We have not been touched so far. That really makes me worried. I miss my hubby so much.


dont know when this stupid wait would come to an end. Sorry, for saying the same thing over and over. I am really frustrated right now and I have nobody else to talk to. I wish I could tell my hubby how frustrated I am, but then he keeps asking me to stay upbeat. I am sure he feels the same deep down inside but just wont express it to me. god! please help us.

Hang in there sweetie! It's understandable to need to talk to someone. It's sooo hard, I know.

At least you're on your way, and you can get through this! I know it's easier said than done, but if you can, try to focus on the good things in your life, and be thankful you have someone to miss so much.

You're not alone hun! The waiting will be worth it.

Sweetie, keep your hopes up. It's a hard journey but Lorilawless is right, try to think of the positive things you have. Including the fact that you have someone that means so much to you

I have the bad habit of locking things up inside and not sharing things that get me down. This means the emotions eventually explode. Josh tells me off for keeping things to myself because it's no good for my health, and overflowing emotions make me withdraw from everyone. It is much healthier to share things a bit at a time. If you don't want to share them with your hubby, then share with friends or family. Also remember there are people on this board that know exactly what you are feeling and going through.

Hang in there, I know exactly how you are feeling. The California Service Center received my petitions in April and we still have not heard anything from them. The only touches we had was in June. Hassan and I had to spend our 1 year anniversay apart. I'm praying for us all and I hope to hear some good news about my petitions and all who are also waiting on approvals.

Hi sweety10,
l am going through the same thing and l can underestand how you feel, l miss my husband very much and this process has made explode already. At times l get so sad and cry a lot but one thing l know it´s that l can´t loose hope and faith.
hang in there, don´t give up. l haven´t received my NOA2 yet but lam sure that l will be with my husband.
USCIS has to give us our approval, the thing is that we don´t know when.

same here ... no touches... maybe we are all under "security checks"... I faxed over to 7 of my state's congressmen/women and also one of California's senators... hopefully I will hear something in a month or two regarding this situation.. I signed their "privacy" form and faxed my letter to them also... well, at least try to have a nice holiday (Monday is a holiday for us).. innocent.gif maybe that's why the USCIS people aren't working...

just be strong and stay positive.. I read a topic on visajourney where the two people divorced and went their separate ways because the visa journey took too long (over 2 years already)... you can't let USCIS decide who you are and want to be with.. Love will conquer everything... your love for each other will make this journey better, and when you are finally together, it will make your relationship and family stronger..

Hubbys a good man, you know us hubbys don't want our wife to worry.
Take strength from him for now. Soon you both can build your family.
As far as the time each of us are alive its just a moment in time.........
Stay strong, you can do it

sigh hun, hang in there it will be worth it soon, and dont feel alone, I feel the same way some days, just want to toss it out the window and just forget the whole thing, the heartache of being alone without my husband, but then he picks me up and says noooooooooooooooo....

hang on babes xxxxxxx

She's not alone, you are not alone.
Don't open that window..............
We don't have a give up in our dictionary.
While you two are apart lean on people
just like you that know and can feel all
the emotions you feel..No worries mate.
No worries

[size="2"][/size][color="#483D8B"][/color] We all could be under security checks before our approvals? Is that delaying things?

Sweetie,

We have not been touched through out a whole wait for both our petitions, and only on the day of approval (Oct 30) they touched both petitions. So, touches are not a good indication of your status... Plus, we file 130 in April, and only on Nov. 5 got official approval notices. You filed, as I see it, in June... so that is two month differences... Your best option is wait... Try not to call them often... I called them only once on Oct. 20th, only to hear that your case is pending... Those guys don't have a clue.