A reality tv series on k-1 visa on tlc (90 day fiance)

[Pickle 65]

Well why should he care about knowing any thing? He's already decided for himself and his wife that it is one place they will never visit.

Every time he said something my jaw just dropped. Telling someone you just met you will never visit their country, and in the way he did! I truly hope, for Amy's sake, that he was just putting on a show for the sake of the show, and that he is not really that close minded.

[Caryh 5,206]

Every time he said something my jaw just dropped. Telling someone you just met you will never visit their country, and in the way he did! I truly hope, for Amy's sake, that he was just putting on a show for the sake of the show, and that he is not really that close minded.

He seemed so stiff with those lines, I'm fairly certain that was scripted. Add in how many times the topic of the father being a racist has been brought up before, each time seeming rather stiff, and its even more hints to being scripted. You can't give regular people scripted lines and have it come off as that believable, and this show is pretty good proof of that.

[Pickle 65]

He seemed so stiff with those lines, I'm fairly certain that was scripted. Add in how many times the topic of the father being a racist has been brought up before, each time seeming rather stiff, and its even more hints to being scripted. You can't give regular people scripted lines and have it come off as that believable, and this show is pretty good proof of that.

True. I wouldn't be surprised if he is a racist, but of course there needs to be drama. So the producers most likely just wanted to blow it up and gave the dad all these ridiculous lines to say. Or I hope so, otherwise there is something seriously wrong with him.

[Caryh 5,206]

True. I wouldn't be surprised if he is a racist, but of course there needs to be drama. So the producers most likely just wanted to blow it up and gave the dad all these ridiculous lines to say. Or I hope so, otherwise there is something seriously wrong with him.

If you were to find any of the people from the shows on social media, they are out there, you can see what they say about how much is staged for drama's sake. Like the dirty green swimming pool, that was dyed for the show. Even watching the show, you can see where they slip up and show secondary characters with high drama personalities being who they really are, which is pretty much just normal people.

[Pennycat 880]

If you were to find any of the people from the shows on social media, they are out there, you can see what they say about how much is staged for drama's sake. Like the dirty green swimming pool, that was dyed for the show. Even watching the show, you can see where they slip up and show secondary characters with high drama personalities being who they really are, which is pretty much just normal people.

See, here's a problem though. Who really wants to be on a (let's be honest, here) trashy reality television show THAT badly that they're willing to allow themselves and/or those who they (allegedly) love look like terrible people? They can't possibly be getting paid *that* much to justify me allowing my own father to say to my fiance *to her face on tv* the nasty things he said to her. I'm not exactly rolling in gobs of excess cash myself but there is *zero* chance I allow that that sort of embarassment to happen to the person I love, no matter what the payout is.

And all that being said--jezus Danny. If you knew that your dad was that bad (or a shadow of that bad), you know how you handle this? YOU go to HER. Go to South Africa to meet her family first. Stay a week or two, get to know her and her country and her culture (and make sure to send home a ton of pictures and stories so that your family which apparently has a second grade level of understanding of the world outside the US can begin to grasp the concept that there is actually civilization outside our borders) and then come back together to start the 90 day clock. Yes, money is tight. I get it. But some things are worth the sacrifice, even to the point of taking on some debt. This is your future WIFE here, bub. The mother of your children. You maybe want to think about her and her needs a bit more? Maybe? Make it clear to your fiance and your families (especially yours) that you're a team here. And equals. And maybe tell good ol' Dad that if he can't be pleasant, then he can chose to not come. That he is invited and welcome but he needs to consider if he is able to be present and also act like a human being, and if not, make a mature choice to stay away so that he won't ruin it for everone else.

You know what you *don't* do? Bring her over, abandon her in the middle of the countryside with a bunch of strangers (who apparently are so ill-prepared to meet her that they ask her to "say something in African"? Seriously? You didn't think to send them to the Wikipedia page for South Africa first? Do YOU know anything about South Africa, buddy?), neglect to take a single day off of work or a single hour off of your regularly scheduled family/social time, expect her to fit in seamlessly into your pre-existing life, make zero room for her AND let her meet her racist xenophobe of a future father-in-law with little more preparation than "heads up, my dad has an issue with your race".

