I WANT TO GO BACK TO THE PHILIPPINES!!!

[macutelit 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

are you here because there are a lot of filipina who wants to be here???

[macutelit 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here.

Interesting thing to say coming from a filipina So it's "luck" that you're here and not love?

[envy_me 18]

i dont think you should feel lucky to be here just because other filipinas want to be here and they not given a chance to be here..

love matters i think, it's just a plus that you're SO is from the US..

Edited August 3, 2008 by envy_me

[camifree 2]

i dont think you should feel lucky to be here just because other filipinas want to be here and they not given a chance to be here..

love matters i think, it's just a plus that you're SO is from the US..

I agree. Being here does not mean LUCK whatsoever, and I don't say this "for free". LOVE does, wherever it takes you. And if you have tried hard, and it has not worked at all (regardless of his family), then move on with your life, girl... this is only one life... you don't only have the right to be happy (same as your husband), but the DUTY with the rest of the world of being happy... for the sake of everyone around us.

Best to you!

[macutelit 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

Sad you are one of them who only want to be here just to be lucky!!!

[Nessa 23]

I think it would be better to just go. If you are being this miserable and whiny at home, I'm sure your new husband would probably be happy to send you back to the Philippines. Overjoyed, even.

I agree. Sometimes when you're in love with someone and you decide to get married, it's all nice and wonderful, but then you actually live together it's not the way you thought it would be. That's when you have your assurance that you both should definitely be/get married, or that you should go separate ways.

If you are unhappy at this point of your relationship, I think it would be best to just leave before things get worse. If I was living with someone for a couple months, fighting everyday, I certainly wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life with this person.

Just my $0.02

[I'm Gone 60]

I think everyone needs to hold off on advice until she explains what they are fighting about. Is it normal everyday married things or are they taking swings and throwing things at each other. Could it be he isn't agreeing with everything she wants to do. I know when my wife first arrive she wanted to start changing everything and said I hold on a second. I'm not tossing everything out the door just so you can buy new stuff and she got her panties in a knot over that.

Plus my opinion on writing e-mail and chats is why write like a retard just because it's a chat or e-mail.

[PlatyPius 5]

I know when my wife first arrive she wanted to start changing everything and said I hold on a second. I'm not tossing everything out the door just so you can buy new stuff

Wise words.

Unfortunately, I let Mags change everything. LOL

Plus my opinion on writing e-mail and chats is why write like a retard just because it's a chat or e-mail.

This post is full of WIN and TROOF!

[Ban Hammer 12,835]

I know when my wife first arrive she wanted to start changing everything and said I hold on a second. I'm not tossing everything out the door just so you can buy new stuff

Wise words.

Unfortunately, I let Mags change everything. LOL

probably a wise choice - otherwise, she'd have suspended you

[baxxy 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

are you here because there are a lot of filipina who wants to be here???

Babycris: Just to clarify, I was giving kudos to your question, which was very valid.

[Colada 0]

If you are truly unhappy and neither of you have desire to work on the marriage, just get a divorce asap. why waste time on the marriage that make you sad? u sound like you have already make up your mind.

[macutelit 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

are you here because there are a lot of filipina who wants to be here???

Babycris: Just to clarify, I was giving kudos to your question, which was very valid.

okay

[Ban Hammer 12,835]

If you are truly unhappy and neither of you have desire to work on the marriage, just get a divorce asap. why waste time on the marriage that make you sad? u sound like you have already make up your mind.

might even be able to get it annulled.

[deadwood 0]

i dont think you should feel lucky to be here just because other filipinas want to be here and they not given a chance to be here..

love matters i think, it's just a plus that you're SO is from the US..

I think she is LUCKY she fell in LOVE with an American...

[Ban Hammer 12,835]