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lonelymoon   0

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Please! I need a help! My fiancee sent the petition at the beginning of July, and we still didn't get NOA2. But I do not want to marry my fiancee, and do not wish to go to the USA to be with him. I want to close the petition. I know he will not do it, because he hopes to "change my mind". Please, help me to get rid off this situation! I do not want to wait and waste my time! Please help me.

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brnidokiegurl Grand Master

brnidokiegurl   0

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i believe he filed it he has to stop it, he file FOR you

TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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~PalmTreeGurl~   154

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Please! I need a help! My fiancee sent the petition at the beginning of July, and we still didn't get NOA2. But I do not want to marry my fiancee, and do not wish to go to the USA to be with him. I want to close the petition. I know he will not do it, because he hopes to "change my mind". Please, help me to get rid off this situation! I do not want to wait and waste my time! Please help me.

Then dont go to the interview, dont buy a plane ticket and dont board the plane if thats what it takes to not be with him! Easy at that!

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lonelymoon   0

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Then dont go to the interview, dont buy a plane ticket and dont board the plane if thats what it takes to not be with him! Easy at that!

Well I understand that.. but It might take months..... I want to close it as faster as I can.

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~PalmTreeGurl~   154

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Well I understand that.. but It might take months..... I want to close it as faster as I can.

who cares how long it takes? that part has nothing to do with you if you dont want to keep going thru with it... If you are 100% serious you arent going to be with him, then tell him and again ignore the interview, dont accept a plane ticket and dont board the plane. Are you 100% sure?

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i would think u could send a letter to whichever Vermont/Calif and state your cause from your viewpoint but i dont know what their next step will be and tell him you are sending it. Then just dont respond it may take while anyway but you are under no obligations at this point just go on with your life (unless someone else is trying to file for you)

TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

-------------

11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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~Laura and Nick~ Mentor

~Laura and Nick~   5

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You cannot close it. He petitioned for you. He would have to do it.

Stop communication with him and do not go to the interview.

Best of luck!

Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

CANADA.GIFUS1.GIF

~Laura and Nicholas~

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Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

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lonelymoon   0

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You cannot close it. He petitioned for you. He would have to do it.

Stop communication with him and do not go to the interview.

Best of luck!

Thank you. Do you think it is enough to just avoid the interview? Do I have to cancel it "properly"?

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~Laura and Nick~ Mentor

~Laura and Nick~   5

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You cannot close it. He petitioned for you. He would have to do it.

Stop communication with him and do not go to the interview.

Best of luck!

Thank you. Do you think it is enough to just avoid the interview? Do I have to cancel it "properly"?

It's enough.

Don't go to the interview and after a certain amount of time of hearing nothing from you (I'm sure someone knows the exact amount) Your case will technically be abandoned.

If in the next two years you have someone new petition for you, you will have to state that on the forms and you possibly will have to file a waiver.

Sorry it didn't work out with your fiance.

Let's Keep the Song Going!!!

CANADA.GIFUS1.GIF

~Laura and Nicholas~

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Met online November 2005 playing City of Heroes

First met in Canada, Sept 22, 2006 <3

September 2006 to March 2008, 11 visits, 5 in Canada, 6 in NJ

Officially Engaged December 24th, 2007!!!

Moved to the U.S. to be with my baby on July 19th, 2008 on a K1 visa!!!!

***10 year green card in hand as of 2/2/2012, loving and living life***

Hmmm maybe we should move back to Canada! lol smile.png

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Kathryn41 Grand Master

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If you want to 'do' something, after the NOA2 is approved, the whole application process shifts to your home country. You would receive information about it from the US Consulate that covers your area. You could just send that information package back to them and tell them you are not continuing the process. That would be the soonest you could 'do' something to close it instead of having to wait the process through. Good luck.

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If you want to 'do' something, after the NOA2 is approved, the whole application process shifts to your home country. You would receive information about it from the US Consulate that covers your area. You could just send that information package back to them and tell them you are not continuing the process. That would be the soonest you could 'do' something to close it instead of having to wait the process through. Good luck.

That would work as long as you know when they have the case. You could send the letter in response to any correspondence you get from the Consulate or Embassy.

Truly, unless you have a new relationship with another US Citizen, just getting on with your life is sufficient.

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Elghazi2008   4

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Please! I need a help! My fiancee sent the petition at the beginning of July, and we still didn't get NOA2. But I do not want to marry my fiancee, and do not wish to go to the USA to be with him. I want to close the petition. I know he will not do it, because he hopes to "change my mind". Please, help me to get rid off this situation! I do not want to wait and waste my time! Please help me.

I would think that you could get ahold of the Consulate or the Embassy and tell them that you do not want to continute with your visa process. You probably can't do anything until you at least have your case number though. You can just skip the interview and so on, but I would write a letter back to the Consulate/Embassy after your NOA2 comes just in case you get involved in another visa process later on down the road. It will be easier to justify ending your first visa process if they have received a letter in writing that states your wish to discontinue your process. I'm sorry that things did not work out between you and your fiance. I hope the future is bright for you :)

We met in October 2007 and our immigration journey started in July 2008 when we filed for the I-129F Fiance Visa petition. 

~05/16/2009~ MARRIED!!!!

~08/31/2011~ OUR SON WAS BORN!!!!

~02/17/2012~ Mailed I-751 Petition to Remove Conditions of Residency to Vermont Service Center

~03/19/2012~ ASC Biometrics Appointment

~11/05/2012~ Production of 10-year GC ordered

~7/1/2014~ Our son's first trip to Morocco

~03/17/2018~ Filed N-400

~04/09/2018~ Biometrics

~6/13/2018~ Off to Morocco, my parents in tow!

~10/23/2018~ Interview, approved

~11/7/2018~ Oath Ceremony

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dawgofwar71   0

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i have to agree with CSMITH. did you find a better deal!!!

whats the deal? i would love to hear his side of this story? this man fell in love with you and filed and now he has not only wasted his time ,but also money!! unless there is abuse involved , there should be no excuse. and i feel shamed for you,

we need more then what you gave us , for insight to this situation.

January 17,2007 was personally introduced to Raquel.

January 20,2007 Raquel an I started chatting online an on the phone.

March 11-27,2008 visited Raquel for the first time.

March 23, 2008 proposed to Raquel, she said OO!!

October 08,2009 sent in I-129f

October 12,2009 received our NOA1

January 12, 2010 received our NOA2

NATIONAL VISA CENTER

January 18,2010 case arrived at NVC

January 22,2010 case assigned MNL # thru letter arrived

April 21,2010 raquel arrived at CVG

May 22,2010 we got married

April 21,2011 we had a baby boy named Aiden

ang aking buhay, aking pag-ibig, ang aking lahat .. mahal na mahal din kita,Raquel at walang ibang! magpakailanman at kawalang-hanggan!!

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*JG*   2

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I would close it properly; but that's me. I hate loose ends.

Don't go any further with it. If it makes you feel better, write a letter or send an e-mail to formerly tell them you wish it to be closed. Even with that, it could take months to close properly.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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