Destiny'sJourney
Oct 14 2007, 02:21 PM
Hello Sub-Saharan family,
By the grace of God, I arrived safely in Dakar this morning. My fiance and I are so happy to be reunited!
His second interview is this Tuesday, the 16th!
I truly appreciate all the support this site, and especially this forum has given me over the past several months. Please keep us in your prayers that his visa will be granted Tuesday. Thank you again! I'll keep you posted!
God bless,
Shanon
jasman0717
Oct 14 2007, 02:32 PM
Good luck
liz_legend 'n Ol
Oct 14 2007, 02:35 PM
good luck!
Zee Bee
Oct 14 2007, 02:35 PM
We will be praying for you!!!
Good luck!!!!
knl
Oct 14 2007, 04:19 PM
I wish you the best. Things will work out in your favor. It's good you are there for the interview. Let us know how it turns out.
Naijagal
Oct 14 2007, 05:59 PM
Best wishes...will keep u in my prayers
Queen Jenn
Oct 14 2007, 06:46 PM
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!
AFENABA
Oct 14 2007, 08:12 PM
Surely the Good Lord will see's you thru. You are in my prayers.
Good Luck.
boo boo
Oct 14 2007, 09:05 PM
I am happy that you are there...will keep you and SO in my thoughts and prayers
bimax
Oct 15 2007, 01:23 AM
Good luck for the visa. I pray for you guys.
Bassi and Zainab
Oct 15 2007, 12:19 PM
Good Luck!!
forchika
Oct 15 2007, 02:37 PM
Sand
Oct 15 2007, 03:30 PM
Good Luck!
DEECEE
Oct 15 2007, 04:46 PM
Good luck
Boaz
Oct 15 2007, 06:02 PM
I wish you the best!
taurean
Oct 15 2007, 06:19 PM
Shanon: we've already talked, but just wishing you a public "Good Luck." Glad you had a safe trip to Dakar.
Omoba
Oct 15 2007, 09:08 PM
Hey my sister Shanon,
I want to see the good news first thing when I wake up tomorrow. So don't forget to post the details for us who follow you soon for the
2. interview.
Glad you had a good flight and are safe and sound in your man's arms !
I am praying for you both.
Zee Bee
Oct 16 2007, 08:57 AM
Hoping for some good news
Omoba
Oct 16 2007, 09:01 AM
Anything yet ?
taurean
Oct 16 2007, 09:42 AM
I see I am not the only one who keeps checking in for news...
Shanon just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you!
Omoba
Oct 16 2007, 09:53 AM
Hey Taurean..........I am on pins and needles and couldn't sleep well last night................lol
taurean
Oct 16 2007, 09:55 AM
Omoba: I know what you mean! I looked at the clock this morning as I was getting my coffee and knew they were probably in the Embassy at that moment.
Omoba
Oct 16 2007, 10:01 AM
Maybe they are too happy looking for a computer
taurean
Oct 16 2007, 10:07 AM
Yeah and hopefully there is power in the cyber cafe. jk
akatagirl
Oct 16 2007, 06:54 PM
I sincerely hope they have nothing but good news to report and I think its great that Shanon went to Dakar for the second interview!!!! Hope you both are rejoicing and celebrating!!
Bassi and Zainab
Oct 17 2007, 08:10 AM
I hope we hear an update soon. Keeping my fingers crossed for good news!!
Zee Bee
Oct 17 2007, 06:30 PM

Nothing yet?
Destiny'sJourney
Oct 18 2007, 01:23 PM
AAAAPPPPPRRRRRROOOOOVVVVEEEEDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!
Hello Sub-Saharan family,
Praise the Lord!! I'm so sorry to keep you in suspense. Everyone here understands that African superstition thing. Even though Kesso was approved on Tuesday, he wanted us to wait until he had his visa in hand before we told everyone. We picked up his visa today -what a wonderful thing to actually see that visa in his passport!! It's official now!!
I want to thank everyone for your support, prayers, and well wishes!! I'm truly blessed to have found this site and most of all, this forum. I want to say a very special thank you to Taurean, Omoba, Boaz, and Bimax -your kind words and encouragement have been priceless.
I'll have to a give a full review once I return home and catch my breath. I look forward to using an American keyboard, these ones are driving me crazy.
To Bimax and Omoba, it's your turn to go over there to Dakar and tell pharoah to let your people go!
To everyone else, I wish you all the best on your journeys. Keep praying and never lose sight of why you began this process.
God bless,
Shanon
Zee Bee
Oct 18 2007, 01:25 PM
Praise the Lord!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
ara
Oct 18 2007, 02:25 PM
Congratulations that is wonderful news!
bimax
Oct 18 2007, 02:26 PM
Shanon,
Congratulations!!! This must be a relief for both of you guys.
AFENABA
Oct 18 2007, 02:32 PM
CONGRATULATIONS......THANKS BE TO OUR GOOD GOD YOU ARE THRU
Boaz
Oct 18 2007, 02:36 PM
Praise God from whom ALL Blessings flow ..........
YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Boaz
taurean
Oct 18 2007, 02:44 PM
CONGRATUALTIONS Shanon!!

