Congratulations Jen and Abdou!

charles, i bought that book when I was going through most of my mothers crap - she gave me a really hard time when i was pregnant at 30, oh the horror- i should have lived more of my life first? WTF?!!!! you think she would be happy to be a grandmother, its not like i was 20!!! anyway the book helped.

CONGRATS JEN

I agree with Doodle and our offer still stands...you guys can come any day. Just give us the word. My husband could probably even get Abdou a job with him.

Glad you went through with it!!!

I'm glad you went with your heart! I hope your family comes around and accepts your marriage too. Best Wishes to you both!

Congratulations to you and Abdou! I'm so happy you went through with it. I wish you the best of luck in your new life together!

Congratulations Jenn on the wedding. I am glad to see that you have come to a decision that is making you happy.

NY is the place to be - you know how great it is for new immigrants ooe even people moving here from other states. It may not be the cheapest place to live but there are many benefits. You know it well and Doodle is right - you sounded so much happier when you were on your own.

Once again huge congratulations and wishing you many years of happiness!

D.

Congratulations. I agree with everyone else -- you made the right decision, based on what you shared here. You've got the legal stuff out of the way, so now you can get started on the next step in the process and move on with your new life together. I'm glad to see that you are moving out. The situation you have been in may be cheaper, but it is certainly not healthy. Lean on each other and you will be fine. I hope your family does come around in time, but even if they do not, may your next wedding ceremony be full of joy and laughter and mascara that stays put. Best wishes to you both.

Great, best wishes to both of you now go make your life together, years fr now you can tell your gkids...back in my day ...ha

CONGRATULATIONS JEN AND ABDOU!!!!!!!!

Yeah, probably moving is going to be the best decision! I think a lot of us have had the screws put on our thumbs by family. And yeah, either they get over it or not, but what matters is how YOU feel. It is YOUR marriage afterall

Congratulations! I'm glad you got married.

I'm sorry you are dealing with such nonsupporting family. I think time will bring them around though. You may or may not know about things me and Suj went through to be together, but it was not easy but things have turned out good in the end. My family was supportive here, but his was not, but we went through with it anyway. It was very stressful for him and heartbreaking at the time. Now after him being here and us being married over 3 years, things have gotten a whole lot better and there are no bad feelings anymore. Unfortunately I still have not been able to meet my in laws, but hopefully will sometime after the baby is born. It is a weird feeling not have meeting the family of your husband, but now I do look forward to it. If our story has a good ending with unsupportive family(in a very very traditional society-India) then I am sure yours will too, it just takes time and patience.

Good luck with your future & making your OWN life with your new husband!!

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I am so happy for you.

Congrats on your wedding. I hope that deciding to be with the love of your life will supercede any money! What is money if you are miserable because you made the biggest mistake of your life?

Congratulations!! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together.

Jennifer

I'd dump em off. Just take a look inside, and follow your instinct & gut feeling.

You're usually right.

I know I was - lol - but I didn't listen to myself. But who knows! I ended up in a better position (maybe) by not listening to myself ... so, you never know.

( I'm no help at all, I just said either way is right ... DOH! Sorry. )

But truthfully, an a*s family is just that - a*s. Don't be afraid to pick up and leave if needed. Sounds like prejudice is showing through quite nicely - the *entire* world is better off staying away from people who choose to be that way.

I'm one who would point that right out to them - and tell them up front: "If you're that shallow where you can not see deeper than your own prejudices, I believe it's best that I keep as far away from you as possible. I'll see you again when you decide to change yourself for the better."

sorry to hear that, coming to Morocco is not a good idea because of k1 and if you come here you have to get married and go back to US and you will have the same problem with you family and maybe you will have problem with his family too, you said that you love him and you want to leave everything for him,your family your country and everything but does he love you? it s big question, i don t want to talk about him because i don t know him so it s you who must know everything if he really loves you and he wants to stay with you forever and not only for the green card, i m moroccain and i know how they think but please take your time and know him more and more then you can decide you still have time, tell me he is from Casa and how old are you ? let me know if you need to know something about Morocco and i wish you good luck .

Good for you. Very happy you did what your heart told you to do.

Congrats

Good girl! Wishing many years of happiness together for you both!

Way to follow your heart - Congratulations and I wish you and your Husband much much happiness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope you will be able to find a road that is better for you soon. If going back to NY (u didsay NY didn't you??) then do it Whatever t takes to make your lives stable again is what you're going to have to do. I wish you both the best of luck and much much much happiness.

amal

Congratulations!! I'm so happy you decided to get married!! I hope the best for you two and that your family comes around soon!

Congrats, you two!

congrats!

Congratulations on your marriage. I wish you two many happy years together.