Update .... |
#31
Posted 05 April 2012 - 11:14 AM
I guess your instincts were right all along, and as someone else said, better to deal with this now, rather than a few years into an unhappy marriage.
Stay strong and know that lots of us here think about you often. This too shall pass.
Lots of love.
We met in 2003 while he was working in Zimbabwe. Started dating 6 months later, and only recently tied the knot. This is our journey:
Consulate: South Africa
Married: 2011-06-25
I-130 Sent: 2011-07-22
I-130 NOA1: 2011-07-25
I-130 Approved: 2011-07-27
Receive I-864 Package: 2011-11-10
Return Completed I-864: 2011-11-14
Packet 3 Received: 2011-11-10
Packet 3 Sent: 2011-11-10
Packet 4 Received: 2011-11-15
Interview Date: 2011-11-30
Interview Result: Approved
Visa Received: 2011-12-06
US Entry: 2012-01-11
Port of Entry: San Francisco
#32
Posted 05 April 2012 - 11:16 AM
Uuugh, I'd be armed or something if I were you. This guy is crazy, keep documenting everything, hopefully he'll get deported! Also, any friend or relative you can temporarily move with, for your safety?
I have no one near me but my neighbors are crazy as all hell....lol...and they know whats going on
Sam, this breaks my heart to read. But I am also really glad that you are a strong woman and will not let this defeat you.
I guess your instincts were right all along, and as someone else said, better to deal with this now, rather than a few years into an unhappy marriage.
Stay strong and know that lots of us here think about you often. This too shall pass.
Lots of love.
Thank you - Instincts are RARELY wrong
I-130 Sent: 7/9/11
NOA1 : 7/14/11
I-129F Sent: 7/21/11
NOA1: 7/21/11
NOA2: 8/22/11
NVC Received: 8/24/11
NVC Left: 8/26/11
Consulate Received: 9/5/11
Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11
Medical Done: 11/7/11
Interview: 11/23/11
Approved: 11/23/11
Changed to CR1: 12/16/11
Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12
Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........
#33
Posted 05 April 2012 - 11:52 AM
My offer still stands, that if you ever need to talk my facebook, skype and VJ inbox are always available to you.
Brittany
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
---
Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09
#34
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:03 PM
I worry about you Sam because although you are strong this Jensi sounds like he is out of his mind. Be careful. Protect yourself, your children, and yours.
I am glad you have the attitude you do towards all of this, remember time heals all wounds!
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail
#35
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:06 PM
You are handling everything so well. Your strength is amazing. Please keep us informed and let us know what happens, I really wish you all the happiness in the world and I truly hope you find someone who deserves you.
My offer still stands, that if you ever need to talk my facebook, skype and VJ inbox are always available to you.
Brittany
Thanks so much!! And yes, we definitely need to keep in touch. I have some dark days which makes me block out the world, but that's getting better by the day
I'm sorry he turned out to be such a LOSER!!!!!
![]()
![]()
I worry about you Sam because although you are strong this Jensi sounds like he is out of his mind. Be careful. Protect yourself, your children, and yours.
I am glad you have the attitude you do towards all of this, remember time heals all wounds!
Hey Steph!! You know what.....he's crazy, but I'm crazier and if he decides to continue his ridiculousness, it will be ON! I can only take so much before I tear him a new A-hole!
I-130 Sent: 7/9/11
NOA1 : 7/14/11
I-129F Sent: 7/21/11
NOA1: 7/21/11
NOA2: 8/22/11
NVC Received: 8/24/11
NVC Left: 8/26/11
Consulate Received: 9/5/11
Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11
Medical Done: 11/7/11
Interview: 11/23/11
Approved: 11/23/11
Changed to CR1: 12/16/11
Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12
Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........
#36
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:19 PM
Hey Steph!! You know what.....he's crazy, but I'm crazier and if he decides to continue his ridiculousness, it will be ON! I can only take so much before I tear him a new A-hole!
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail
#37
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:25 PM
![]()
![]()
![]()
Que siga jodiendote que le caemo todito de VJ atra!!! El pariguayo ese!
LMAO @ Stephanie..eso si es verdad..jijijiji
#38
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:33 PM
English ONLY, unless in regional forums.
![]()
![]()
![]()
Que siga jodiendote que le caemo todito de VJ atra!!! El pariguayo ese!
English ONLY, unless in regional forums.LMAO @ Stephanie..eso si es verdad..jijijiji
AOS, EAD & AP - the Aussie Way (including document list) - http://www.visajourn...-list-included/
ROC April 2012 - http://www.visajourn...il-2012-filers/ (includes document list)
N-400 April 2013 - http://www.visajourn...il-2013-filers/ (includes document list)
Aussie Chat page - http://www.visajourn...ussie-oi-oi-oi/ (leaving this for reference purposes)
Aussie Chat page continued - http://www.visajourn...ussie-oi-oi-oi/
Aussie Name Change on Passport Process - http://www.visajourn...change-process/
Travel on maiden name passport with married name GC, tickets in married name - http://www.visajourn...ost__p__4135806
Shipping Costs from Aus to US - http://www.visajourn...sts-aus-to-usa/
Notes:
- For my "standard" timeline please see timeline to the left
- For timeline with Aussie specifics & more detailed info, please see the "About Me" section of my profile
#39
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:34 PM

Here i am now what!!
#40
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:36 PM
![]()
![]()
![]()
Que siga jodiendote que le caemo todito de VJ atra!!! El pariguayo ese!
jajajajajaja....imagine we all ganged up on him!! ADM!!! If dreams came true!