I know you are beyond happy right now. Best wishes to both of you on the approval and have a happy reunion when the time comes.
Omoba
Oct 18 2007, 04:22 PM
akatagirl
Oct 18 2007, 04:30 PM

Congrats!!!!!
We_Destiny
Oct 18 2007, 05:00 PM
DEECEE
Oct 18 2007, 05:11 PM
boo boo
Oct 18 2007, 05:22 PM
I am so so so happy for you..God is GOOD!!!
PEGGY
Oct 18 2007, 05:26 PM
Congrats
Bassi and Zainab
Oct 19 2007, 08:31 AM
Whoo Hoo!!!!
Great News!! Congratulations!!!!
liz_legend 'n Ol
Oct 19 2007, 10:37 AM
congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
forchika
Oct 19 2007, 04:03 PM
JJWashington
Oct 23 2007, 12:53 AM
Congratulations!
Queen Jenn
Oct 23 2007, 08:42 PM
Omoba
Oct 23 2007, 09:12 PM
Details please
Sonshyne
Oct 26 2007, 10:58 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Destiny'sJourney
Oct 29 2007, 02:02 PM
Hello everyone,
I hope all is well! Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I've been so tired since I returned to the states last Monday. Being with my darling again was wonderful and I miss him so much. *sigh* God willing, he'll be here before Christmas! He's going to go visit his family in Nigeria first. In the meantime, I have to get this house ready for him.
The interview was very hard. First, we almost got into a car accident on the way to the embassy. This idiot came out of nowhere and Kesso swerved to keep from hitting him and almost hit the curb. We arrived at the embassy at approx 12:30 and were told by security to "come back because it wasn't 2 o'clock". So we went for a little drive and the clutch starting making a weird noise. We were worried the truck was going to break down! Thank the Lord, we made it back to the embassy safely around 1:45 and still weren't let in until almost 2:10. Kesso wasn't called in until around 4:05. We walked in together and the interviewer, without asking who I was, asked me to step "completely outside". I returned to the large waiting room and prayed and waited.
The interviewer, who my fiance says is named Yvonne Clark, grilled him for about 30 mins before he came to the door and gestured for me to come in. After the interview, he told me she asked him a lot of questions like how we met, did I have children, what I did for a living, did I like to travel, his prior relationships, why he wanted to marry me, what schools I went to, why did he come to Senegal, describe his job, etc.
Anyway, when I stepped up to the window, she asked my fiance to step outside. She then proceeded to tell me that my coming to the interview didn't guarantee that his visa will be granted, she had to ask me some questions, I may not like the questions, etc. Then she told me that my fiance didn't seem to know a lot about me. I became scared. I asked what didn't he know? Before I knew it, I began to cry. I told her I wasn't trying to gain her sympathy, it had just been a very hard year. She said she understood and that tears didn't affect her, as she's seen many things in her line of work.
She asked a few questions about me: where I work and what do I do, name some of the places I've traveled to, do I have any children, ever been married, how we met, why I came all the way to Africa to find a man. She warned me about scams involving foreigners using US citizens to get to the states. I told her I was aware of these scams and didn't feel that my fiance would ever do that to me. She asked if he had been married, had children, what he did for a living, where he lived, why he was living in Senegal, I think she also asked if he had ever been to the states. Meanwhile, I continued to cry.
The interviewer began looking through the documents in our file, complained about a couple of them, stating they weren't what she needed. Then she said she needed my tax returns from the last 3 years. I told her that the I-134 form doesn't request tax returns and those documents were back in the states and I would have brought them had I known they would be requested now. I told her that my fiance had e-mailed the embassy over a month before the interview asking if he needed to bring any additional documents and that they never even responded to his e-mail. She said she couldn't read the copy of his birth cert that was in our file and that she needed his Nigerian police report, not the declaration from the Nigerian embassy. I begged to be allowed to call my fiance back in because he had the documents which she had complained about.
She allowed me to call Kesso in and he submitted the requested documents. He was very concerned that I was crying. The interviewer asked a few more questions and added a couple more comments like would my fiance marry me and then divorce me in two days. Finally, she said that she's recommending the visa. Kesso and I kissed and embraced and my sad tears turned into tears of joy! Her computer had actually shut down, so she said that she would have to update our file as soon as it came back up. She told Kesso that he could pick up his visa on Thursday "as long as nothing came up within the next two days". She kept his passport and handed him an orange ticket.
For a moment there, I really thought our case would be delayed again, but God prevailed! Not that I ever had any doubt, but I know that if it's in God's will, your prayers will be granted. I'm 99% sure that our case would have been placed back in AP had I not been there. Although the interviewer was very tough, I think deep down she had a good heart and could see that Kesso and I are genuinely in love. She's west indian and told me that she met her husband in Africa.
I want to thank everyone again for your support, prayers, and well wishes. We're so blessed to have found this site. I wish everyone all the best on your visa journeys and your lives together. Remember, when you put God first and stand together, you can accomplish almost anything!
God bless,
Shanon
Boaz
Oct 29 2007, 05:36 PM
Although it started off rough, this is indeed wonderful!
Boaz
Bassi and Zainab
Oct 29 2007, 07:27 PM
Wow girl! They definitely gave you a hard time. I am so happy it all worked out. I pray he arrives to you safely. God Bless!
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