QUOTE(Weavman @ Jan 20 2008, 08:27 PM)

Not sure how to start this next part of my saga... between Christmas and New Years, both of my boys ended up in two different hospitals here in Austin Texas where we live. Both got out, one doing great - believe it or not he was the one I was most concerned about with a skull fracture. The other, was out and is now back in. Don't want to go into all the detail here about the situation, but I have been using up sick-time (thankfully saved over the years) at work on FMLA, few hours here, some more there, day when necessary... This last time he went in, I called in desparation to the National #, and kept going around the choices as to which button to hit (really not sure how I got to where I did) but I was put into contact with the most wonderful lady you can imagine. I explained the single dad in waiting, trying to juggle all, and crying out for help - she put me on old a minute then filled out an expidite request. I am hard of hearing and explained that I try to do most by email. Wow, got an email telling me to fax supporting document to VSC. I got them together, with a dated statement from the hospital and tried several times on Friday to fax, getting 'check condition of remote fax'. So ran out Saturday morning to Post Office and priority mailed the originals. I have a NOA-1 date of 11-1, so figure mine is fairly close to the top of the stack out there anyway. But what I am amazed about was the compassion that I got. No matter what happens, one lady taking calls at the National line has my deepest thanks and gratitude. I think it is important for all of us to remember that there are humans with feeling on the other side processing our papers. They are going as fast as they can doing the job they have been given to do. Please give them the benefit of the doubt as to processing times - I know we are all anxious to be with the ones we love, but as Thumper had to say "if you can't say nothin good, don't say nothin at all". For whatever circumstances are involved, we all have fallen in love with someone that requires a test of patience by a higher power, the folks processing the paper are doing their best to minimize the duration, but there is still the test we must complete. Nuff said...
Thank you for the "Thumper" quote. I often think that when I am reading posts here. I know we are all lonely, impatient, and frustrated. But that is no reason to take it out on others who are also lonely, impatient and frustrated.
Best wishes for both of your sons. I hope they are able to recover. And you probably are close to the top of the stack, since you are at VSC. If you were at CSC, they probably wouldn't be able to find your petition under the stack of JULY, AUGUST, SEPTEMBER and OCTOBER files.
I hope you get your expedite and that your sons will be okay.