[Atlanta Desi Guy]

Hello Everyone,

This website has been a great help & have gathered tons of information. My Fiancee is scheduled for interview later in the month & we were preparing for the interview questions. There was actually 2 question which we did not know on how to answer - please can someone advise.

Question

• 1 - How much time have you spent together? or Your vacation together?
  or
• 2 - How long have you been with him in person?

So here is the situation - I have visited her several times over the last few years & everytime I have gone to see her we spent about a week at a time. How should she go about answering that question - any suggestions? (do we just add up the actual days we spent together over the last 2 years & use that as an answer?)

The second question is pretty much the same so does she have the same answer as the 1st one.

Thank You for all your help.

[Inky]

Answer it the way you just said it.

" I have visited her several times over the last few years & everytime I have gone to see her we spent about a week at a time. "


Your just answering regular relationship questions. Don't coach yourself too much or you will sound fake.

[didopage]

Just tell her to answer simply and honestly. If the CO asks these questions (which is not sure, nobody knows which questions your fiancee will have), she should just reply that you met several times (give the number) since 20XX, each time for a week. They don't expect her to answer "we met 43 days in total", that looks so no-spontaneous and too much prepared.

Don't think too much about the questions. If your relationship is completely bonafide, that you met, and that you know each other well, questions will be naturally easy to answer.

[Atlanta Desi Guy]

Just tell her to answer simply and honestly. If the CO asks these questions (which is not sure, nobody knows which questions your fiancee will have), she should just reply that you met several times (give the number) since 20XX, each time for a week. They don't expect her to answer "we met 43 days in total", that looks so no-spontaneous and too much prepared.

Don't think too much about the questions. If your relationship is completely bonafide, that you met, and that you know each other well, questions will be naturally easy to answer.

Thank You - it makes sense, we want to be prepared enough at the same time don't want to over do it.

[didopage]

It's good to have an idea of what questions they can ask though, so you know what to expect. But not to be over-prepared and have answers ready like you thought.

[Atlanta Desi Guy]

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Edited by Atlanta Desi Guy, 05 May 2012 - 05:29 AM.

[Neash]

I wish your fiancee luck on her interview and please keep us posted with more details after her interview!!! Where is the interview by the way?!?

AND ...

All the Best,