I'm so glad you have a lawyer to get through this mess! Especially since it sounds like the judge, and prosecutor haven't got a clue. Hope they set the record straight about this previous charge they say you have. What goofs!! How are you making out not having any contact with your husband? My gosh, where are you even living? Was your husband at court? Did you have a chance to speak there?
What a nightmare! We're thinking of you, and appreciate in everything that's gone on, that you've updated us here. Remember we're your American/Canadian family too and wish you the best.
Carla