I just wanted to add.... because I feel so strongly about this..... that you have GOT to stop sacrificing where it's not necessary. We give up so much in this world and, for many of us, it's hard to give ourselves a little reward without feeling guilty about it. Do something for yourself, Nini. You have been offered a gift. Accept it, enjoy it, and feel good about it. We all deserve to feel good about our lives. I understand your motives behind not accepting this gift, but just remember. Each little denial, however well-intended, will sit at the back of your mind. It will join all the other little denials, which will be joined by all the future little denials. One day, that little pile of denials is going to get really big and is going to pop. And it's going to pop at a really inopportune time. Save yourself some grief and do yourself a favour. TAKE THE TRIP.

And now back to your regularly scheduled programming. Thank you for your patience with the emergency broadcasting system.

I got tails, Spirit.

Krikit, I will definitely mull on your advice. And when I say mull, I mean MULL. Like a fine hot apple cider

Was tails to go?
Sweet lord give me patience.


Okay I have no patience.
Let's say tails was to go.

Great trick, Spirit!

I got tails, Spirit.

Krikit, I will definitely mull on your advice. And when I say mull, I mean MULL. Like a fine hot apple cider

I feel like I'm going to mess something up because I don't know what half these abbreviations mean!!!!! Seems like SO many steps in this process... Hope its clear once I get to them

Hmmmm...what to do what to do....

Okay here it is:

Take a coin.
Decide on what side is stay and what is go.
Flip it.

Please come back with the result, post it, and I will "psychoanalyze" it with you.
I'm not joking.
Do it now!

OMG, fresh blood!
Welcome, welcome.
I swear I was just thinking how incestuous this was all getting...


Levi Heather...and relation to Lady Heather?
Hee, hee.

Abbreviations are fun, but there aren't that many..stand by I will find a good website for you...all.

It was going to be Ladee Heather; but now the moment of glory is past Spirit. I shall remain Len_and_Bren for a while more.

Excellent advice. Humans are binary creatures, at least from a physiological standpoint. Our muscles and nerves respond in a binary all-or-none manner. Just like a switch or flipping a coin. If you ask a basic question then you will be able to decide quite simply. The problem is that we don't frame the questions properly or we are too afraid to ask the question in the first place. Simplification is the toughest thing we can do, but it is also the only thing that works.

I feel like I'm going to mess something up because I don't know what half these abbreviations mean!!!!! Seems like SO many steps in this process... Hope its clear once I get to them

OMG, fresh blood!
Welcome, welcome.
I swear I was just thinking how incestuous this was all getting...


Levi Heather...and relation to Lady Heather?
Hee, hee.

Abbreviations are fun, but there aren't that many..stand by I will find a good website for you...all.

AOS: Adjustment of Status

OR

AoS: Affidavit of Support (form 1-664)

DCF: Direct consular filing

EAD: Employment authorization document

AP: Advanced Parole

GC: Green card

POE: Port of Entry

CO: Consular Officer (aka Big Azzhole)

AP: Advanced Parole

WHOO! Haven't been able to use this one in a while.....

Welcome to VJ!!!!

Spirit.... fresh blood....

AOS: Adjustment of Status

OR

AoS: Affidavit of Support (form 1-664)

DCF: Direct consular filing

EAD: Employment authorization document

AP: Advanced Parole

GC: Green card

POE: Port of Entry

CO: Consular Officer (aka Big Azzhole)

Welcome aboard, Levi_Heather, it is indeed a pleasure to make your acquaintance. One more thing, Abandon hope all ye who post here.

Good to be here! I..... Think......

Don't sweat it. The immigrant gauntlet is stressful enough, but this small corner of the internet is where we can give a modicum of succor to our fellow posters or at least tease the Hell out of them. Welcome again.

Don't sweat it. The immigrant gauntlet is stressful enough, but this small corner of the internet is where we can give a modicum of succor to our fellow posters or at least tease the Hell out of them. Welcome again.

I don't see any VENTING going on here!! get a grip people!!

will be a learning experience....... Anybody have any good Mennonite recipes?

I don't see any VENTING going on here!! get a grip people!!

Oh ya welcome to VJ!! lol

ALL THE PAPERWORK AND THE WAITING AAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! Is that better? Lol

I don't see any VENTING going on here!! get a grip people!!

Oh, those silly ones.

Oops.
Forgive me being on the wrong tack.
Hee, hee.

Hey! We're Canadians! This is about as bad as it gets!

Biometrix was the other one? Whats that about? Sounds scary

Hey! We're Canadians! This is about as bad as it gets!

I LOVES MY CANADIAN!!!!!

Isn't she precious, everyone?
Let's keep her.


As for "biometrix", please tell her the truth.
Don.t hold back!!!
She's one of us.

OK people. Take this to the OT Canadian forum. Just cuz trailmix is not around to kick your collective azzes that doesn't mean you can use the THE VENT thread to be nice to each other. So there.

Can we? Oh Boy!

Biometrix? You mean with the speculum, the lube and the latex gloves?

OK people. Take this to the OT Canadian forum. Just cuz trailmix is not around to kick your collective azzes that doesn't mean you can use the THE VENT thread to be nice to each other. So there.

Seriously. Click to view attachment

OMG!!!!!

I don't see any VENTING going on here!! get a grip people!!

They used gloves?? You must have paid extra!!

Indeed I did, but they only take Canadian Dollars.

Oh yeah?!

I hate when I get so enthralled in content, that I forget to check whether I am in The Vent thread or in the Off Topic (OT for you newbie Levi Heathers) thread!!!!

I hate it when I don't use enough !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really hate it when I only know and use less than one third of Mumsie's posted vocabulary.
www.dictionary.com has become my friend.











And I really really really hate it when someone TELLS ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....
no more stars for you, hmph!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!