GAH.

[Pickle 65]

See, here's a problem though. Who really wants to be on a (let's be honest, here) trashy reality television show THAT badly that they're willing to allow themselves and/or those who they (allegedly) love look like terrible people? They can't possibly be getting paid *that* much to justify me allowing my own father to say to my fiance *to her face on tv* the nasty things he said to her. I'm not exactly rolling in gobs of excess cash myself but there is *zero* chance I allow that that sort of embarassment to happen to the person I love, no matter what the payout is.

And all that being said--jezus Danny. If you knew that your dad was that bad (or a shadow of that bad), you know how you handle this? YOU go to HER. Go to South Africa to meet her family first. Stay a week or two, get to know her and her country and her culture (and make sure to send home a ton of pictures and stories so that your family which apparently has a second grade level of understanding of the world outside the US can begin to grasp the concept that there is actually civilization outside our borders) and then come back together to start the 90 day clock.

I was thinking the same thing, but then I was reading some of Cassia's blog (oh my gosh I am admitting it for the world to see...yes I like reality TV and the mindless gossip that goes with it!) and she said she had never seen the show before (obviously) and so maybe her fiance hasn't either. I think she actually did mention about the editing as well, which makes me think that when they watch the show, it is probably the first time they see how their actions and sentences were edited to be more dramatic than it really was.

And it seems like they don't have a grasp of what is going on in the rest of the US either (his comment about the interracial marriage that is not accepted here).

[Caryh 5,206]

I was thinking the same thing, but then I was reading some of Cassia's blog (oh my gosh I am admitting it for the world to see...yes I like reality TV and the mindless gossip that goes with it!) and she said she had never seen the show before (obviously) and so maybe her fiance hasn't either. I think she actually did mention about the editing as well, which makes me think that when they watch the show, it is probably the first time they see how their actions and sentences were edited to be more dramatic than it really was.

And it seems like they don't have a grasp of what is going on in the rest of the US either (his comment about the interracial marriage that is not accepted here).

I like all the trash talk that goes with these type of shows also Doesn't matter that I know most of what they're showing is BS, I still actually like this show.

And after over three years of being married to my wife here, I just now found out our marriage is not accepted here. Why didn't anyone tell us that before? I mean we have all types of people tell us how much they like us, and many have said we're an inspiration even, but they really find us unacceptable! Oh my lord, what will we do now

[Pickle 65]

I like all the trash talk that goes with these type of shows also Doesn't matter that I know most of what they're showing is BS, I still actually like this show.

And after over three years of being married to my wife here, I just now found out our marriage is not accepted here. Why didn't anyone tell us that before? I mean we have all types of people tell us how much they like us, and many have said we're an inspiration even, but they really find us unacceptable! Oh my lord, what will we do now

Go give that dad a reality check!

[Pennycat 880]

I was thinking the same thing, but then I was reading some of Cassia's blog (oh my gosh I am admitting it for the world to see...yes I like reality TV and the mindless gossip that goes with it!) and she said she had never seen the show before (obviously) and so maybe her fiance hasn't either. I think she actually did mention about the editing as well, which makes me think that when they watch the show, it is probably the first time they see how their actions and sentences were edited to be more dramatic than it really was.

And it seems like they don't have a grasp of what is going on in the rest of the US either (his comment about the interracial marriage that is not accepted here).

Actually, I read somewhere that he got the idea for the K1 visa from the first season of 90 Day Fiance--I of course don't remember where now, so take that with a grain of salt.

And in terms of the editing thing--I mean if the conversation with Danny's day was staged, WHY would you agree to that? Why would you, Danny, agree to let you Dad look that bad and insult the woman you love all for a TV show? It's either real or it's fake and either way it was badly mishandled.

[Pennycat 880]

I was thinking the same thing, but then I was reading some of Cassia's blog (oh my gosh I am admitting it for the world to see...yes I like reality TV and the mindless gossip that goes with it!) and she said she had never seen the show before (obviously) and so maybe her fiance hasn't either. I think she actually did mention about the editing as well, which makes me think that when they watch the show, it is probably the first time they see how their actions and sentences were edited to be more dramatic than it really was.

