QUOTE(jg_am @ Aug 16 2007, 08:31 PM)

Somthing my wife and I just thought of is how do we prove relations if it's her grandparents? (her brother died) (They want us to show proof of him being her sister).
For the love of God, are they for real? How does one go about proving that you're related to anyone other than your parents or your children? I'll give it some thought but, for the life of me, I cannot think of anything other than a letter from an immediate relative or some sort of official who knows the two of them like a doctor, a police officer, a lawyer? Perhaps a clergy member or the funeral home director?
Forgive me for the rant but this is the number one reason why I would never recommend a K-1 visa. It is inhumane that, in time of great sorrow, you must prove to an immigration officer that you are in dire personal grief and NEED to go home. That the repercussions will be felt for LIFE? Perhaps a small melt-down in the office would do it? Grrrr. This just burns me up. Is there another office close by where you could, perhaps, find an official with compassion in their heart?
I wish you all the best.
/rant