what you posted here, do you really believe if you ask him about the number he will tell you if he is cheating ...no way, no how. He will give you excuses and more excuses, by the way in my opinion a man that does not get along with his family (mother/father/siblings)is a ####### man, just saying.

Lol. Good thing we all do not share your opinion!

OP

Communication is key in any relationship. Talk to your husband. Listen to your husband.

[tayurshu 37]

Far out, sneaking around breeds more sneaking around. I wish more people understood this.

If you're asking the question "is he cheating" straight away, then your relationship already has issues, because:

1. You automatically think he might be cheating

2. You would rather consult an internet forum rather than ask your partner about it

3. This type of thing goes on and on and on.

What happens now is that if you follow this route, your husband will start to hide purely platonic things out of fear of you assuming he's cheating. Then you find out. Then you think he's cheating because he's hidden it. And off we go to the races.

Ask him straight up what the third number is for! Why is it that hard?

[Lauren and Kevin 55]

It would be a lot easier if there was cheating. Something simple that is his fault that is the reason that your relationship is not working.

This kind of distrust is toxic for you, and for him, seriously stop it. Take a step back and look at your behaviour. You have twisted yourself and your feelings into knots.

Like another poster here, I feel if you keep doing this, you can actually create a situation where it happens.

Please go to him, trust him, and start drawing out the poison, as you could be destroying something very special by not communicating honestly and lovingly.

[D N Medellin COL 75]

FYI - I have been with VERIZON for about 10 years and I am issued a telephone line for my iPad which is how it identifies the iPad. And yes it shows up on my Verizon bill each month as a 3rd telephone number.

Good luck to you both.

[MouadsWife 161]

yes i'm not going to ask him until i make sure what this number is, may be tablet number !!! but i never knew tablet can has number and must be paid every month i'm not sure , Vette (post) led me think about the tablet

unfortunately nobody, i looking for job to go out from this house

A tablet can have a number IF it has an embedded wireless card inside. Meaning you can get internet on it everywhere you go, even if you not near a hot spot. The best thing for you to do to answer your questions is to call the phone company and simply ask why there is a third number on your phone bill. They will be happy to answer your questions and you will not have to be nervous about asking your husband and then you will KNOW you are getting the truth.

[Cathi 5,610]

dial *67 before dialing the number and it blocks your number so they cannot see who is calling

[Avandongen 83]

T- mobile is the company , he said on Feb. 2015 that t-mobile they gave him free tablet ,after purchasing his phone, do you think tablet has a phone number? to pay in every bill?

My husband has a free tablet from Tmobile and it has a phone number.

[Jawaree 717]

Much ado about noting, OP be happy only you can do that

wishing you the best going forward...Jealousy is wasted emotion

when no clear case exists.

[Hairball 11]

Dial *67 before dialing number....it will hide your number....caller id will read privet number....tablets and if you have internet from T-Moble will have there own number......Hope this helps

Edited July 22, 2015 by Hairball

[Hollyday 122]

..or one can just call via Skype? Seems an obvious, easy option.

[gtessier 17]

i found the tablet it has Samsung name on it i think its just the tablet

I have T-Mobile. I have an iPad mini. I have a promo they offered that is "free data for life"

There is a separate phone number for the iPad. If you call it, there will be no answer.

Other than looking at the phone bill and seeing a third line, is there any other reason to suspect him of cheating? If not, let it go.

Not a good way to begin a new relationship.

[amkhan 108]

This site is for visa help or family talk shak show?? peoples here asking irreverent questions a lot... instead of asking 10000 peoples call the number and see who is behind it