QUOTE(MarilynP @ Nov 8 2007, 11:45 AM)

you didn't send the birth certificate the first time around?? that is a big piece of evidence...
you don't need to send every bank statemen etc... I would send a couple... like one or two from the beginning, one or two from the middle and one or two from the present
Well, here is what happened. After my daughter was born, I kept waiting for the certificate. Turned out the state had stopped automatically sending them. In the meantime I sent my packet without it and ordered the birth certificate. When it came, I sent it under different cover, with a copy of the original letter from them. Obviously they did not get it, or it got lost in the pile. Thanks for the advice to all though, I will put it right on top!
Here is what I have so far:
Birth Certificate (born Feb of this year)
2004, 2005, 2006 taxes from US as well as IRS transcripts
Bank statements spanning different periods of time ( see note below about this)
Joint vehicle title and all registration documents (thought I had already sent this)
Got docs from my old employer, where I claim spouse for withholdings, named him as benificiary for 401k (although I did not contribute anything), insurance for changing my medical insurance users because of the birth of my daughter, adding her to employee and spouse plan
Dental insurance cards, stating spouse in plan
Medical recipts from insurance provider of my husband using my plan
All former leases
I will get two affidavits.
Here is my problem with the bank statements. It turns out that either by a mistake by the bank or some terrible over sight by us, I may have never been put as a joint user on the account...we are sorting this out with the bank because we had checks in both of our names, so it would appear that our account was joint and the bank slipped up. Anyways, we are working on this. I could kick myself because if I had of known about all of this stuff I would have made absolutely sure our names were one EVERYTHING!
What should the affivadits have in them for those that have done them...can the people say that they have knowledge of a loving relationship and all that or is that too mushy for them??