And it seems like they don't have a grasp of what is going on in the rest of the US either (his comment about the interracial marriage that is not accepted here).

Oh and ha, yes for sure. My first reaction was "what? where? is this guy for real? I thought those people gave up interracial marriage and started picking on the gays instead. ohh maybe he's a time traveler").

I said that relative to the whole thing where Amy has been asked if she "lives in a hut". For christs sake, people. Really? I can understand it from children. Young children. But not full grown adults who not only "should know better" in the colloquial sense of the term but really SHOULD know better.....like be aware of the fact that, gee, I don't know, there are modern, Western-style cities on the continent of Africa? Some of the largest cities in the world? Older than many New World cities? Absurd.

[moemac59 192]

Oh and ha, yes for sure. My first reaction was "what? where? is this guy for real? I thought those people gave up interracial marriage and started picking on the gays instead. ohh maybe he's a time traveler").

I said that relative to the whole thing where Amy has been asked if she "lives in a hut". For christs sake, people. Really? I can understand it from children. Young children. But not full grown adults who not only "should know better" in the colloquial sense of the term but really SHOULD know better.....like be aware of the fact that, gee, I don't know, there are modern, Western-style cities on the continent of Africa? Some of the largest cities in the world? Older than many New World cities? Absurd.

Catherine don't be shocked about the living in a hut comment. Sometimes I still get asked if I lived in an igloo when I was living in Canada.

[Pennycat 880]

Catherine don't be shocked about the living in a hut comment. Sometimes I still get asked if I lived in an igloo when I was living in Canada.

That's just sad, seriously. Ah well. Let the small-minded under-educated mouth-breathers live in their bubble. Just leaves more world for the rest of us to explore

[Brother Hesekiel 2,235]

I haven't been on VJ for a long time and then I see this post, want to read the gossip about the young Morrocan guy and his rather old, mentally retarded US fiance and you guys don't even talk about them.

Very disappointing . . .

[Wooderz 314]

I haven't been on VJ for a long time and then I see this post, want to read the gossip about the young Morrocan guy and his rather old, mentally retarded US fiance and you guys don't even talk about them.

Very disappointing . . .

Lol we have been talking about them! We even found her profile here. They just haven't been featured much on the last 2 episodes so there hasn't been anything new to talk about!

[marriedimorocco 8]

I haven't been on VJ for a long time and then I see this post, want to read the gossip about the young Morrocan guy and his rather old, mentally retarded US fiance and you guys don't even talk about them.

Very disappointing . . .

Hi, Brother Hesekial. This is Sofiyya. I lost my original account and haven't bothered to get it back, so, I look new.

Mohamed is Tunisian, not Moroccan, and there is so much dirt on them, I don't know where to start, so, I'll make a list that such keep you busy for a while.

1.Dani Mullins and Mohamed Jbali married on July 9 in an open air ceremony despite the fact that she lost her job in May and has not been able to pay for his AOS or find a sponsor (see the Nov. 30 episode). She also posted about losing her job in posts on VJ (see earlier posts here for the links).

2. They don't sleep together, are not intimate, aren't even friends on FB.

3. Dani's son, Corey, has an extensive civil and criminal record. Number 252 filed on 11/03/2014 is for a domestic violence charge leading to a restraining order against him to protect Mohamed from attacks by Corey. Source: http://tinyurl.com/n8evedv

