For those of you in the USA (or planning to live there and knowing where you are moving to)- where do you live, and do you like it there? Is it good for families?
Quick run-down of our situation: DH is from Arkansas and came over to Ireland to marry me. He is very homesick, an American (Republican!) through-and-through and cannot really settle here. We were always going to move to the USA at a later stage, but are now thinking of bringing this forward from the vague "in 6-8 years" to at the end of my maternity leave (I am due our first babies, fraternal twins, on 24th February 2008, so we'd move late 2008), assuming the DCF for my residency, which we haven't started yet, comes through by then.
For various reasons (including heat- I don't do well in heat), we do not want to move to Arkansas, and there are no familial ties to anywhere else. We'd like to be near a city with good employment prospects (DH is in computer sales/ support, I am in callcenter/ event management), but not one of the huge ones (LA, NYC, Chicago etc). Most of California and the Pacific North-West is out, I think, as it is just a little too liberal for us. So... I am looking for recommendations of where to move to!
We are currently considering Colorado Springs, CO; Athens, GA or Virginia, but are happy to look at other places too.
