You all need to lighten up, first of all I dont come on here or read peoples abusive stories and nor are they my problem.
Secondly I didnt even know this was an abused peoples forums I thought it was visa journey.
My only concern is my wife and I... sorry if I offended people but it was not my intention.
Enjoy your day.

Lighten up? Clearly there have been several people abused on this forum and knew that and started a thread joking about abuse by your wife?

That's messed up. It might not be your problem but that doesn't mean you need to be completely insensitive about other people's problems.

It is not an abused people's forum, but it has happened to a few going through their visa journey.

If your only concern is your wife then you shoudln't have posted that here.

Douche.

Maybe you didnt read, I dont read the stories here. It was just light humour. Had nothing to do with issues on here. Damn maybe I cant make a joke of anything incase theres another issue on that subject. Sorry Im a brit we have a sense of humour for everything.

Making jokes about abuse is not funny. Your post was not funny, it wasn't even cute. If Mireya had done any of what you said, she did it in the privacy of your own relationship. If it had been me, that wouldnt be something that I would want discussed with people. Your post made her look bad, it wasn't flattering at all. We all know her and love her but what you thought was a cute post about your love for her was very disrespectful actually.

If you have bad timing then you have bad timing but I really think you should quit while you're ahead

AGGGGGGGGGGGGG as you can tell my husband is a MORON. HE HAS NO CLUE WHAT THIS SITE IS ABOUT. IM REALLY SORRY FOR THE STUPID THING HE POSTED. I FEEL REAL BAD ABOUT THE STUPID idotic posts HE TRIED TO PULL. HE MIGHT SEE IT AS FUNNY I NOT FIND IT SO. Please forgive him HE NEVER EVER COMES ON VJ AND HAS NO CLUE WHAT GOES ON ON VJ AS HE NEVER READS ANY THING ON HERE. HIS POST HAD SOME EXTREAMLY BAD TIMING. HE DOES NOT KNOW THAT THIS PLACE IS MORE THAT JUST A VISA FORUM. AGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG I WANT TO TWIST HIS EARS 360.

Well sorry we "uptight" Americans do not get your "British" sense of humor. Your joke has bad timing because of things happening on the board right now as others have pointed out. Besides, I thought Brits were supposed to have a "stiff upper lip"? Maybe you should try a closed lip until you care to learn about what is going on with members here.

LOL Mireya should we just chalk it up to temporary insanity on his part due to the ridiculous wait you two are dealing with?

PLEASE DO. WHEN I READ THAT I ALMOST HAD A HEART ATTACK.

I can imagine.

Maybe i will smack him for real when i see him. i will walk straight to the kitchen and grap the frying pan....and say "so what was that you were saying that i that i punch you ?"

ADIEL UR GOING TO GET IT FOR REAL WHEN I COME TO LONDON!!!!! IM NOT COOKING AND CLEANING AN I EXPECT FOR YOU TO TEND ON MY HAND AND FOOT FOR THE TIME THAT I AM THERE JUST FOR THIS!

Me too , I think my monitor would have had coffee all of over it!

I'm soooo glad my husband doesn't even know how to sign up for this site!

yikes. my husband reads here sometimes, very rarely but he doesnt post....not his thing....

abuse is not joke!!

erm can you find it in yourself to get over it since Ive already apologised. Cheers big ears

It seems you are the one not over it since you are still commenting on it. Your further attempts at humor are lame.

There was no further attepts of humour. As I already stated this post was an apology to people who were offended.

Obviously.

Exactly so whats your problem?

You and your crass, idiotic joke. My problem now is that you seem to be beating a dead horse.

What is YOUR problem? If you were sincere in your apology then you should be the one to back down at this point. I think you have already created enough drama for the day and clearly you are not thinking of your wife. She comes to this place for support so why are you being so rude and harsh with everyone?

Good grief. I think it's Mireya speaking now and she doesn't deserve to be treated this way.

Maybe you have selected reading skills, I already APOLOGISED on this topic... can you not see.
Your lack of self esteem is so obvious.

Well now it's getting really confusing. Can you guys get 2 separate accounts?

I am sincere in my apology I just dont understand why she had to continue when I already apologised, I just answered her post thats all.

OMG! I can only begin to imagine the things my husband would post!

And your lack of attention is obvious. You made a stupid, insensitive joke and people were offended because members on this board are going through abuse right now and you admittedly said that you did not care. Now you can continue to entertain no one and make yourself look even sillier than you have already ,but I am done with your foolishness. If you were sincere in your apology you would have just left it at that and not started to tell members to "lighten up". Abuse may be funny to you,but it is not to many others. I do not know is it husbands gone wild day today on VJ?

guys ~ please let it go.

Sorry but that cracked me up!

I think Jenn's suggestion is good, people should have their own accounts.

Ok every one look he appologsied. Can we just please move on. Jodo, by him saying his little lines thats just the way he talks all the time. It's a Brit thing I suppose part of their lingo. Trust me not all Brits are up tight and what not, just like not all Brits have bad teeth. Those are just stupid stereotypes. Take it from me I hear his little sayings all day, like "thast the way it goes big nose" and MANY MANY MORE. ITS HARD to shut this one up. Hes not droping cocky lines to add more salt to the wound, merly replying to comments and the other little lines are part of his character not lame humor. I see both sides of this and please lets move on. He is not here to make this any worse his appology was sincere and did not really know what was going on. And no he does take that issue as a joke. it was just bad timeing.

Yes I did make a stupid joke not knowing what the subjects were on the forum. But when I was enlightened on that I immediately apologised to people who were offended, please read again.
My only issue happens to be with yourself, since you continued your ranting even though I publicaly stated an aplology. Abuse is not funny neither is war nor anyother violence related subject. Anywhere else that would have just been passed over and I would not have made it if I had prior knowledge on the abuse cases on here. Since you stated your american and you "americans" have a different sense of humour than us brits. Well I've seen or should I say the world has seen your sense of humour the way you torture Iraqis in abu-gharaib prison and take sick pictures of them. Maybe thats more your american humour. I think it would be more appropriate for you to rant on about that.
Thanks

Why are you directing this at JODO?

WOW. I rarely read this forum, but what I find much more shocking than the garbage your husband posted is that fact that you said "as you can tell my husband is a MORON".

That's not exactly a light-hearted term like "goofball" - and it's a pretty harsh thing to call the person you love. After all, you're going through a nightmare process trying to get him a visa, yet you think it's a moron.

I'm tellin' ya these guys need a room of their own!!!!

JUST STOP IT, PLEASE...

GET YOUR OWN ACCT, SO WE DON'T HOLD ALL YOUR BS AGAINST MIREYA!

Ok this thread is going no where. I am locking it at this time.