Green card holder - arresred for domestic violence... deportation?

[Kizana 4]

I don't know why I even write here... Probably just because I can't think about anything else...

I feel very depressed lately, for about three days. I tried to make myself busy: exercising, cooking, laundry, cleaning, watching favorite movies, shoppingl, talking to my parents etc. Didn't work - it does not even distruct me from my zoned out status. It's not like I want to cry or feel miserable, no, I just want to stay home and lay in bed... I am at work now and do my job automatically ( in general I love my job). In general I am very upbeat person, but I feel basically nothing now, not good nor bad, I just want to fall asleep for weeks until I will start to care...

My therapist is out of town, so I can't consult with her what that is and what should I do.

I can't talk to my husband either - no contact order.

Maybe it will go away by itself.

I hope so

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

I don't know why I even write here... Probably just because I can't think about anything else...

I feel very depressed lately, for about three days. I tried to make myself busy: exercising, cooking, laundry, cleaning, watching favorite movies, shoppingl, talking to my parents etc. Didn't work - it does not even distruct me from my zoned out status. It's not like I want to cry or feel miserable, no, I just want to stay home and lay in bed... I am at work now and do my job automatically ( in general I love my job). In general I am very upbeat person, but I feel basically nothing now, not good nor bad, I just want to fall asleep for weeks until I will start to care...

My therapist is out of town, so I can't consult with her what that is and what should I do.

I can't talk to my husband either - no contact order.

Maybe it will go away by itself.

I hope so

Classic depression symptoms. There are a variety of medications that can help. If your therapist is an MD then they can prescribe them. Otherwise, you should consult with a psychiatrist.

[Kizana 4]

Classic depression symptoms. There are a variety of medications that can help. If your therapist is an MD then they can prescribe them. Otherwise, you should consult with a psychiatrist.

Probably you are right...

There might be other "medication" for me I think - my hubby:) I got an email from him tonight that was so heartwarming! Made me feel butterflies in my stomach, made me want to live and smile! Unfortunately I can't respond nor talk or see him yet...

Gosh, I hope it will be over in a month!((

[Peter&Jaime 1]

My cousin was physically abused by a greencard holder. He was charged with domestic violence with three counts and spent over 6 months in jail. He is not being deported nor will he be.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

My cousin was physically abused by a greencard holder. He was charged with domestic violence with three counts and spent over 6 months in jail. He is not being deported nor will he be.

That's interesting. Because there's a post on VJ where the GC holder husband is (or has by now) been deported because of the domestic violence charge. A detainer was put on him once he left court and he was put in immigration jail and ICE was going to deport him (it's an old thread so I assume he's gone now).

[Peter&Jaime 1]

That's interesting. Because there's a post on VJ where the GC holder husband is (or has by now) been deported because of the domestic violence charge. A detainer was put on him once he left court and he was put in immigration jail and ICE was going to deport him (it's an old thread so I assume he's gone now).

Yes it is interesting since she called ICE to inform them that she is infear of her life from this man.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

My cousin was physically abused by a greencard holder. He was charged with domestic violence with three counts and spent over 6 months in jail. He is not being deported nor will he be.

It depends on what, exactly, he was charged with. ICE doesn't always move to deport someone who has been convicted, but CBP almost always denies them entry because the crime makes them inadmissible. DHS actually likes this approach because it's cheap, and doesn't involve any immigration courts. It's almost like a voluntary deportation.

Maybe someone can persuade this guy to take a little holiday outside the US...

[Peter&Jaime 1]

It depends on what, exactly, he was charged with. ICE doesn't always move to deport someone who has been convicted, but CBP almost always denies them entry because the crime makes them inadmissible. DHS actually likes this approach because it's cheap, and doesn't involve any immigration courts. It's almost like a voluntary deportation.

Maybe someone can persuade this guy to take a little holiday outside the US...

Yea I figured he would be caught up by some technicality. He hasn't left in a long time so most likely it will be when he goes to renew his green card. Thanks for the info.

[Kizana 4]

The case was dismissed yesterday at the courthouse!!! I am so happy!Finally my husband could come back home! Both of us almost cried when we got out of the courtroom and finally were able to talk and hug - it is over!!!

Thank you everyone for support and kind words to me!)))

[liz8923 0]

The case was dismissed yesterday at the courthouse!!! I am so happy!Finally my husband could come back home! Both of us almost cried when we got out of the courtroom and finally were able to talk and hug - it is over!!!

Thank you everyone for support and kind words to me!)))

Hi Kizana

Thats awesome!!!!!!!!

I'm very glad that your case got dismissed. Would you mind sharing the name of your attorney? I've been charged with a DV case as well- PC 273.5. My court date for pre-trial is 7/4. I am in California and am very nervous. My case is exactly same as yours except the fact my husband called and not the neighbor.

Thanks in advance for your help.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

The case was dismissed yesterday at the courthouse!!! I am so happy!Finally my husband could come back home! Both of us almost cried when we got out of the courtroom and finally were able to talk and hug - it is over!!!

Thank you everyone for support and kind words to me!)))

Congrats!

[TBoneTX 43,057]

Congratulations, si man!