QUOTE(meauxna @ Apr 14 2006, 07:55 PM)

Pleeeeease talk with a lawyer. I don't know anyone here who is qualified to give you any answers. Your situation is very unique.
I agree. The OP does need to speak with a competent immigration attorney, as her situation certainly is mnot typical and warrants proper attention and legal assistance. The value of a newsgroup is to become familiar with general procedure and to know what makes an individual's case different from the norm. It's helpful to identify what those specific differences are and to seek an attorney to share with you exactly why specific details in your particular circumstance govern what you may or may not be able to do.
QUOTE(Canindian @ Apr 14 2006, 07:34 PM)

Thank you all for your advise and support. My marriage was exactly 6 months when he died. What does "legally separated" mean.
What is "legally separated" and "immediate relative" ?
Immediate relative is a parent, child, spouse
Legal separation in the immigration context is a court recognised separation, either mandated by the court, or subject to agreement filed and memorialised with the court. Parties not residing together may not necessarily constitute legal separation in specific circumstances and at specific stages in the immigration process. Of course in some instances, whether seperation is the precursor to and indicative of a marriage in a terminal and irretrievable stage, is subject to discretion of an AO.