I'm finally getting around to this. The part where I have to post that my fiance has changed his mind. I don't know the exact reasons he now feels this way other than the seperation we've had to endure. I think he just didn't keep the faith that we would be together. It's all very tragic.
Thanks to all the couples for the advice I've received here and I wish you all, the very best and quick reunions!!!

I am so sorry to hear this - you are in my prayers......

So sorry to hear about this

Sorry to hear about that. hugs and prayers, Tara

I'm sorry to hear about this. wish you all the best

Caro

I am so sorry for you; I can only imagine how hard this is; does he just have cold feet or has he move on to other things.

I'm very sorry! But I think it's pretty shitty that he couldn't hold on for another month. You deserve better and better will come along...... good luck to you.

I'm very sorry to hear about this.

im so sorry to hear that... why he acted like a chicken? anyway, you deserve better than him... just let it go, there's reasons for everything. maybe he has his own personal reason too. i'll pray for you.

I'm so sorry Big hugs and remember that even though it seems hard now, things will get better Let us know how you're doing

Sorry to hear of your fiance's change of heart.

I'm very sorry to hear that. I know you don't need this now, but in my point of view, it's better this way, thinking of what happened earlier on as well. You will find someone much better, altho it might be too soon to think like that now.

All the best on your journey and I am sure you will find the special someone who is worthy of you

We are both sorry to hear about your predicament. Someone will come along, someone who will endure because you deserve better.

I'm sorry it did not work out for you,but good luck in the future

I too am sorry that he couldn't hold on and have more faith in you and the relationship you had together. Better now than down the road and married. Kinda hard to see that right now I'm sure. Hold your head high...you did everything you could. Best wishes for the future.

It's always heartbreaking to hear about this, and I'm sure it's something most of us fear in the back of our heads. I wish you well.

Oh my...

I'm terribly sad to hear your news, but I am sure you will be stronger after this experience, and will be far better off without him. Someone wonderful is waiting in your future, no doubt about it!

At least you'll know that it wasn't your fault that hings didn't work out. You did everything you could, and sooner or later he will find out the mistake that he did giving up, but by then it'll be too late. Keep your head high and give time, time and in the end it'll be snother experience in your life. There's a season for everything under heaven, just remember that, I wish you the best......

I am so sorry to hear about this .... I wish you the best

If I'm not mistaken, you wrote about him vacillating on your marriage a little while ago?---right? I'm very sorry---I can't imagine how you must be hurting. You deserve (and will find) better. The black hole you are in right now will fade with time.

I'm so sorry to hear of this. I know Pete and I have had our share of squabbles, and even broke up for a couple of weeks. The stress with this visa process is enough to send anyone over the edge...having to be kept away from the one you love for so long. We have reconciled, and just look forward to the future....we know how we are in person with one another, and that the love is strong. The internet and telephone conversations are just temporary. Perhaps he will have a change of heart, if it is meant to be. If not, best to find out now, and realize that there is still someone out there worth your love. xxx Best of luck to you.

I am so so sorry to hear this .... Wish you all the best


Jamil