QUOTE(coco_21 @ Oct 24 2007, 11:27 PM)

Hi! my name is Elaine and I have been going with this man that i am so in love with for 2 years. We are engaged and want to get married. He ask me if I could go to Lagos. I was scaried because I heard so many things about Nigeria. Is it safe for me to travel to Lagos and marry my Fiance. We are so in love. Or can he come to the US on a tourist visa and meet me ane we get married here in the US and I file for a K3 Visa anda 1-130.
Using a tourist visa with intent to come here, marry and stay is visa fraud. And like Omoba said, it will be near to impossible for him to get a tourist visa.
You have 2 options:
(1) K-1 (fiance visa): If you have met within the last 2 years and can prove this with documentation, you could file for the fiance visa. It is a fairly easy process and most people get through it without a hitch.
(2) K-3 or CR-1/IR-1 visa (spousal visa): If you want to get married and bring him here you can file for the spousal visa. For the K-3 you would file the I-129F and I-130 but once he gets here you will need to adjust status. For the CR-1/IR-1 there is no need to adjust status and he would be able to work right away (not true in the case of the K-3).
For more on the visas read the guides.
QUOTE(coco_21 @ Oct 24 2007, 11:27 PM)

Please get back to me please.
We don't know what to do. I got my passport three weeks ago and have some problems with the law that I have to work out first. We were going to Ghana and get married.
elaine_2lovesu@yahoo.com
Congraduations on your marriage.

Have you met this man that you are engaged to? If not I would highly suggest you meet and spend some time together before deciding you want to get married. I think that would be the wisest first step.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Zee