245 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08-28-2006

Arr. Agency: SWAK Case #: 0601766A

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: POSSESS DRUG PA

Case Type: Criminal

246 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08-28-2006

Arr. Agency: WAK Case #: 0601766B

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: POSSESSION MARI

Case Type: Criminal

247 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 05/05/2008

Arr. Agency: WAK Case #: 0803102

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: STOP SIGN

Case Type: Traffic

248 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 12/01/2008

Arr. Agency: OSP Case #: 0809159

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: 72/55 SPEED

Case Type: Traffic

249 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/28/2009

Arr. Agency: OSP Case #: 0906503

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: SEAT BELT DRIV

Case Type: Traffic

250 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 12/28/2009

Arr. Agency: OSP Case #: 0909853

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: 70/55 SPEED

Case Type: Traffic

251 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 10/31/2014

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1401420

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: EVICTION

Case Type: Civil

252 Concerning: Mullins, Corey

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 11/03/2014

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 1401843

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: DOMESTIC VIOLEN

Case Type: Criminal

253 Concerning: Mullins, Corey A

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 03/19/2012

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 1200367

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT CRED CARD

Case Type: Criminal

254 Concerning: Mullins, Corey A

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 03/19/2012

Arr. Agency: SHF Case #: 1200371

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT CRED CARD

Case Type: Criminal

255 Concerning: Mullins, Corey A

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 03/23/2012

Arr. Agency: SHF Case #: 1200401

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT

Case Type: Criminal

256 Concerning: Mullins, Corey A

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 06/25/2012

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 1200996

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT

Case Type: Criminal

257 Concerning: Mullins, Corey A

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 07/02/2012

Arr. Agency: SHF Case #: 1201027

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT

Case Type: Criminal

258 Concerning: Mullins, Cory

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08-19-2009

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0901632

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY 28.5

Case Type: Civil

4. His mother, the USC, Dani, also has an extensive civil and criminal record going back years. Source: http://tinyurl.com/n8evedv

266 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 06/15/2001

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0100167

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY

Case Type: Civil

267 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 07/12/2002

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0200845

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY

Case Type: Civil

268 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/09/2002

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0200996

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RENT & RESTITUT

Case Type: Civil

269 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/19/2002

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0201034

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RENT & RESTITUT

Case Type: Civil

270 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 11-14-2003

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0301868

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY

Case Type: Civil

271 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 03/01/2004

Arr. Agency: NOR Case #: 0400430

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: BAD CHECK

Case Type: Criminal

272 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 06/23/2006

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0600917

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY 409.

Case Type: Civil

273 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 05/25/2007

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0700915

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY 263.

Case Type: Civil

274 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 05/17/2010

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1000761

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RENT & RESTITUT

Case Type: Civil

275 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/21/2012

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1201268

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RENT & RESTITUT

Case Type: Civil

276 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 12/13/2012

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1201902

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY 162.

Case Type: Civil

277 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 07/24/2013

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1300825

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: EVICTION

Case Type: Civil

278 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/26/1999

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 9900701

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RENT & RESTITUT

Case Type: Civil

279 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/04/2005

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 0501830

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT OF MONEY

Case Type: Criminal

280 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/04/2005

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 0501831

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT CREDIT CA

Case Type: Criminal

281 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/11/2005

Arr. Agency: SHF Case #: 0501923

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT

Case Type: Criminal

282 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 09/29/2005

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 0502341

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT/CREDIT CA

Case Type: Criminal

283 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 09/29/2005

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 0502343

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: FORGERY

Case Type: Criminal

284 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 10/13/2005

Arr. Agency: SNOR Case #: 0502450

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: THEFT

Case Type: Criminal

285 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 08/06/2007

Arr. Agency: OSP Case #: 0705893

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: SEAT BELT DRIV

Case Type: Traffic

286 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 05/21/2008

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 0800991

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: MONEY ONLY 1184

Case Type: Civil

287 Concerning: Mullins, Danielle M

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 09/23/1998

Arr. Agency: NOR Case #: 9809408

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: RED LIGHT

Case Type: Traffic

5. Mohammed has only been here a few months and he has not only had to go to court to obtain a restraining order, but, is currently facing eviction with Dani. This is her second eviction in a year. Source: http://tinyurl.com/kpybj9h

1 Concerning: Jbali (Mullins), Danielle

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 10/31/2014

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1401420

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: EVICTION

Case Type: Civil 2 Concerning: Jbali, Mohamed

D.B.A./A.K.A.:

Filed: 10/31/2014

Arr. Agency: N/A Case #: 1401420

Docket Entry: Click

Charge: EVICTION

Case Type: Civil

Edited December 5, 2014 by marriedimorocco