QUOTE(StillThePrettiest @ Sep 16 2007, 02:58 AM)

my NOA1 date is so early because I used the 'received' date printed on it, as instructed by bszoom in another thread... we didn't actually have it til about two weeks later (which is still pretty quick, when you consider the current climate, AND that they sent our petition to CSC from Vermont for some weird reason I have yet to understand)
no, no offence whatsoever

I'm not tired of people 'complaining and ranting'; I know that's part of the reason we're all here... however I do my best, here as anywhere else, to be rational and logical about things; so if someone just says 'I am absolutely sick and tired of waiting to be with my fiance/e; I had no idea it was going to take this long and I wish they'd hurry up', my response is likely to be sympathy, or nothing; that's just ranting, and I COMPLETELY understand it; hell, I just had one paltry week with my fiancé after a nine month absence; I can understand people being annoyed or depressed or angry or tearful or whatever!
however, if they say things like 'they should prioritise citizens', or 'I thought they were supposed to process petitions in the order in which they were received', or something like that, I'll sometimes respond, because there's a logical flaw in the statement, and I figure if I can answer the question then maybe the person might feel a bit better about that aspect of the situation, at least... we all rant, from time to time, about all manner of things that are getting us down, but I don't see the sense in ranting about something that isn't true, or whatever, so I'd rather address that if I can
hope that all makes sense

no offence to you either... and I also wish you a speedy NOA2

The fact is they don't process anyone in order , is a total mess , one couple is approved in 3 months , one couple never hears back for a year .
Immigration , they process work visas for companies over family , infarct they do a good job, of destroying relationships due to they wait for the visas and 1 year is crazy , charge more money , and follow up these women in the USA , and make sure they were not fraudulent relationships,
You tell in an interview or paper , charge the money and get the good people through, and send the bad people back. That is fair !
Also due to the time .
Some people are sick, or have sick family members.
another thing that really is so strange I am applying for a fiancee visa, and even though I spent times with her toting about 28 days , and always on the phone .
it will be a year before if she will get here , then we have less 3 months to get married ,...
There is no logic , some countries allow direct consular filling which saves months ,.
When I think how many women come here just for the visa and the poor men that get taken advantage of in the end, what a torture
How do I know these things , because it happened to me with a colonization girl from cali
she was here within 2 months after we started , and we were to marry in the USA , but to get here in the USA , she pulled a trick on me , she had me said a power of attorney for one thing that she used me to get me married in Colombia ( I know sounds stupid, but is happening all to often from south America, because they all have family and friends here , and many women leave the men with in 1 yr - 2) , and she came here , She seemed so nice . 3 years later she extorted money from me, and I lost
so much money and the best years of my life. What is my point , if they make this process easier , and more costly at the start , and us guys can be with our fiancees for longer times here in the USA , less bad women will end up getting papers , and our Gov't should crack down on that . letting women stay who never intended to stay with the man she did the visa with is fraud, but I never heard of a women being sent back, just us poor guys suffering ,
Gosh I am a US Citizen , do I get any rights lol ,
Same with workers that change status, or tourist , they should be last in line , family's come first , then US citizens applying , that would make sense , following up tourists that over stayed there visas, people that did fraud , our country does not do that , they keep family apart for years ...
I know write my congressman.
If they cant do it due to man power raise the fees.. that will stop alt of bad eggs right off the start ..
In the end there is no fairness, the order , the processing , the laws, the way they judge women that came here to the USA on fraud .
I know my girl from the Philippines two years . she has surprised me so many times with the things she does for me and her love, if she is an actress , then she is great , but wow .
Only I know that she loves me and how much,. I have had I guess many women , and
they say you can tell the difference, well I feel it , physically , , what she does, how hard she works at her job, and barely she has time for sleep , all waiting for our visa !
From the day I met her, from now, . I look to see bad, but I cant find it , now I wait alone , months and months just so we can live together,
All I can say is thank god I have the money to plan vacations to see her, and she works hard to do same ,.
My old whatever .
The girl from Colombia Yahira aleman sch... went on to hurt others
and I think might be looking for a new husband because last I heard she want to live in Europe
she thinks the USA , has to many problems ,,, how funny she even gets to choose which country to grab the next victom ,...
In the end what is someone heart , or in there head, no one can tell , I feel we should get fast approvals , charge more money , and see and chack on the women ( or men ) after they arrive in the USA , ( like a probation period) the truth comes ut here . I know of 3 women that came here from south america that did not eeven stay with the men they made visa with, for more than 2 moths, and they had other boyfriends here , wow that i would love to see , catching those women and sending them packing on there way home, I think we do things backwards .. oh well I pray my good day will come when my fiancee can be here with me
The fact is they don t process anyone in order , is a total mess , one couple is apprroved in 3 months , one couple never hears back for a year .
they process work visas for compnaies over family , infact they do a good job, of runing relatiionship, due to the time .
Some peole are sick, or have sick famimly memebers , //..
another thing that really is so strange i am applyig for a fiancee visa, and even though i spent times with her toting about 28 days , and always on the phone .
it will be a year before if she will get here , then we have less 3 months to get married ,...
There is no logice , some countries allow direct consular filling whih saves months ,.
When i think how many women come here just for the visa and the poor men that get taken advantage of in the end, what a torture
How do i know these things , becuase it happeaned to me with a colomiabian girl from cali
she was here within 2 months after we started , and we were to marry in the usa , but to get here in the usa , she pulled a trick on me , she had me said a power of attorney for one thig that she used to get me married in colombia , and she came here , She seemed so nice . 3 years later she extored money from me, and i lost
so much money and the best years of my life. WHat is my point , if they make this process easier , and more costly at the start , and us guys can be with our fiancees for lomger times here in the USA , less bad women will end up getting papers , and out Gov t should crack down on that . letting women stay who never innteded to stay with the man , same wth workers that change status, or toruist , they should be last in line , fmilys come frist , then US citzitens applying .
If they cant do it due to man power raise the fess.. that will stop alt of bad eggs right off the start ..
In the end there is no fairness, the order , the processing , the laws, the way they judge women that came here to the usa on fraud .
I know my girl from the philippines two years . she has surprised me so may times with the things she does.
From the day i met her, from now, . I look to see bad, but i cant find it , now i wait alone , months and months just so we can live together,
all i can say is thk god i have the money to plan vacations to see her, and she works hard to do same ,.
The girl from colombia Yahira aleman sch... went on to hurt
Ok i wrote way to much, but now i have true love and i pray for the good day that will come when my fiancee can be here with me in florida!!!!!