QUOTE(akatagirl @ Sep 28 2007, 10:45 AM)

QUOTE(Bassi and Zainab @ Sep 28 2007, 07:43 AM)

Now, I guess it's a wait, wait and more wait and that's a little discouraging. At least knowing what's coming allows me to try and adjust for it so I don't get depressed. I guess I'll have to make another trip over there. If I knew it were going to take a year, I would just plan a wedding instead and file an I-130. I thought the 129 was faster.
Bassi and Zainab,
You did the right think filing for an i-129f instead of an i-130 petition because if you had chosen to get married in Ghana like we did, it would have taken even longer that than the fiance visa for the Ghana embassy to schedule interviews. Overall, if you had married in ghana the paperwork would take longer (i.e processing at the NVC and then even longer for the Ghana embassy to schedule an interview) Just keep on them at the Ghana embassy and keep doing your research for on what documents your future hubbies will need to gather (i.e police reports, birth cerfiticates, passports and your end, make sure you have compiled convincing evidence that you met, spend time together (i.e. phone records, text messages, letters, pictures.etc.)
Zeenusah and Bassi and Zaianab, just try your best to hang in there. I know it seems that the waiting period is never ending but you and loved ones will get to the end of this visa journey. I think you can afford to another trip to see your loved ones will only help your mental state as well provide more proof for the embassy that your relationships are valid and true.
Thanks for that akatagirl.
I just looked at your time line and realize how long it took you to get your husband here...insane
But that's the system for you.
What I want now is my interview date. I need something with a date to look forward to. All this waiting in limbo is kind of aggravating and depressing at the same time. I would feel a lot better if I could get someone at the US embassy in Ghana to answer my questions but they are all morons. A "Yes we have your petition" or a "No we haven't gotten it yet" would be enough.
Once I have that interview date I will feel a lot better.