I-130 Sent: 7/9/11
NOA1 : 7/14/11
I-129F Sent: 7/21/11
NOA1: 7/21/11
NOA2: 8/22/11
NVC Received: 8/24/11
NVC Left: 8/26/11
Consulate Received: 9/5/11
Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11
Medical Done: 11/7/11
Interview: 11/23/11
Approved: 11/23/11
Changed to CR1: 12/16/11
Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12
Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........
#41
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:38 PM
English ONLY, unless in regional forums.
English ONLY, unless in regional forums.
Sorry
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail
#42
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:40 PM
Way to stand up and say HELL NAW!. And I commend you for not letting one bad apple spoil your zest for life and love. You are a glowing example for your daughter. Bravo!
[/quote
Thank you - and its funny you mention my daughter. When this was all going down, I thought about her and how much I need to show her that this type of crap is not tolerable. She can't wait till I move on and find someone new.
I-130 Sent: 7/9/11
NOA1 : 7/14/11
I-129F Sent: 7/21/11
NOA1: 7/21/11
NOA2: 8/22/11
NVC Received: 8/24/11
NVC Left: 8/26/11
Consulate Received: 9/5/11
Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11
Medical Done: 11/7/11
Interview: 11/23/11
Approved: 11/23/11
Changed to CR1: 12/16/11
Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12
Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........
#43
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:42 PM
CONSULATE : Manila
MARRIAGE : Feb 15, 2010
I -130 SENT : April 26, 2011
NOA 1 : May 1, 2011
TOUCHED : May 5, 2011
NOA2 : August 1, 2011
Our I-130 was approved in 92 days from our NOA1 date.
CASE NUMBER ASSSIGNED : Sept. 12, 2011
EMAILED DS3032 : October 6, 2011
AOS FEE BILL PAID : October 11, 2011
IV FEE BILL PAID : October 24, 2011
NVC received AOS and IV packs = Nov. 3, 2011
NVC RESPONSE = Nov. 8, 2011 - RFE for missing proof of relationship with co-sponsor
Mailed RFE file = Nov. 9, 2011
NVC received RFE = November 14, 2011, 9:54 am, PORTSMOUTH, NH 03801
CASE CLOSED = Nov. 18, 2011
MEDICAL EXAM = Dec 20-21, 2011 = PASSED!!!
INTERVIEW DATE = January 6, 2012 = APPROVED!!! ----Our interview took 250 days from our I-130 NOA1 date.
VISA PRODUCTION = January 6,2012
VISA DELIVERY = January 11, 2012
POE = Feb.18, 2012
SSN Received = Feb 25, 2012
GC received = April 5, 2012 (incorrect data entry
CORRECT GC RECEIVED = August 22, 2012, granted IR1 (10 year gc)
that's where our USCIS process ends for now.. will wait for the next 3-4 years what we'll do next...



#44
Posted 05 April 2012 - 12:45 PM
i commend your bravery and will to surpass all these issues you are currently going through.. i remember that he and i arrived the same date in the US and i remembered all your posts since you had this issue.. i hope you indeed will find true love.. one that doesnt hurt or put u down.. continue your strive to get ur peace back.. take care always..
Wow...the same day huh? Imagine this hell that I've been going through in that small amount of time. What is it? Like 6 weeks now?? Thank you and I also hope that PEACE comes sooner than later.
I-130 Sent: 7/9/11
NOA1 : 7/14/11
I-129F Sent: 7/21/11
NOA1: 7/21/11
NOA2: 8/22/11
NVC Received: 8/24/11
NVC Left: 8/26/11
Consulate Received: 9/5/11
Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11
Medical Done: 11/7/11
Interview: 11/23/11
Approved: 11/23/11
Changed to CR1: 12/16/11
Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12
Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........
#45
Posted 05 April 2012 - 01:13 PM
25/03/2012 - I129F recieved
26/03/2012 - NOA1
24/09/2012 - NOA2 text message
02/10/2012 - NVC left case sent to Bulgaria ;o)
15/10/2012 - Packet 3 recieved
27/10/2012 - Medical exam
29/10/2012 - Interview - APPROVED
25/11/2012 - POE Miami
01/02/2013 - married
AOS
02/01/2013 - AOS sent
02/12/2013 - NOA1 text and email
02/16/2013 - recieved biometrics appointment letter
02/26/2013 - biometrics appointment
0 user(s) are browsing this forum
0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users
Important Disclaimer: Please read carefully the Visajourney.com Terms of Service. If you do not agree to the Terms of Service you should not access or view any page (including this page) on VisaJourney.com. Answers and comments provided on Visajourney.com Forums are general information, and are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, tax, legal, investment, accounting, or other professional advice. Visajourney.com does not endorse, and expressly disclaims liability for any product, manufacturer, distributor, service or service provider mentioned or any opinion expressed in answers or comments. VisaJourney.com does not condone immigration fraud in any way, shape or manner. VisaJourney.com recommends that if any member or user knows directly of someone involved in fraudulent or illegal activity, that they report such activity directly to the Department of Homeland Security, Immigration and Customs Enforcement. You can contact ICE via email at Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423. All reported threads/posts containing reference to immigration fraud or illegal activities will be removed from this board. If you feel that you have found inappropriate content, please let us know by contacting us here with a url link to that content. Thank you.
 

















