I'm not going to lie..the first time we were denied was our fault. We thought he could "visit" for 6 months which is what the USCIS told us..and that we could file for the paperwork when we got back to TX after the wedding. We screwed up..got TERRIBLE advice from the USCIS and weren't thinking straight with the stress of the wedding and everything. We tried to DRIVE down together, WHAT WERE WE THINKING?!?!?! Oh well, they were nice about it and said to come back with ties and equities..
Second time was NOT OUR FAULT BY ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION!!!!!!!!!!!!
My husband carries business cards in his wallet..
When he played hockey down here he had this guy who was a huge fan of his and they had like interests. Jarett (my husband) had his business card in his wallet. He already had a red flag on his profile from the August disaster so they had further questions for him. My husband had a return plane ticket after being down here for 2 weeks. He was coming down for Christmas and my sister's wedding.

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Long story short, the customs officer decided to be a grinch and call this redneck hockey fan to talk to him about Jarett. The officer asked if Jarett was going to work down here when he came to TX. My husband and this guy have not talked since Jarett played hockey in 2004, the guy had NO idea our situation or that we were even married. He thought this phone call was some sort of "employment reference" and said YES (can you believe it) that Jarett was going to come down and work at his shop. I'm still in shock that he did that. To give him credit, the officer went into a separate room to call him, and I wouldn't doubt if the officer asked the question in a way that he would get the response he wanted to deny my husband, just to be a jerk. He wasn't banned but again had no proof that he was going to come back to Canada. He works for himself (contract log home builder), lives with his parents to save money AND doesn't want to get into any type of lease because HOPEFULLY he'll be moving here soon. Honestly, no ties or equities.
He's a little frustrating..he had no trouble for 4 years to come down and entertain the Americans..but to come down and visit his wife is impossible. They make him feel like a terrorist.
Anyway, playing hockey is our last hope. I have to be here because I have a GREAT job that won't be waiting for me if I move to Canada.
QUOTE(djc @ Sep 19 2007, 04:03 PM)

That would be a no-brainer for me.
Americans love hockey players... if he were already here on another visa, then you could just AOS instead....
Did they tell him what kind of ties he could bring to prove himself? A rental agreement/bills/anything? Being turned back twice must just be awful. Did the border say something like 3 times and you're banned or anything like that?
I would go for the try-out thing, and get your congressman involved. Make sure the congressional office flags his name at the border crossing point so they can check him (this might take a few long hours).
If you're looking at my timeline, I will be waiting more than 6 months for an interview. There is very little that I wouldn't give to have had that time with my husband.
QUOTE(kcmetzy @ Sep 19 2007, 04:49 PM)

Ok ya'll always have good advice so please let me know what you think.

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My husband (boyfriend at the time) played hockey here in TX for 4 seasons from 2000-2004. He quit playing hockey in 2004. He never violated or outstayed his H2B visa while he played. My husband and I were married in July of 2006 in Canada. Unfortunately, he was denied entrance into the U.S. in August '06 and December '06 due to lack of ties and equities to Canada. Now that you have some background information..here's the deal..
We had absolutely NO idea how long it would take for him to immigrate to the U.S.
We could be waiting upwards of 6 months to have an interview scheduled in Montreal.
Hockey season down here starts in next month. I am positive my husband would have no problem getting a "try-out" to try and make the team. A try out agreement is a letter from the hockey team asking for permission for the player to try out for the team. It is only a I-94 for around a month. If the player makes the team then later he receives an H2B visa which is valid until June or so after the hockey season ends.
My husband would have no problems making the hockey team and then we could be together next month rather than in 6 months. I am just not sure if they will grant him an I-94 with only a try-out aggrement knowing that he is married to a U.S. citizen and was denied entry twice when trying to come down and visit me. They thought that he would not return home to Canada after going to visit his wife.
Anyway, any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.
He is very nervous to even TRY and come down to play hockey. He is afraid that if he is denied a 3rd time then they might try and ban him from the U.S. for a certain amount of time. Should we wait the 6 months, or try and be together next month legally?!?!?!?!? what to do..what to do..
Thanks in advance for your help.
Kristen