hi dear Vj friends...
ultimately got the k3visa...
but my wife doesnt want to stay with me.after i am here she says she wants to get seprated..
i am just crying & crying..isnt she shall told me this before
what shall ido ...i have k3 visa....how can i continue to stay after k3 visa expires.
please help me what shall ido now..i am just crying day & night.
If she help me with AOS how much will it require?
after getting green card will i have to depend on her

I'm sorry for your heartache but in order to adjust your status, you'll need her full cooperation. If you are no longer living together and your marriage relationship is no longer bona fide, you will have no basis for adjusting status. You can't even file to do so without an I-864 from her.

Your question begs the question, "Did you get the visa and come to the USA to be with your wife or because you wanted to live in the USA?" You should know that USCIS expects your reason was the one you both stated on your paperwork and you stated at your interview, that the reason for the petition and visa application was to reunite a married couple. If that purpose is no longer valid, you no longer have basis to remain in the US.

Now, if staying married is your goal, then perhaps seeking assistance to save your marriage would be a more practical use of your energies.

yeah wtf... you sound a lot more worried about staying in the US than trying to save your marriage!

agree

I agree with you pushbrk. I also have doubts about whether this marriage is just about getting to United States. If I was in this situation, I would worry more about saving the "marriage" rather than trying to figure out a way to live in United States. Marriage is the reason that K3 was issued in the first place. So if the marriage dissolves, their is basis to go ahead with AOS.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU , IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO TRY AND SEE WHAT YOUR OPTIONS WOULD BE IN AMERICA IF YOU ARE NOT LIVING WITH HER ANYMORE BUT I BET THINKING ABOUT PAPERWORK AGAIN AFTER GOING THROUGH ALL THE WAITING A K-3 VISA WAS NOT ON YOUR PLANS .

I DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BUT IF TRYING TO FIX THINGS IS AN OPTION GIVE IT A SHOT .



GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING OK

pretty sure you'll have to return

I think the only advice we can give you is try to work things out with your wife

Why does she want to separate? Does she just want some time apart, or does she want immediate divorce?