xtin,
I'm sorry to hear about your husband. I do recall you posting about it during your AOS process but I wasn't sure at first if it was you.
In your case, you don't have to wait until 90 days before your conditional GC expires. You can file now under a waiver ....
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If you are still married, the petition should be filed jointly by you and the spouse through whom you obtained conditional status. However, you may apply for a waiver of this joint filing requirement if:
1. You entered the marriage in good faith, but your spouse subsequently died;
You may find all this
here.
As to your other questions:
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1.they will give me a 10 yr. PR? is this right?
Yes, you will get a 10-year Green Card.
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2. do i have to wait for 10 yrs before i can apply for citizenship?
No. But I do think you have to wait 5 years from the date your conditional GC was approved before you can apply for citizenship.
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and also, me & my husband dont have names together on our properties and bank account ( he was divorced before so he does not want his ex get some of our stuff that we put up together).
You may send:
1) Tax transcripts that you and your husband filed since you got married
2) Utilities under both your names. If you don't have any, submit bills that show your husband's name and addressed to your joint residence plus bills showing your name and addressed to your joint residence.
3) Cards from friends, relatives addressed to both of you; or addressed to you during your husband's passing
4) letters from friends, relatives
You might also want to consider getting affidavits from friends. According to USCIS, these are
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Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by at least two people who have known both of you since your conditional residence was granted and have personal knowledge of your marriage and relationship. (Such persons may be required to testify before an immigration officer as to the information contained in the affidavit.) The original affidavit must be submitted and also contain the following information regarding the person making the affidavit:his or her full name and address; date and place of birth; relationship to you or your spouse, if any; and full information and complete details explaining how the person acquired his or her knowledge.
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3. will i have trouble filing for my I751?
I personally don't think you will have any trouble.