pechez
Dec 6 2007, 11:16 PM
I had a 4 year old daughter from my past boyfriend. Her name was in the application although my hubby and I haven't talk of petitioning her, My hubby knew everything about her, my past etc. My question is, what could be the best answer if the consul ask why my daughter is not coming with me. Plus my daughter and hubby don't have pictures together.
Would it be a problem? or a lot of people do that?
Coz I'm thnking its really hard to moving from one country to another I need to adjust first with the country and with my hubby. We want to enjoy each other's company, and I want to work.
chispas
Dec 6 2007, 11:36 PM
The poor child is only 4 years old so I wouldn't see why it is a problem to explain that you have to adjust first. Also, I believe that if you have filed with her and you both were approved, then you have some time to get her here. I forgot the length of time, but perhaps another person can give the exact timing. My step daughter was approved at the same time my husband was, but she didn't come. She waited too long and now she might as well forget it. However, yours being so young, might be different. The only question I would have, is if her father objects and blocks her joining you.