I WANT TO GO BACK TO THE PHILIPPINES!!!

[amerasianlove 0]

I feel sorry for you, try to make your relationship work, talk to him when both of you are in good mood in that way you open everything to him.Pray and ask for GOd's guidance for whatever decision you will make.Dont give up both of you have waited for months to be reunited dont just throw out what you have right now.

As for your brother in-law dont get bother if he doesnt like you, you didnt marry him...

[F23 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

[brokensmile 0]

don't worry what other people think. if ur not happy, just go. but remember. u r pinoy, and there is no divorce for a true pinoy. the shame is other couples are still waiting for their chance to be together. and if u just quit. ur time through the system was wasted time.

true.. we all have worked and tried to patiently wait to be united with our loved ones..

giving up just like that is a no-no..

Corinthians 13, 4-7

LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND, IT IS NOT JELOUS OR CONCIETED OR PROUD, LOVE IS NOT ILL-MANNERED OR SELFISH OR IRRITABLE, LOVE DOES NOT KEEP A RECORD OF WRONGS, LOVE IS NOT HAPPY WITH EVIL, BUT IT IS HAPPY WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE NEVER GIVES UP, AND ITS FAITH, HOPE, AND PATIENCE NEVER FAIL.............................keep on praying

[macutelit 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

are you here because there are a lot of filipina who wants to be here???

[prettynpink 0]

I hope things work out for both of you..

.Put God in the center of your relationship and you will never feel lost...He will surely guide you on whats best for both of you... God bless

[melusine 5]

i have to admit... i was like about that one too.

Also... i need clarification.... why does some Philippino women use gurl ??? instead of girl ?

Is it like.. writing like pronunciation or kinda to be cool ? (that drive me nuts)

I was thinking of your case yesterday, went to see your pictures, we talked about it with my husband.

on your picts, you seam to be all happy and all. Often my husband who say that your reaction was quite intense, cussing etc...

I said yes but perhaps it's just a difference of culture, the best way you found to express your feeling because you didn't knew any other way.

Then we were wondering.... you argue with your husbands apparently often but can you give us exemple of the subjects your argue about ?

I wish you good luck whatever will be your decision.

Edited August 3, 2008 by melusine

[brokensmile 0]

i have to admit... i was like about that one too.

Also... i need clarification.... why does some Philippino women use gurl ??? instead of girl ?

Is it like.. writing like pronunciation or kinda to be cool ? (that drive me nuts)

gurl (girl) slang name

[amerasianlove 0]

i have to admit... i was like about that one too.

Also... i need clarification.... why does some Philippino women use gurl ??? instead of girl ?

Is it like.. writing like pronunciation or kinda to be cool ? (that drive me nuts)

gurl (girl) slang name

B) B) B) B) B) B) B) B) B) B) B)

[Steve Y Jessica 1]

Just remember, a marriage is alot of hard work. Being in love is the esay thing to do. Staying in love and making a marriage work is the hard work. A good marriage takes alot of communication, understanding and compromise. If you just give up at the first sign of problems. You are not putting into the relationship what you need to. A marriage is not all surgar and roses. And it is even harder when the two people are from different cultures.

If you are ready to give up already, then maybe you are not mature enough to be married. Marriage is not a game!!!

[macutelit 0]

Just remember, a marriage is alot of hard work. Being in love is the esay thing to do. Staying in love and making a marriage work is the hard work. A good marriage takes alot of communication, understanding and compromise. If you just give up at the first sign of problems. You are not putting into the relationship what you need to. A marriage is not all surgar and roses. And it is even harder when the two people are from different cultures.

If you are ready to give up already, then maybe you are not mature enough to be married. Marriage is not a game!!!

[baxxy 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

If you feel this way already, it's not a good sign. Putting his family aside, which really should have no bearing on your relationship, although it would be a lot easier if they liked you, when you marry someone, you tend to marry their family also. You mention the words "hell" and "out of my mind" when you married him, they are some serious words, you don't sound happy at all. Why are you worried about AOS, why do you care if it affects your status or not, if its like being in hell here, why would you want to come back. A lot of filipinas think that everything will be a bed of roses when they get here, that's not the case, the grass is always greener. Also you're 23 yrs old, not many girls your age are ready for marriage, yes they want a house, and a hubby and a happy ever after ending here in the U.S. but it's rarely the case, don't waste anymore time here if you're so unhappy. Judging by what you say it seems like you made a mistake, that's ok, if you feel so strongly about it and it seems like you do, book the first flight out and go home.

[baxxy 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here.

Interesting thing to say coming from a filipina So it's "luck" that you're here and not love?

[baxxy 0]

I am already here w/ my "husband" in the US. But i feel like i am in HELL whenever we are fighting or arguing something about. I really want to go back to the Philippines to get rid of this. Honestly, i still thought why i married him. Actually, the first time i met his family was Horrible for me. I don't know. His brother was obviously doesn't like me for him for whatever the reason he has. I don't know if i am just being pathetic or over reacting on something i do not like. I don't know if this is because i am bored or the homesick. I was out of my mind when i agreed to marry him for i thought i will be happy with him. Btw, we've just married last month JULY 21 but we are already fighting almost every other day.

Can please someone tell me what will be the effect if I will go back to the Philippines on my AOS?

It would be okay for me if my husband and i will not continue this fuc*ing AOS and instead just file for the divorce or will it be automatically if i go back to my country?

I never been happy after i marry him and If i can only turn back time I shouldn't marry him and thought million times to do such shi* like this.

I just arrived here also in U.S. last July 4 and haven't married,at times i am just observing if we both meant to each other.But i see now things smooth for both of us.

Just keep your patient to his relatives and don't mind them if they will not like you...who cares?

#### his brother off!!!!!!!!!!! just be with your husband and stay home if you do not like to be with his relatives...okay? don't give-up gurl!

you are now in U.S. there's alot of Filipino wants to be here...you must be glad you're one of the luckiest person to be here...be Patient and most of all don't forget GOD.okay?

are you here because there are a lot of filipina who wants to be here???

[PlatyPius 5]

i have to admit... i was like about that one too.

Also... i need clarification.... why does some Philippino women use gurl ??? instead of girl ?

Is it like.. writing like pronunciation or kinda to be cool ? (that drive me nuts)

gurl (girl) slang name

Used by 13 year olds, yes.

[baxxy 0]

Also... i need clarification.... why does some Philippino women use gurl ??? instead of girl ?

Is it like.. writing like pronunciation or kinda to be cool ? (that drive me nuts)

It's them trying to fit in with the American culture, you'll find teenagers use that over there, kinda goes along with them TaLkInG lIkE dIs and yeah it bugs the hell out of me too.

Edited August 3, 2008 by baxxy